🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

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New thread ladies 🌈✨💕

@youngiesophie how are you doing today? Have you retested again? The pain could be stretching of everything so I wouldn't worry too much about that. I agree, just enjoy the moment for where you are right now 💕 I'm 4dpo. I'm not symptom spotting as last month I had probably the most symptoms I've ever ever had and nope - AF arrived band on schedule 😂

@LuckyMoonstone a increase is a increase! Sounds like you might have o'd and you're now in the TWW! 👏

@Chellooo I'm so sorry for your loss 😢 I think everyone is different, some want to wait, others want to crack on - I don't think there is any right or wrong. Just do what you feel is right and ready for 💕

@bunnykins123 thats always the way isn’t it- so many symptoms then af!! 🤣 yess had another positive on a digital this morning now going to not test until the weekend 🤞♥️Yeah I’ve read about pelvic pain being normal thank god xx

@Chellooo yes I think it’s diff whether you want to wait for a period or not.

I didn’t wait as such. But I stopped bleeding week after surgical management for retained tissue and pretty much ovulated the next day. But it was 3 weeks from medical management where I passed most of it.
so we had just dtd close by. I am now 10dpo. So will have my first period in 3/4 days turn up. As unlikely I’ll of conceived but guess you never know!

sorry for your loss. It’s really hard and the up and down of hormones doesn’t help. I only had my surgery beginning of May so it’s only been 3 weeks ish for me too really but 5/6 weeks since main event xx

Oh that's helpful to know, it was a mmc so the surgery was to get everything. That was at the start of May and I bled for about a week, but only today got a negative pregnancy test.

Were you checking pregnancy tests?

My backs been in bits today so don't even know how to start tracking symptoms 😑

@Chellooo my AF arrived bang on 4 weeks from my miscarriage

Temp has risen for the 2nd time in a row so that’s good. Not a sharp spike just a steady rise. Am I meant to be looking for 3 in a row?

I think I O'd yesterday (really early for me, CD15 vs the usual 19) but we'll keep dtd just in case for the rest of the week. Guess I need to take AF stuff with me to Italy now just in case sigh.

How's everyone else getting on?

Pretty crappy really. We should be flying out to Malta, but DD2 came down with chicken pox on Wednesday so bang went that. And I got a BFN on a FRER today (10dpo) so I heavily suspect I’m out for this month…

@curliegirlie No! That's awful :( There was a mention of chicken pox at my son's child minders yesterday and we're flying out in nine days so I was considering keeping him home next week just in case :/

If you’re able to do so that wouldn’t be the worst idea in the world. I hugely regret now not looking into the vaccines, and if my other daughter somehow doesn’t catch it this time I will definitely get her vaxed! We’d booked the trip 8 months ago and haven’t been on holiday for two and a half years so gutted doesn’t even begin to cover it!

Temp up again today, a good amount as well :) OvuSense hasn’t decided when ovulation was but I’m certain I’m 3dpo

Yay @LuckyMoonstone! Finally!!

@Chellooo yes I tracked until I got negative tests. But I ovulated like the day I got a very very faint line/ basically a negative. So mine happened very soon after.

but a different mc mine took a week after a negative test. So think everyone is diff depending on they pregnancy and hormones and how far you got. Will be no set pattern. Try look out for signs

@LuckyMoonstone that's great 😁 I've been following the thread and cheering for you embehind the screen LOL fingers crossed for a bfp soon..

I got a static smiley on my opk this morning so feeling optimistic for this month 🤞🏼🌈 X

@MooBugz aww thank you 😊 god I hope so!

Just to update anyone who’s interested- I’m still getting pregnant 1-2 as of this morning which makes sense for my dates as I’m not 5 weeks yet :) going to test Monday morning as that’s when I got my first pregnant 1-2 and hope to see pregnant 2-3 then. 🤞♥️

Hi everyone can I join? We have had two MMC in the past year, one in late August/early September and one that was horrendous in that the wee bean never measured right then the heartbeat appeared and lasted for about a week before stopping, MVA which was unsuccessful. Miscarriage started on Halloween and ended on Hogmanay! But this month we decided to start trying again and I'm 11dpo with a faint positive. Swinging between being excited and a heavy feeling of dread. Anyway I'm rambling now but it'd be nice to hang around for a while with people who get it.

Okay can somebody help me 😩

miscarried 5 and half weeks ago, had medical management. Had surgery 3 weeks 1 day ago for small amount of retained tissue. My pregnancy tests were already starting to slowly go fainter before the surgery.

after the surgery my pregnancy tests within a week went from relatively bold to a very very bad squinter. They were cheap strip tests so 20mui sensitivity.
so I got a shadow squinter 2 weeks ago. Tested 9 days ago negative. Didn’t test and check a negative on a FREE tho.

I ovulated about 2 weeks ago when I got my squinter. So I’m like 12/13 dpo.

I’ve taken a test. The same cheap strip test is negative ish. But I think I can see a shadow of a line.
FRER is positive.

but is it left over hcg?! I don’t know if it’s a new pregnancy as I never used FREE to confirm it an know they pick up much lower hormone at 6.5mui 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

help!! What do ppl think

Images for reference.

obv because I didn’t see a negative on a FRER I don’t think I can be sure it isn’t left over can I?!

until I wait more days and see if it gets darker or stays same..🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

That photo loaded crap sorry try again

Okay so update. As I’d been temping. My temp has now drastically dropped. And I’ve browned pink blood tinged CM. So looks like it’s left over hcg.

but I ovulated 2 weeks ago confirmed by temping. So clearly you can ovulate with hcg in system! And when will the FRERs clear if hcg? After a period? Surely it shouldn’t hang around still after that. Seems weird to me

oh well. Prob for the best. First period. Fresh cycle.

@Indianna2006 sorry I don’t have any advice, just agreeing with you that it’s all very weird and confusing, I feel like that with my body sometimes. Maybe you didn’t ovulate and it was your hormones after MC making your temps the way they were.
A temp drop & spotting can mean implantation but even a FRER wouldn’t be positive if you were only implanting now.
Maybe don’t get your hopes up but see how the bleeding goes and test after the weekend?

@Indianna2006 With my first miscarriage, it took a long time for a FRER to become negative. It seemed to take forever for the remaining little bit to finally leave but it did. From what your saying, alongside the spotting it sounds like it could be residual HCG. You totally can conceive with HCG in your system though! If the spotting doesn't progress, then I'd say test again as it could be a new pregnancy!

@LuckyMoonstone @bunnykins123

thanks it seems so weird doesn’t it that the hormone can drop quickly over course of a week.

i got a negative on a 20 mui cheap test 2 weeks ago yet Frer is still showing positive.

maybe it’s because I need a period to come to almost get a clean lining and flush it out perhaps.

more waiting and unknown I guess

@Onebabyandamadcat thats amazing news congrats ♥️♥️♥️Fingers crossed for u🤞