🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

[Skl2021]

Flying through these threads ladies 🌈🤞 let's get some more rainbows 💞 xx

@flowergarden16 🤞🏼 it's implantation bleeding. When I got my BFP in Jan I had implantation bleeding the day before af was due so I assumed it was af. Didn't realise I wasn't actually on until 4 days later! It was watery red blood which is also unusual for my af as it usually starts as browny discharge but I just didn't think anything of it.

@peachiekeen I'm really hoping it's that! Have some dull aches but it's not painful, keep worrying it's ectopic now. The agony of having had a miscarriage before hey!

Thank you x

TMI but the blood is now red but quite thin. I am so confused. Guess I just have to keep waiting and testing?

@flowergarden16 I think it's a waiting game 😩 hope you get some answers soon 🤞 xx

Aww gosh @flowergarden16 sorry to hear you’re in this position. Hope you’re ok, let’s hope it’s implantation 🤞🏼 One of my friends bled all the way through both her pregnancies and everything was fine. Hope these next few days go quickly for you xxx

Thanks @Skl2021 and @Lottie2267 I

It seems to be getting slowly heavier (although still light) so expecting the inevitable but no pain which is good.

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I just got my BFP rainbow 🌈 (although still early days and more faint than fat!) I'm feeling happy and excited but also so anxious and worried that it'll end in a miscarriage again.

I couldn't find a group on Mumsnet, does anyone know where I can go to chat/get support?

Okay I'm so so so sorry @flowergarden16 I've only just seen your messages and I can't find a way to delete mine, this isn't what you needed today with what you're going through. I'm so sorry :( x

@LittleMrsMama we have one on the pregnancy pages called navigating pregnancy after loss. Congratulations 💕 xx

@flowergarden16 hope your ok 💕 take care of yourself were here if you need support 💕 xx

Don't be silly @LittleMrsMama ! Huge congrats! X

Aww congratulations @LittleMrsMama fingers crossed for you xxx

Hope you’re doing ok @flowergarden16 xxx

Hope everyone else is also doing ok ❤️ Just wondering, does anyone stop having sex in the tww or do you continue as normal? Not sure if I’m overthinking it all xxx

Thanks @Skl2021 I'll go and check it out

I'm so sorry again @flowergarden16 , I hope it all works out for you. I know a few people that have had bleeding during pregnancy have happy healthy babies now. I know that won't be much relief after going through a miscarriage as I would be feeling the same as you. I hope this time goes quickly before you can get your scan and have an answer either way. I had an early MC in January and not knowing was there worst

@Lottie2267 honest answer is I've had enough of DTD outside of the fertile window so DH has no chance of continuing beyond then! 😂 I don't think it impacts chances of conceiving though

Thanks @Lottie2267 and @LittleMrsMama

I'm feeling ok about it. Least it's super early if it's happening and my body is dealing with it unlike my MMC

if we are still pregnant in ten days then great if not. Then fine.

Good luck everyone

@flowergarden16 fingers crossed for you 🤞

@LittleMrsMama congratulations 🌈 😊

Has anybody experienced spotting 4 full days after AF completely disappeared? It’s a bit strange never had this before, the Premom app reckons tomorrow is the start of my fertile period but who knows, I’m testing LH daily and it’s been quite low.

@flowergarden16 I really hope things work out! How's the spotting this evening?

@Lizm1990 the most I've had is a 2 day gap then more bleeding. My cycles were so messed up after my MC though, AF was 2 days this cycle and normally 5-6. Was your loss recent? If so maybe your body is just getting back into a Rhythm! My only advice would have been so test LH which you're already doing

Still very light.

I'm mega confused but I guess have to ride it out until I get to what would be six weeks so I can see. X

Hi ladies, hope u are all ok? Currently in the 2WW. I'm supposed to be going for a smear next week ( joys!) I don't really want to cancel it as the nurse is always super booked up. Just wondering if anyone has been before when in 2WW? Xx

@calimc83 I tried to go after one of my miscarriages and the nurse told me they won’t do it within 12 weeks of a miscarriage… when I told her I had hoped that I would be pregnant again within that 12 weeks she said that they also won’t do it whilst you are trying to conceive or if there’s a chance you could be pregnant as they wouldn’t want to unsettle anything that could be trying to implant. It could vary per healthboard or gp practice but I would phone and ask for clarity xxx

@flowergarden16 did u take a test? It's horrible not knowing were your at. I hope your ok 💕 xx

@calimc83 I hope your ok 💕 how many dpo are you now? Xx

@Skl2021 yeah tests still saying positive. Think I'll just have to wait until another ten days when they can scan :-(

@flowergarden16 are they getting lighter or darker? Ah yes it's such a horrible wait wish there was something we could do to help 😣 xx

@speake Thanks. That's good advice, I'll give them a call. How are u getting on? I've been off MN for a bit trying to not obsess 🙈 so not sure where everyone is. @Skl2021Hey! Am ok..not entirely sure as didn't take an OPK this cycle. Maybe around 2/3DPO. How u doing? U must be due 12 week scan soon?! X

@Skl2021 today is first day of using non digital tests so I'll have to wait until Sunday to really know :-(
I should be 2-3 on digital on weds so that should give a good indication and then could be 6 weeks and scan-able but the following Tuesday. If nothing else has happened re bleeding and the tests are progressing next week I'll call up for a scan. My EPU is really good and are happy to see me x

@flowergarden16 ah yes u need to use the non digitals for a few times to see if there's any progression. I really hope it is just implantation bleeding. 🤞 Hope your not in limbo for too long 💕 and your scan day comes around quickly 🙌 xx

@calimc83 still early days then Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞✨ are you testing early this cycle or waiting? I have had a rough few weeks my symptoms seem to be getting worse so feeling a bit low. Hoping it improves soon. My scan is a week on Monday and I am so scared xx