Hi ladies,
Long time lurker here but I’ve posted once or twice before - hope everyone here is doing well as can be ❤️
No real point to my post just wanted to let my feelings out somewhere! I’m currently 22 + 3 and fell pregnant first month on Dr S complex plan for high killer cells, I couldn’t believe my luck after 3 consecutive losses and no loving children
Up until now our pregnancy has progressed well and we were so excited to be welcoming a baby boy in June. We had our abnormalities scan with Prof Akolekar last Thurs who flagged a heart defect called coartation of the aorta and wanted us to get checked out by a fetal cardiologist asap… yesterday we did and I don’t know what I was expecting to be honest - we’d been so conditioned to good news in this pregnancy that I thought it would really be ok
We found out baby boy, needs to have open heart surgery a couple days after he is born and I am terrified, which means I need to be induced so I can give birth at a different hospital which is joined with the Evelina children’s hospital in London
I can’t believe life would be so cruel to give us our rainbow to then find out he’ll need to spend the first 2-3 weeks of his little life in intensive care, I really am broken. The remaining 4 months of the pregnancy will be the easy bit as this condition doesn’t affect him in the womb, it’s knowing what’s waiting for us as soon as he’s born is the bit I’m struggling with - I was so concerned with not miscarrying that I was naive to think nothing else would happen
Thankfully it’s an isolated incident and the rest of his heart & body is perfect, but I’m just so heartbroken that I’ll give birth and he’ll be whisked away to intensive care, I don’t know how I’m going to cope xx