🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

Hahaha @aesgriff you have made me laugh with your oh helping comment. Thank you for preparing me for the scan too. I literally just want to see a sac so that I can get the prescription! How far were you when you had your first scan?

@PamelaDoov whereabouts are you in your cycle?

@Bundaberg84 great news about your appointment and next steps!

@HoneyLemon29 you're officially in your TWW!

@Skl2021 how are you feeling about everything? Have you had time to digest it all?

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@Cruz86 cd12 but no guarantee when ovulation will be. Could literally start gearing up any time between now and next week

@Skl2021 I’m so glad you got to see a heartbeat today!

@aesgriff and that you got to see the sac too!

I’ve been thinking of you both all day. I’m putting out all of the possible positive vibes for you both. I’ve never wanted something more for people I haven’t met!

@Cruz86 I personally think that talking about pregnancies on here gives me hope. If everyone disappeared as soon as they got pregnant we’d never know of happy stories and that would be pretty sad. The amount of Mumsnet holes I’ve fallen down only to never hear the outcome!

Random side note: anyone else’s first AF after miscarriage strange? TMI but mine is literally like tar. So dark brown it’s practically black and so thick it doesn’t move. No wonder I was in so much pain yesterday!

@aesgriff glad you managed to get the first two in, so glam isn’t it 😂 I jokingly told my husband he would have to do it for me, you can imagine the response 🙈😂

@Bundaberg84 great news about your appt, I’d be excited too as it’s a step closer to hopefully getting some answers / a cure 🤞🏼

@peachiekeen mine was the exact same, almost jelly like again!

@Cruz86 I was exactly 4 weeks for my first scan so only 14dpo.. very, very, very early! What I’m trying to remember though is everyone develops at different stages so 🤞🏻 you’ll see a sac earlier than I did xx

@speake 🤣🤣 what are they like!! It wasn’t as awful as I thought but would deffo just prefer to do 1 at a time rather than do jenga up my bumholey with 2. How are you doing? Xx

@peachiekeen eeee thank you!! I get exactly what you mean.. I am loving this thread so much ♥️♥️ My first period was heavier than usual but I’m not surprised if yours is quite thick. I imagine that’s very old blood and once that’s passed the red river will flow xx

@Skl2021 I hope they don’t cancel either of your scans 🤞🏻🤞🏻 What are you thinking about a 10 week scan? I’m going to book an 8 week private one, so 2 and a half weeks time, that’s my next milestone to try and reach xx

@Cruz86 nope still pretty worried but guess it will always be like that don't think you would ever stop worrying! 😩 Just got to hope for the best. X

@peachiekeen aww thankyou that means alot 💞 yes were such a lovely group I hope we all get our bfp! Were also the best cheerleaders 🙌✨ xx

@aesgriff the scans are literally day after each other so dont know if there's any point in the epu one 🤦 yes I'm thinking of booking one will see how I get on with the spotting first. Yes it will soon be here just take it a day at a time 💕 xx

3 missed miscarriages last year one with T13 and one with T21 now pregnant again found out 7dpo with a frer will be 5 weeks this Sunday praying for a healthy baby that stays strong

Are you tracking ovulation or just seeing what happens @PamelaDoov?

That's very true @peachiekeen, I hate it when that happens! It's good to know you are all okay with it. This thread has really been so lovely, I wouldn't want to leave!

Okay great, thank you @aesgriff. I'll be about 5 weeks so hopefully I will see something. That's the thing isn't we, we read so much about other people's experiences which does help, but ultimately everything is different for everyone.

Oh @Skl2021 😞 have you got many weekend plans to keep yourself busy?

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@Cruz86 I did an OPK yesterday and it was fully blank, but tomorrow morning I’m gonna start going them every morning and my digital ones as well as I should be on track to get a flashing smiley soon so don’t want to leave it too late and it not be able to read my hormones properly. But I also go by ewcm and today is just watery, so hopefully change to ewcm soon.

I have a scan on Sunday 🤞

@PamelaDoov I'm also CD12 today

@aesgriff I’m ok thank you, just turning into an absolute weirdo. Literally smuggled tests into the house on my inner coat pocket earlier to get them past my husband. Seriously why are we like this 🙈

@mrshodgy21 congratulations, fingers crossed for your rainbow 🌈 🤍

@arianasky do you know when you’re due to ovulate? I haven’t been able to give my app regular info since MC so it thinks fertile window is any time between next mon and next sun!

@Cruz86 I have work tomorrow not looking forward to it and probably not alot on Sunday. Hope you have a more exciting weekend than me 🤣🤦 x

@peachiekeen yes mine was heavier and thicker than usual, and a few clots at the start. I hope yours doesn't last too much longer and isn't too painful.

@aesgriff
Thank you so much heartache last year x

Are you using the cheap opk sticks as well as the digital @PamelaDoov? I wouldn't do one until at least the afternoon because they're unlikely to show anything in the morning. Wouldn't want you missing your peak! Good luck to both you @arianasky this cycle.

@mrshodgy21 congratulations! Let us know how you get on at your scan.

@Skl2021 ah well work isn't a good thing but at least it'll keep you busy 😂 I'm having an indulgent weekend with lots of nice food so I can't wait! I can't seem to go more than a couple of hours before needing to eat because I feel sick xx

@Cruz86 sounds lovely! Oh don't get me started I'm eating like a horse 🙊 if I don't eat every so often I start feeling so sick. And I'm getting so hangry my oh doesn't know what's hit him I'm soo moody. 🤣🤦 Bet IV put on so.much weight already wasn't like this is other pregnancies I didn't want to eat 🙊 xx

@Cruz86 thank you I shall the 1st is not my worry all 3 have had heartbeats then no heartbeat at 9 weeks 🥲 hoping and praying this one is not the same x

Hahaha they have to put up with so much when we're pregnant don't they @Skl2021. I'm exactly the same though, my pregnancy in October was completely the opposite. I can't remember with my son though xx

Oh I'm so sorry @mrshodgy21. That must be so difficult to go through again and again 😞 Hoping this time is different for you x

@PamelaDoov I have no idea. I've ovulated on CD13 CD15 and last month was CD19 so could be anything from tomorrow until next weekend? I've fell pregnant every cycle so far but lost all pregnancies. I don't imagine I'll fall again this cycle though tbh which is fine as much as I want it I know if I don't my body needs to recover. When do you normally ovulate? Do you know at all?

@arianasky ah similar situations then! Oh god I have no idea, last time I only started tracking ovulation one month and got pregnant. And was only using ewcm as an indicator so just DTD the whole time I had it. It may have been around cd18/19/20 last time looking at what I wrote in my app and when I did my PT. But before that I took no notice.
Before DS my cycles were getting into the 30+ days area so from what I remember it was probably a similar timeframe.

@PamelaDoov I know it's frustrating isn't it, I hate this part so much just waiting for O I wish we could know when we'd ovulate each month for sure 🙄