TTC chat thread 4

[Tropicana1]

New thread ladies as were nearly at 1000 and I don't want to lose you guys 😂

@MrsCristianoX ah gutted for you! I know what you mean feel like I know you all too 🤣
Hopefully 8 weeks and you'll be right back on the horse
@MamaSJ15 ah got my fingers crossed for this weekend for you

@Tropicana1 thank you 😊🤞

@MrsCristianoX sending you a big hug!!! I can only imagine how your feeling after that news 😔 but maybe a break will do you good!

@MamaSJ15 how are you feeling? Whereabouts are you in your cycle now?

@Hjudge56 I'm all good thanks 😊 keeping myself busy with work, a toddler and a house move 👍😂
CD27 for me today, AF due Saturday. Short luteal phase so only 8/9dpo at the moment! How about you? You doing okay?

@MamaSJ15 oh lovely! I’m 9DPO so we’re on a similar path which is nice! When is AF due for you? Are you feeling hopeful this cycle?

@Hjudge56 AF due Saturday, you? I want to feel hopeful but I'm just trying not to think too much about it because I don't want to be too disappointed again (bit of a silly thing to say cause I'm sure I'll be disappointed anyway!). We only DTD once but it was well timed, I'm hoping the 'less is more' approach works 🙈 how do you feel this cycle?

@MamaSJ15 @Hjudge56 so close! Good luck xx

@MamaSJ15 got my fingers crossed for you! Yeah I think less is more is smart! A lot of people I’ve seen on here tend to fall pregnant on the cycle they only DTD once or twice! So hopefully this is your month ☺️ We DTD 2 days before ovulation and the day of ovulation (I think! Just went off Ewcm this cycle!) so I’d say well timed like you but god knows! AF is due Tuesday!

Ah I’ve just tested and BFN! Don’t have much faith left this cycle

@Hjudge56 @MamaSJ15 good luck both of you! I think I'm in a similar place in my cycle.. currently 10DPO today, last month my LP was 12-13 days (AF arrived at night so not sure what to go off😅)

Ive had lots of different symptoms this month to last, dull aches and twinges days 6-7. Nausea I can't shift since 8DP0, headache and exhausted yesterday, and my BBT has really spiked the last two mornings.

Don't want to get my hopes up but it's so hard to ignore things in TWW!

@Hjudge56 there's still time for your bfp, chin up! I'm feeling a bit crampy today, nothing major but definitely something there. 😕 I don't usually get crampy before AF, it's usually as it's arriving, but who knows.

@Havanalily1806 thank you, you too! They all sound like good signs! When is AF due for you?

@MamaSJ15 I think maybe Sunday

Last month my LP was 11-12 days, it was kind of over night so I'm going with 12 days so it would be Sunday... but it could be different this month. My cycles are a bit all over so I don't really have anything to go off.

@Havanalily1806 were all around a similar time at the moment then! 12 days is pretty good LP. Since the miscarriage mines been shorter at about 10 usually. Before that I was usually like clockwork 28 day cycle, ovulate day 14 but all out of whack since then. I seem to now have gone back to a 28 day cycle, ovulate around CD18 🤦🏼‍♀️

@MamaSJ15 sorry to hear about your miscarriage 🙁

My cycles are so irregular, I've had 45,40,65 and thought I was on for a 35 day cycle, however I've just gotten two vvvfl on a FRER and an easy@home 😭

@Havanalily1806 oh yay!! Fingers crossed it progresses!
I'm on CD30, AF was due yesterday but BFN on cheapie test this morning. Premom shows today as AF due day though so who knows. But I'm still only 10/11dpo. I'm not holding out much hope.

@MamaSJ15 fingers crossed AF doesn’t show up for you today!!!

@Havanalily1806 ah amazing!!! Have you got pictures?

@Havanalily1806 I need pictures because I have withdrawal from POAS 😂

@Havanalily1806 ooh I found the picture in record time. Cancel that

@MamaSJ15 I’ve got all my fingers crossed for you!
@Hjudge56 @MrsCristianoX I’ve attached it, it’s so hard to get a photo of it but it was there on both the FRER and easy@home … my fiancé even spotted it without me needing to point it out 😂 so I’m hoping I get something a bit clearer tomorrow… still got the nausea and boobs are getting worse as the day goes on 😅

@Havanalily1806 i can see it!!!! I think this is the start of your BFP 🥰

I was a bfn this morn on cheapie unfortunately but there’s always another cycle!

@Havanalily1806 it's absolutely there 💕

@Hjudge56 thank you, still not arrived yet. Sorry about your BFN, when did you say AF is due? It was BFN for me this morning too but I'm still only 10/11 dpo even though AF is late, it's all very complicated 😂
@Havanalily1806 thank you! Definitely see that line! Congratulations!! 🥳🥳

@MamaSJ15 thats okay! I’m getting a bit numb with it tbh… the first 2-3 months of trying I was getting really down when AF came then I had a couple months not tracking anything, and now I’m just trying not to get upset so it is what it is! I won’t test again now as AF is due tomorrow and I’ve woken up with AF cramps so I know she will poke her ugly head round the door V soon haha! I’m 13Dpo today and am sure I would have have at least something faint if it was my month! Let us know how you get on next test!

@Hjudge56 oh that's rubbish. Do you think AF is on its way then?
I will do, can't bring myself to test yet as yesterday's was very negative! 12 dpo today and 2 days late now. Will see how long I last before I test or AF arrives!

@MamaSJ15 keeping my fingers crossed for you!!