Hoping for a BFP in July/august

[Shiny88]

New follow on thread I may have missed some people 🙈

@BellaTheDarkOverlord
@My2boysaremyworld
@JB2021
@AJuicyPeach
@Baby3herewego
@Gizzy93
@hevann
@Missgemini
@Purple29

@AnnMii Congratulations!!!!

@anotherscroller actually a lot of ICs are 10miu/ml and I think frer is tested to slightly above that from recollection

@anotherscroller will get clear blue today to see if that’s any darker then frer. Yesterday lines on cheapies were barely notice, today a lot darker. Praying this is it, but will believe it only when I see the scan 🫣

@OneMoreLittleFox thank you xx Fingers crossed

@AnnMii definitely positive! Congratulations!
Were the cheapies positive yesterday as well?

@AnnMii ah sorry just seen your message about the cheapies yesterday 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

😅 not to worry, il post picture from yesterday

@AnnMii just saw what you said about a geneticist. I have PCOS and a Gluten Allergy both of which contribute early loss. It was a very long road conceiving and carrying my DC. Because I have 3 DC my GP is not interested at all. After ntnp for probably nearly 4 years, we have only on recent cycles started actively trying. Unfortunately my OH does not have any children. He also suffers from anorgasm, so the likelihood of us conceiving the conventional way is very low, even though we have a number of times. So now we are doing AI or partial AI to increase our chances and hopefully crack this egg. Even if we could afford it we would not do IVF, as it is not a journey we wish to take, so we have settled for one last year of trying and trying hard and then we are done.

Hey ladies.... long time no speak... @My2boysaremyworld @hevann @Shiny88 @BellaTheDarkOverlord & all the others on the last threads I was on! I really needed a break as I was struggling mentally and just feeling down! Now on cycle 7... cycle day 9! Fertile period started yesterday. Doing SMEP again with OPKs & temping. How are you all doing? @hevann I am so confused I thought you had a BFP two weeks ago?? Is everything ok? Congrats @JB2021 !!! Look forward to chatting this month. Not feeling hopeful tbh because of the heat and it lowers sperm quality and count. Struggling to stay upbeat feeling like it's never going to happen xx

@Angie2018 I hope you're ok? I was wondering where you were? I'm a day ahead of you, cycle day 10 fertile window started on Tuesday! Think we might lose a bit of weight this week 🥵 lol! Fingers crossed for you for this cycle. I really do hope you're doing ok.

I did get a BFP on the Sunday when I posted, I also got one on the Monday but the Monday night I started spotting which turned in to the heaviest period I've had 😢 I'm fine, but I have learnt my lesson for testing to early, had I not tested I would never have known. Going to wait until my period is late this month if it gets that far. I'm not testing anything either this month just going with the flow. I think doing BBT & OPKs stressed me out to much last cycle. xx

@AnnMii congratulations! Definitely looks positive to me. x

@hevann omg I am so sorry... that happened to me the cycle before you. It's really horrible isn't it! How are you doing and how is your OH? Tbh I am not hopeful this month. We are doing SMEP again, I am tracking with OPKs and temping but it will be my last month of doing so. I have got to the stage where I just feel like a failure and where I can't be bothered! I think my research on heat and what it does to sperm has made me feel like it won't happen this month now we have a bloody heatwave!! I won't be testing either. Due to ovulate on Sunday, we've been DTD every other day since my period ended, so we are DTD enough and will do 4 days in a row from tomo. I just feel flat with it all. Everyone around me is pregnant or announcing they are pregnant or just having babies and it's getting to me. Let's hope and pray it is our month xx

I don't need to wait to test. AF showed her face out of the blue... 😭

On a positive at least my cycle is now back to normal after CP and we can get on to the fun of trying this cycle haha.

Good luck to everyone else ❤️

@TheCakeIsALie18 sorry AF showed. That's rubbish but positive if your cycles are back to normal.

@Angie2018 sorry for your hard time. Hope you get your BFP this time!

CD9 today. Trying out SMEP so will be testing OPK in a few hours. Not temping this cycle, might try next one if still trying.

@BellaTheDarkOverlord thank you! Likewise I hope you do too.

I am not hopeful at all. Just going to try to forget about it tbh even though I can't 🤣

@Angie2018 hi I missed you, was worried about you. How are you? I'm ok not testing or tracking this cycle going with the flow. Only managed to DTD once so far and fertility window closes Saturday I think xx

@My2boysaremyworld I missed you too I have been thinking about you!! How are you doing?? Os your tooth and boys? I'm
Ok thanks just feel like a failure and struggling to see everyone announcing they are pregnant but il be ok. When are you due to ovulate? I am due to ovulate Sunday. We've DTD day 4,6,8 & will do tomorrow day 10,11,12,13 &14 and then that will be us done 🙈 but yeah I am not hopeful at all xx

@Angie2018 it really is awful, to be over the moon one day & then the next it's gone, it's soul destroying. I definitely felt like a failure that my body let me down but at least we know it can happen it's definitely given us a lot more hope now than we had before. I think it was still so early & we didn't really have time to process it that we are ok, had we been further along I definitely think it would have been a different story.

I know what you mean about pregnancy every where. Every where we seem to go there is always a pregnant lady. Which is absolutely lovely for them but doesn't stop the feeling of I want it to be me.

Please don't think you're a failure because you're not, you have told us all before with your fountain of knowledge (lol!) that it can take up to a year, we're still only on the 7th cycle so we're both not out yet! always here to chat 😘 Sending lots of hugs! We will all get there together.... eventually. Xxx

@hevann I know it's a horrible and cruel thing to happen! I totally get how you are feeling as I felt like that but then I was told to thank my body for getting rid of an unhealthy embryo that would have not been a healthy baby. So I guess our bodies are doing the right thing!

I agree I think if it gets further along it gets harder for sure. Agree though I'm happy for other peoples success but deep down it kills me everytime!

Haha that's kind and yeah I don't feel as strong and positive this month 🤣

Thanks so much and likewise you too!! I just hope it is our month I really do xxx

@Angie2018 I'm still suffering with my teeth!! I'm booked back in on Wednesday for fillings and Iv asked to get the other tooth pulled out. My anxiety is through the roof with it 😩xx

@My2boysaremyworld oh no!!! That's not good at all!! I've started reading it starts with the egg book, it mentions teeth have you read it? If not I'd defo recommend as there maybe supplements you can take as it was connecting tooth issues with fertility and it may help you. We've changed our supplements and diet since I've started reading it xx

@Angie2018 ooh saying what about teeth? Iv had enough 😩xx

Well definitely had my peak yesterday as OPKs are back to low now, had really bad pelvic pain on my left side last night so think I ovulated last night though I'll count today as day of ovulation CD 18, dtd 7, 8, 12 and 17 so hopefully we've caught it although I'm not convinced

@My2boysaremyworld I can't completely remember but I am sure something to do with teeth and gums is linked to fertility and it could be a deficiency xx

Hey! Sounds like you've ovulated and have defo caught it as looks like you've DTD lots!