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Hoping For a BFP in April

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FreckledMouse · 07/03/2022 20:13

Making a new thread from the March group ♥️

I'm on CD 1, Cycle 11 of TTC our first 👶🏼
Had a MC in February
Ectopic last July with right tube removal
I have endometriosis (and I suspect low progesterone)

Trying to stay positive and think fresh cycle, my body probably needed this after the MC and its a fresh start ✨

Baby dust ✨🤞🏼✨🤞🏼✨🤞🏼✨🤞🏼✨

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allthingssparkly · 06/04/2022 16:53

I'm approx 11 dpo today would that be a time implantation bleeding occurs?!

MangoLipstick · 06/04/2022 20:24

@RSmamaa that looks like a line to me!😆x

@allthingssparkly It very well could be implantation! It very similar to what I had when I had dd. I had a little bit of spotting 5 days before my period was due ( this was back when they were regular 28 days) I just assumed af was arriving early but the spotting stopped and nothing else happened. I got a bfp the next day!
Really hope that’s what it is for you!💞

Everythingcrossed89 · 06/04/2022 21:29

Hey everyone. Update from me - I think it’s a CP. more cramping and fresher pink, watery blood this afternoon. Looks like I’m out. First time we were somewhere in 18months, I don’t know how to feel. Sad is wasn’t our time, but hopeful that it’s possible for us. Xxx

allthingssparkly · 07/04/2022 08:32

I honestly don't understand, it's now appearing like full flow 😩 but earlier than expected.

I haven't been on any birth control for probably around 2 years now haven't been trying the whole of that time but I don't get why my cycle lengths are differing. The days between Feb and Marches period was 35 and the days between March and Aprils period was 27 🤔🤔🤔

Purple29 · 07/04/2022 11:21

So I've had 2 days with high readings on ov sticks and today was low (CD10) what does that mean?

Catred4 · 07/04/2022 21:20

@Purple29 could the wee on that one have been diluted?

Kitty901 · 07/04/2022 22:22

The witch has arrived and i am quite upset, onto month 5 now, at least would be entering my fertile week next week! I find myself more impatient now than i was when we were ttc our first, he took 6 months! Still a chance for a bfp in April, have everything crossed😞

Purple29 · 08/04/2022 05:47

@Catred4 I had taken the picture in different light. When I made the light the same it said high. Just not used to this.

Catred4 · 08/04/2022 06:56

AF arrived, as I suspected she would! Sad but glad to have a fresh start, I did sooooo many tests this month I just kept seeing the faintest lines, think I was going mad. I'm gonna try and hold out a bit longer to test this new cycle, we'll see! Good luck everyone, and congrats to the bfps so far xx

Kitty901 · 08/04/2022 08:42

@Catred4

AF arrived, as I suspected she would! Sad but glad to have a fresh start, I did sooooo many tests this month I just kept seeing the faintest lines, think I was going mad. I'm gonna try and hold out a bit longer to test this new cycle, we'll see! Good luck everyone, and congrats to the bfps so far xx
OMG, me too on first response and now i know they were just indents although they had some colour. I said am not doing this to myself again!! I will wait to be late. My next period is due on hubby's bday, i hope we get a bfp for his birthday, it would be the best present! Good luck for the new cycle.
Catred4 · 08/04/2022 08:57

@Kitty901 it's gutting isn't it! I'd almost prefer just a completely white test so you don't have that uncertainty. Good Iuck for you too 🥰 xx

Kitty901 · 08/04/2022 09:05

[quote Catred4]@Kitty901 it's gutting isn't it! I'd almost prefer just a completely white test so you don't have that uncertainty. Good Iuck for you too 🥰 xx[/quote]
It is terrible, never happened to me before although i knew there was something doggy about it as i had a proper bfp with my first on the day of af due, i still kept some hope...

