Anyone else on tww? Period due on 28th need a handhold !

[Tottenhaminmyblood]

Just wondering if anyone else is on the TWW so nervous that it won’t happen again for us .

@Tottenhaminmyblood apparently about a week! But he has to book in a time slot for its delivery at the hospital next… because it’s so time dependent from when you do it.

the biggest kick is that DSiS got pregnant 1st try in an arranged donor situation, several months after I’d come off contraception to try. I spent the whole time worrying about how I’d tell her I was pregnant, and how to have her as involved as possible since she had been so upset at turning 39 with no partner and probably not being able to afford an official donor. I kept the whole thing to myself as to not upset her… I felt like a mug.

Annnnnnnnd BFN, no shock at all! I guess I’d better hang tight for AF now…

Hi @Tottenhaminmyblood - I'm back on CD3, pretty sure I didnt ovulate last cycle and it ended up being only 17 days before I bled again! It's likely to just be messed up hormones from the mc so I've got everything crossed that when this bleeding is over I'll have a good month with positive opks! How are you doing?xx

So sorry about your bfn @AgeGapBbe, soul destroying isn't it xx

@Enigma85 after my sisters mc it took her 3 months for her cycles to become regular again so hopefully it won’t be that long for you . Are you going to use opks this cycle ? I’m ok just 8dpo and did a clear blue ovulation test as some people said that will show up a pregnancy but negative so I’m clearly not this month . Have you been keep img busy ? Xx

Me! I'm 2dpo today and think I'm going to have to test next Friday before we go to the in laws 😬 Ttc no2 and cycle 4.
Placemarking for now and will catch up tomorrow but I've seen lots of positives on here already 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 for many more x

Yes @Tottenhaminmyblood I'll start doing opks a couple of days after AF ends and really hope I get something this time. 8dpo is super early, there is still hope xxx

@Enigma85 i tested on a clear blue not a digital one but the other one today and was bfn , I’m due Friday so I’m out . I just don’t know if I can do this anymore . Hope your ok xx

So sorry @Tottenhaminmyblood it's just soul destroying isnt it. I'm on CD9 and got a flashing smiley this morning so hopefully my cycle is going to be more normal this month! It's weird though I don't feel how I usually do this time of the month where I get increased sex drive and CM so still not totally convinced. But we'll dtd every other day and will increase if it goes static. I've got everything crossed for you that AF doesn't come and you get a bfp xx

Ooo can I join? I think I’m on my TTW. Finished my period on 7th, don’t have consistent cycles as I’m still BF my son so sometimes my cycle is 15 days, sometimes 44 it’s a nightmare to track and ovulation tests never work for me. I’ve been feeling really sick, cramps, sore nipples and egg white mucus, then thick creamy and now a mixture but loads of it so have no idea what’s going on.

@Enigma85 really hoping that you will have got your stactic now ? Yes it’s just taking over my life and I am happy when everyone around me announcing but I can’t help but feel gutted . I know I’m out I have af pains now so may even be early . Hope your having a good week x

@LolaStanley1 of course ! Are you an early tester ? X

I did take a pregnancy test last week, probably was a little early but with no knowing how long my cycles are and ovulation happened i wasn’t sure. At moment I’m just testing with ovulation tests daily to see if I do have a surge, but if I remember correctly from my first time I never got a positive.

Af just came for me , I am absolutely gutted x

So so sorry @Tottenhaminmyblood - look after yourself, I find I'm really upset when it comes then start to get hopeful for the next month xx

How are you doing @Enigma85 ? Are you on your tww? I am trying the smep plan this month xx

Yep @Tottenhaminmyblood app thinks I'm 5dpo at the moment. We also did smep this month, looking at it we basically do that every month if we can just without that final one so we added that one in this time! I'm not feeling hopeful as I didnt have my increased sex drive or cm this month but it's still so hard not to think about it. Where abouts in your cycle are you?

Did you use ovulation tests ? I can never tell from my cm at all . Have you decided if you are going to test early or wait for Af day ? I am on cycle day 7 and negative ovulation today . I think I’ll probably try and dtd everyday from today if we can . Xx

@LolaStanley1 how are you doing ?

@AgeGapBbe how are you ?

I came on AF so I’m out this month and no wiser when I ovulate. My cervix has stayed the same height so I think when I thought it was high it’s just low for me

Thanks for asking @Tottenhaminmyblood , I’m pretty sure I’m due to ovulate tomorrow. But I’ve been a bit up and down the past couple of weeks tbh. Last night we were meant to dtd but ended up having a silly (very little) falling out in bed and it put me right off, which in turn made me feel even worse. I realise just how much pressure there is when you’ve been trying for a little while. So who knows for this month 🤷‍♀️ we had one night of no ejaculation, one night of a little bit, then 2 nights ‘off’. We can’t do it Friday night because we’ll be staying with his parents so tonight is our last hope for this month if the static smiley is as expected tonight! 🤦‍♀️

@LolaStanley1 are you using the clear blue ovulation tests ? I’ve found them brilliant z

@AgeGapBbe its so upsetting when things like that happen isn’t it . I hope you manage to dtd this evening . Did he go doctors ? X

He’s got the pot, he just needs to book in its delivery, and then do it! I’ve told him any time over the next 3 weeks is fine!

Ovulation day today and dtd last night- actually wondered if his sperm count is a bit on the low side, if a couple of nights off just before dtd as close to ovulation as possible- would be no bad thing.

How you doing @Tottenhaminmyblood ? I'm 10dpo but af due any day and I've got really bad cramps today. Took a test at 7dpo (way too early but couldn't resist!) And 9dpo and both bfn. I had a positive 8dpo with my MMC pregnancy in october so I'm sure I'm out this month x