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🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

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Skl2021 · 21/02/2022 19:19

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

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Ganesh2022 · 27/02/2022 09:49

@aesgriff Flowers the sight of blood is horrible, isn't it, I'm terrified of wiping. Hopefully just a little bit of sensitivity in the area, which I've been told is really, really common in early pregnancy. Hope it stops soon!!!

@Cruz86 I'm also poking my boobs. Bugging out today that they aren't as sore as yesterday, in fact they're barely sore at all. I know logically that symptoms often do not kick in til much later, but it's so hard not to worry. I was getting shooting pains in them and that's stopped.

Passenger87 · 27/02/2022 09:50

@HoneyLemon29 it may just be a big hormonal surge causing sensitivity. Hopefully not endo!! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. When are you hoping to test? xx

aesgriff · 27/02/2022 09:57

Sorry all.. no more spotting yet so slightly calmer. Phew.. TMI but think it was from pushing for a 💩

@speake thank you for your comforting words ♥️♥️ If I keep spotting/bleeding I’ll get back in touch with EPU. Am super keen to hear your HCG results. Keep us updated! Xx

@mrsmw132 welcome to the thread! So sorry you find yourself here xx

@HoneyLemon29 have you ordered a progesterone test via MediChecks? Deffo get your partner to help there’s no way I could squeeze that amount out myself I’d of got it everywhere 🤫 how many DPO will you be when to my take it? I was 5dpo xx

@Passenger87 thank you ♥️♥️ I hope so! Am planning on a long dog walk to blow away the cobwebs then a Netflix binge. How are you today? Xx

aesgriff · 27/02/2022 10:01

@arianasky hoping I’ve just irritated my cervix a bit whilst pushing for a 💩 here’s hoping 🤞🏻 I suppose only if you’re having an cycle where you don’t ovulate (sorry, begins with A but can’t remember the official term) but 14 days seems quite a short cycle nevertheless. After my MC I had backache and cramps and I was told it’s your uterus shrinking back down to size 😞 xx

@Ganesh2022 I’m keeping positive that it was being a bit constipated that did it 🤞🏻🤞🏻 I wish I could take spotting away from all of us 😩It could also be the pessaries as I am literally popping 4 up a day so that might be irritating my cervix. How are you doing? Xx

mrsmw132 · 27/02/2022 10:01

@aesgriff

Sorry all.. no more spotting yet so slightly calmer. Phew.. TMI but think it was from pushing for a 💩

@speake thank you for your comforting words ♥️♥️ If I keep spotting/bleeding I’ll get back in touch with EPU. Am super keen to hear your HCG results. Keep us updated! Xx

@mrsmw132 welcome to the thread! So sorry you find yourself here xx

@HoneyLemon29 have you ordered a progesterone test via MediChecks? Deffo get your partner to help there’s no way I could squeeze that amount out myself I’d of got it everywhere 🤫 how many DPO will you be when to my take it? I was 5dpo xx

@Passenger87 thank you ♥️♥️ I hope so! Am planning on a long dog walk to blow away the cobwebs then a Netflix binge. How are you today? Xx

That's sounds nice. I'm only 3 dpo (post IUI) and am planning a swim, visit family and I've taken up knitting to keep my hands off Google!
aesgriff · 27/02/2022 10:01

@Ganesh2022 and @Cruz86 I only have one sore boob and that’s freaking me out 😳 xx

Passenger87 · 27/02/2022 10:03

@aesgriff walk and a binge sounds perfect!

I'm ok getting a bit obsessed with poas atm. Might need to take a break after next month if nothing happens.

