🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

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New thread ladies 🌈✨💕

@ElleBelleLou I'm so sorry lovely. I had the same thing happen to me. Luckily it was my friend who I work with and she's been so lovely and sensitive and it did get easier. I don't get a stomach flip when I see her and talk to her anymore. I did hear her say she was 22 weeks today though and couldn't help but think that could have been me but it didn't hurt as much as it did before. Fingers crossed we can join them soon. Feel all the feelings today lovely and do what you can to be kind to yourself. Sending all of the love and hand holds. I'm sorry it's so sh*t!

@ElleBelleLou Sorry you've had to cope with that :( One of my husband's best friends and my sister-in-law were pregnant at the same time as me (both due within a week of me). I nearly had a panic attack when my brother told me as I was so convinced that we were going to miscarry (a feeling which proved correct) and that I would have to watch them go through the journey we should have been on together.

Unfortunately, my sister-in-law also had a missed miscarriage a few weeks ago :(

@ElleBelleLou big hugs from me. I don't think it's selfish at all, you've been through a really traumatic experience. I remember sobbing to my DH when I invited my friend around post miscarriage to have a girly evening and take my mind off things - she was pregnant and due the same day was. That was so incredibly hard. 💕

@LuckyMoonstone it really is. I've started questioning everything and I really just want a bit of time out from it all as it's just consuming me. How's the tests looking today?

@bunnykins123 i forgot to test this morning with my first wee! Also forgot to wear my ovucore last night 🤦‍♀️ Luckily I’m at home today so I can wait a few hours and do a test.

AF arrived bang on time this morning so a new cycle begins for me :D The next TWW is during my holiday to Italy so thankfully I'll be very distracted and hopefully won't be thinking about it too much.

Temp is dipping again, opks still not great. Are you meant to get the temp spike before, during or after ov?

@TheBirdintheCave ah I'm so sorry to hear AF arrived. It totally sucks. Good news is you're away for your next cycle - I really think relaxing / taking your mind off things is really helpful!

@LuckyMoonstone temp shift is after O so it sounds like you haven't O'd yet. You probably won't get a temp spike until a few days after you get a opk peak.

@bunnykins123 thank you, just wondered which I should be looking out for first, positive OPK or temp rise

@LuckyMoonstone I have a slight temp dip the day before ovulation, so watch out for that too, but by that time you should have had your peak OPK the day before.

@theblueflowers I hope that’s what’s happening now! I keep testing AM and PM but they aren’t very strong yet. Still got ewcm and my cervix is SHOW so that’s good. CD21 now and last month my positive OPK was CD23 so there’s still time.

Hi everyone, can I join please? I am planning to start ttc this month after a TFMR at 17 weeks in March. Very scared at the prospect of trying again but I'm sure like many of you my arms feel so empty and I know I won't feel complete again until we have a baby safely with us. Is anyone else in a similar boat with experiencing a loss due to TFMR? I’m struggling with the fear it will happen again!

Wishing you all luck for BFPs this month! 🙏✨

@calipoppy I'm so sorry to hear about your tfmr 😢 I've not experienced similar but there may be a few gals on this thread who can help. Regardless, you will get lots of support here 💕

Yessss look at my OPK line this morning! Not quite positive yet but getting there. Premom app said 0.04 yesterday, up to 0.9 today! But it still says it’s low? I would say that’s a pretty good line. Or is everything classed as low until it’s a definite peak? Temp has gone back up to 36.34 today so I hope it carries on climbing.

Sorry I meant 0.09 to 0.4 😂

@LuckyMoonstone that's a really good like 👏 you are defo getting close! I would try and have a afternoon urine hold and test again tonight 🤞

@bunnykins123 thanks 😁 yes last cycle I got my positive on an evening! I will do another tonight and see if any more progression

Guys I got this this morning, af due today and I've got pink/brown cm as if period about to start. Does it just look like indent to you? First month ttc after mmc in feb. Xx

@mummyofrb how many days post ovulation are you lovely? x

@LuckyMoonstone yes my surge is always in the evening. I usually get a 0.4 reading just before my surge. 🤞🏼 for you! x

@peachiekeen 14 if my period tracker is right but that's all I've been going by no temping or opks & I think ovulation has been abit off since mmc xx

@mummyofrb that looks much stronger than an indent to me

@LuckyMoonstone ahh almost wish I hadn't tested now as with the pink cm I'm thinking I'm going to get my period today anyway😭🤦‍♀️ I'm just sat waiting for my period to start. can't even make myself believe it could actually be positive

@mummyofrb oh no I’m sorry :( indents are bastards and shouldn’t even be a thing. Last time I used a FRER I could see the indent clear as day before I even used the test. So many people getting false hope from them :( yours genuinely did look real to me

@mummyofrb ahh ok. The period trackers go by a textbook ovulation. Mine used to be exactly like that before mc but have been so wafty since. You could have ovulated slightly later and therefore the pink cm could be implantation bleeding? Obviously don't want to get your hopes up too much but it is a possibility? 🤞🏼x

@peachiekeen @LuckyMoonstone I think it will be a waiting game now ladies! Some have said that I wouldn't have got a colour if it was indent and the line is pinky but a real squinter🤦‍♀️ just my symptoms today pretty regular for me before af comes. If it does come then next month I will be stricter to not test until missed period😩