Anybody else 4 dpo - I'm going crazy!

[WonderVibe]

Could do with people to get through the 2ww with!

DH is away and back on Saturday so hoping to test Friday / Saturday at the earliest and don't want to cave sooner

I find it so very consuming, I just wonder if it's time to concentrate on what I have and enjoy living in the present again! I hate how this makes me feel

@JoRobyn i totally get it. People say when they gave up trying that’s when they got pregnant as well. You’re right to just think to live in the present, life is too short, but I know that’s easier said than done. When you want something badly it’s hard to let go, but it doesn’t have to be over until you have decided it is!

how many months TTC is this? Is this baby #1 you are trying for?

This was cycle 6, and no, 3! Have two wonderful boys 5 and 3 who need their Mum not to be so self absorbed for a week every month haha

Oh lovely @JoRobyn i have one gorgeous boy and am so so lucky. The love and longing is there for another though ❤️

10DPO and BFN here again 🥲

Same also, I guess could still be early but I feel like it's not for me. Hope you're ok @Boymum111, it really is crushing, you do never know though, seen people here bfn at this stage then bfp xx

thanks @JoRobyn hope you’re ok too. Xx

could be early but I’m not just not feeling it either. 10DPO was when I got my BFP with my little boy so feeling deflated and I remember at this stage I was feeling a lot of things and got morning sickness etc very early. Every pregnancy is different so I suppose it’s not the end…but no symptoms at all, in fact I’m full of energy.

I guess we just don’t know yet 🥲

@WonderVibe
@Darcy86

how are you both getting on?

@JoRobyn BFN again - think I’m out - just going from that and how I’ve felt previously compared to now. Until next month 🥲

Just incase anyone looks here in the future for reassurance - I got a faint BFP in the late afternoon of 11 DPO and today v faint in morning of 12DPO and stronger (but still faint) in the afternoon.

I seem to get stronger BFP in the afternoons for some reason.

Good luck everyone x

Congratulations @Boymum111

Oh wow how one day can make such a difference!! Huge congrats!

We've just come back from a weekend away celebrating my son's 2nd birthday so it's been nice to have other things occupying my brain but now am straight back in speculation mode 🤣 I think I'm 10dpo today, no real symptoms and still planning on waiting until the weekend at least to test. Fingers crossed though 🙏

11dpo today and had a random nosebleed...?! Have read this can be a sign and also had this a bit with my first, although not quite this early. Obviously now my hopes have spiked considerably and I'm symptom spotting like crazy!

AF for me like clockwork 😭

@JoRobyn sorry the witch arrived. Have a nice glass of wine tonight and a bit of me-time - I know how disappointing this bit is!

I feel AF could be around the corner for me too. 12DPO today, feeling a few twinges, had some light pink spotting yesterday/this morning - feel like this is a bit late for implantation bleeding and I never had it with my first?

@JoRobyn sorry to hear AF arrived it’s such a rollercoaster. So disappointing but me time is needed now. I second @Darcy86 and open the wine!

I genuinely have no idea what’s going on with me. I had some very light pink spotting 11DPO @Darcy86 so not sure if that was implantation too? I know they say it comes earlier but unsure. I have faint positives in afternoons and evenings but in mornings there is honestly hardly anything on the sticks, like if you weren’t really looking it would seem negative. Unsure if it’s maybe a chemical then. The rollercoaster continues!

Also @Darcy86 i had nosebleeds as a symptom with my first pregnancy, and throughout 1st trimester x

@Boymum111 how many DPO are you now - around 14? It could just be that little bit too early still to properly show. I had nosebleeds with my first too but not this early so am trying not to read too much into it (so hard!)

Planning on testing this weekend if AF doesn't rear her head...keep us posted on how you are getting on!

@Darcy86 yep 14DPO and AF due tomorrow so I just need to be patient! Maybe too early but just strange fist thing in the morning when it should show the most it isn’t…just unsure 🫤

good for you holding out to the weekend, early testing has caused me so much stress! Everything crossed

Sending love @Boymum111, it's so hard when you feel so unsure. Really keeping everything crossed for you. You too @Darcy86

Yes, no work tomorrow so think will have a little drink tonight. Then I need to have a big think. Head says time to stop, heart is another matter.

Do keep us posted! I'm rooting for these babies!

@JoRobyn thanks so much 🥰

battles of the heart and head are tough. Just give yourself all the time you need to decide and in the meantime enjoy your little loves ❤️ that’s my plan regardless of the outcome this time x

Hello! Is anyone still in their 2WW? Currently on cycle #1 of baby number 2. Last time took 18 months but using clomid fell within 1 month when had the correct dose. Have used that same dose this time and had peak clear blue on 7th and 8th feb (used 2 diff test holders) so assuming am about 1DPO. Anyone want to join me on the 2WW??

How are things @Boymum111 xxx

Hi @JoRobyn thanks for checking in! How are you feeling now?

so sadly it has been a chemical. I was getting positives, albeit very faint, until Thursday, and then AF arrived last night. It’s sad but tbh I’m glad that the not knowing is over, it’s such a rollercoaster. Things just didn’t feel right.

Hoping next month things are better for us all…

@Darcy86 how did you get on? Everything crossed for you.

@Clomidjourney2021 good luck on your 2WW. Mine won’t be starting again for a little while!