Gonna blitz the house today from top to bottom hopefully that will distract me 😂

HoneyLemon29 · 27/02/2022 10:11

@passenger know me I'll start testing from 8DPO on Wednesday until AF shows x

@aesgriff hopefully it was just the strain and all your hormones causing a bit of sensitivity 💜
I'm 5DPO and taking the Medicheck on Tuesday a week before AF is due x

calimc83 · 27/02/2022 10:14

@Passenger87 yes, 💯. My age being a big factor and I had it in my head I wanted to be pregnant by May ( when I had been due). What about u? Oh did u test today? X

Passenger87 · 27/02/2022 10:47

@calimc83 I did and nada. I think I had a weird thing in my head that this cycle could be the one as its the same cycle we were successful last year. Also I will need to have another surgery for endo soon and I'm worried they may need to take an ovary (or two) so I feel the clock bearing down on me

Ganesh2022 · 27/02/2022 11:18

@aesgriff I always have only one sore boob. And only one works properly when breastfeeding 🧐

Ganesh2022 · 27/02/2022 11:24

@calimc83 Ran into someone from old nursery a few days ago; she'd just given birth to her third. She dropped in that she turned 41 a few days after baby was born, and I think I wished her such an over-enthusiastic happy birthday as that pleased me so much that she thought it was a little bizarre Blush

Ganesh2022 · 27/02/2022 11:26

Hi @mrsmw132 and belated welcome; what are you bingeing? Just started Emily in Paris and it's wonderfully fluffy and escapist

Sassy144 · 27/02/2022 11:48

@aesgriff sorry you woke up to spotting, always going to be scary after what we've been through. No cramps sounds really positive though, and I've heard it's common after having a 💩!

arianasky · 27/02/2022 11:52

@aesgriff glad there's no more spotting ❤️ yeah I don't think it is AF maybe just still cramping from the MC like you said

aesgriff · 27/02/2022 11:54

@Ganesh2022 it’s my bigger boob that hurts 🤫 oooh I’m going to start the second series today! I love a bit of escapism 😍 xx

@Sassy144 I haven’t had any further bleeding so just gotta roll with the punches I suppose! So sorry to hear of your position with the pregnancy news. It’s totally shit and rears a lot of ugly feelings. Just know you’re not a bad person for feeling them xx

aesgriff · 27/02/2022 11:56

@arianasky it’s horrible that all the period and MC symptoms are the same as early pregnancy. It’s like being ‘guess who’ with our bodies xx

mrsmw132 · 27/02/2022 12:07

@Ganesh2022

Hi *@mrsmw132* and belated welcome; what are you bingeing? Just started Emily in Paris and it's wonderfully fluffy and escapist
Always have Big Bang theory on- We did Emily in Paris when we had covid. We are doing inventing Anna just now. Law and order SVU So many podcasts Big sky on Disney plus The girl in the window across the street from the other girl (I know that's not the title but I never get it right 😂)
Skl2021 · 27/02/2022 12:37

@Passenger87 I'm not doing too bad thankyou. Been up and out all morning now I need to tidy the house and all I want to do is sleep 🙊 how about you? Xx

@aesgriff so glad the spotting has stopped it's terrifying when it happens but hopefully that's the last of it 🤞🤞 xx

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PamelaDoov · 27/02/2022 13:00

My next door neighbour has just come round to tell us about the birth of his new baby… sent DH to the door, I’m hiding upstairs 🙈

Ganesh2022 · 27/02/2022 13:06

@mrsmw132 Inventing Anna looks great, had never heard of it. Thx, now we have our next binge lined up

@PamelaDoov I'd hide, too. Are you close with them? Seems kind of a bizarre thing to do, no disrespect to them or their new baby...!

Ganesh2022 · 27/02/2022 13:07

@PamelaDoov bizarre of them to come by out of nowhere I mean x

PamelaDoov · 27/02/2022 13:34

@Ganesh2022 yeah we’re quite friendly with them and it’s the 3rd baby they’ve had whilst we’ve been neighbours. He was actually coming to borrow something off DH but a mutual friend told DH yesterday that the baby had arrived so I knew our neighbour would obviously tell us when he saw us, hence me knowing to hide!

PamelaDoov · 27/02/2022 13:35

He knows about our loss so wouldn’t think it weird of me to not feel like hearing about it. I told DH I don’t really want to go round either, but he didn’t ask us (like he has in the past) so probably thinks we might not want to.

Ganesh2022 · 27/02/2022 14:06

@PamelaDoov ah gotcha. Sometimes hiding is the best thing we can do...!! I'd do it, and I'd understand if someone did it from me.