MangoLipstick · 08/04/2022 12:52

@Kitty901 @Catred4

I used 2 frers last month and both showed very faint lines, I got abit excited then af turned up later that day 😫 so I learnt my lesson and will (try) not test early this cycle.

@allthingssparkly
Have you always had regular cycles?
hope you ok?

@Purple29
My knowledge on opks is very limited but from what I’ve read, getting high readings then a low could possibly be one of two things (outside of tests being faulty) your body is trying to ovulate so you get the surge but it doesn’t ov at that point, many women then get a 2nd surge later on where they get their peak and ov or you missed your peak. The window can be very quick sometimes.

Sabina93 · 08/04/2022 19:18

Hi everyone, I hope you don't mind me joining. I'm currently ttc #2. The first one took 3 cycles and now currently on cycle 8. I'm 3-4dpo now and would like to not to test like crazy month 🙏🏻How is everyone getting on? 😊

em123456789 · 08/04/2022 19:50

@Sabina93 hi!
I've just joined too
Trying ttc baby no. 2
Also does anyone have experience with irregular periods
I've just gone to the doctor for pcos blood tests and all came back fine
They suggested an ultrasound
Just not sure if their is any other reason why they are so irregular 🤯

RSmamaa · 08/04/2022 20:49

@em123456789 mine are irregular ever since giving birth to DS. Aunt flo made a come back at 11 weeks PP even though I was breast feeding. One cycle was 29 days, another 44 and another 37. They all differ!

TTCBABYNO2xx · 08/04/2022 21:06

Hey ladies

Think i just got my faint BFP at 10DPO 🤞🏽 anybody else to keep each other company. Xx

Sending so much baby dust to you all!

Hoping For a BFP in April
em123456789 · 08/04/2022 21:25

@RSmamaa oh wow that's the exact same as me! Ever since having my 2 year old
Have the doctors commented on it? Just trying to figure out what's the reason, as it's making ttc baby #2 stressful

em123456789 · 08/04/2022 21:26

@TTCBABYNO2xx such a clear line, whoohoo congrats 🤩🤩

Sabina93 · 08/04/2022 22:23

@em123456789
Oh hi :) well my period is not regular , there is always a few days difference each month but I wouldn't say it's too irregular as its always just a few days.
How long have you been trying for? And when did you get pregnant with your first one?

Sabina93 · 08/04/2022 22:27

@TTCBABYNO2xx
Aww congratulations. Will you be testing again tomorrow? 😊keep us updated on your tests progression 😊

staceymarieox · 08/04/2022 22:49

Hi! Hopping on this thread! We have been TTC #2 since November 21! No aunt flo until Jan and so far no luck! Haven't overly tracked ovulation this month but only when my fitness watch suggested I would be ovulating and it all came back as it should! Currently been having days of tension headaches, little twinges etc but not getting my hopes up, took a clear blue today but it wasn't an early detection and I'm around 5 days away from aunt flo so will be testing again on the 13th (hopefully a lucky number for me🤞)

Sending luck and good vibes to everyone!

Sabina93 · 08/04/2022 23:06

@staceymarieox
Good luck 😊 hopefully you'll get your BFP. I need to wait probably until like 17th and would like to really wait until then and not to test like crazy too early like every month😀

em123456789 · 08/04/2022 23:12

@Sabina93 been trying for 4months now, some months it can be 50 days other months it stays in and around 30 days
My son was born in Jan 2020
And we didn't even ttc for him
So the whole ttc is new to me and this month since I had that false positive it just feels like it's becoming overwhelming 🙈 but need to think I am lucky as don't want to think I'm in a bad situation compared to people who have been trying for years

staceymarieox · 08/04/2022 23:18

Thank you! I'm hoping so! I love Christmas so much so a December baby would just be lovely and as we are planning at stopping at 2 it will be a complete family for Christmas ❤️

I'm like you I test like crazy, even when I know for certain it's not the time to test 🤣 I've managed to hold back this month so far 🤣