Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

The same month of my miscarriage I was finally at the top of the IVF waiting list, during the call I had to say to them I was pregnant but had just lost it. They said they would give me a few months. I was expecting another call but instead I've been sent all the pre-testing kits for treatment to start next month. Lot of conflicted emotions...I don't know if I'm ready to go down a clinical route so soon after my loss.

@Cindy974 oh my!!!!

@Skl2021 Hope everything is ok with school. I'm having major anger issues with our school right now..that's a whole other thread I may start if I can figure out how lol...breaks my heart when little ones aren't happy to go.

@Tofu35 oh wow that was fast...! What does your DH think of it all..? Tho obviously as supportive as they might be, its ultimately our bodies going through it all...

hi @bunnykins123 this thread is great for support; sorry you've been through all that in such a short space of time :(

@ganesh2022 it took two years to get to the top of that list, but suddenly they're keen to get me started! He saw how worried I was looking about having to do more swabs and blood checks and hospital visits, and he offered to call them for me to say I'm not ready to start down that path yet. But I should do it myself, so I can get their advice. I think his thought is "we did it once, we'll do it again" so isn't in too much of a rush to get my follicles counted!

@Ganesh2022 IV spoken to them today and they have started doing stuff but only time will tell if things don't improve then I will have to start looking at other schools 😩 so stressful it's horrible when your child is unhappy just want to scoop him up but that ain't going to help. Hope things start improving for you too 💞 xx

@Tofu35 it's a huge decision do you have time to think about it? And if you don't start it do you get put to the back of the list again? Xx

@Ganesh2022 @Skl2021 thank you so much - it's nice to actually talk to people who understand 💕

I'm throwing everything at it this month and then next month (if it is unsuccessful) having bloods etc done to get an idea of what is going on. I just feel like 3 consecutive miscarriages is not just 'bad luck'. It's just so exhausting!

Is anyone trying anything specific and having any luck ie. Aspirin?

@skl2021 those are my questions exactly! I'll have to give them a call tomorrow and find out what would happen if I wanted to postpone. I'm sure they've dealt with many cases like me before, they'll have a policy in place (which is what I keep reminding myself of while I start to worry about all possible outcomes!)

@bunnykins123 My husband takes proxeed, I take myo-inositol (I have pcos though) and ubiquinol x

@Tofu35 So ironic, they take ages and then it all comes at once...good luck whatever you decide; always here if you need a sounding board x

@Skl2021 Thank you; you too!

@bunnykins123 can't say if I've had any luck though (we did conceive the month my dh started the proxeed, though have conceived in past w/o it)...but figure those things don't hurt. Other than my bank account.

@Tofu35 yess ask all the questions! If you went to the back I would be inclined to do it as you have waited so long but like you say if your not ready then your not ready 💞 hope the call goes well! 🤞 Xx

@bunnykins123 I take coq10 and seven seas conception tablets and this pregnancy I have taken baby aspirin from O day just bought some from Tesco hoping that will help.

Hope everyone has had better days today xxx

Wow this chat has moved quickly since last time I was in here!! I had a miscarriage in Oct/Nov last year but just found out we’re pregnant again, very nervous but trying to stay relaxed. Does anyone know of a current thread for pregnancy after miscarriage or are people using this one? I don’t want to be insensitive x

@1stTimeTina I think there is one in the subforum pregnancy, not in conception. But either way, congratulations and you can stay here if you want! There are some newly-ish pregnant ladies hanging around here as well!

@arianasky good luck with your pregnancy! I saw your tests and know exactly how you feel with the anxiety. I used the Severn seas on to conceive DD.

@Ganesh2022 I did wonder about proxseed. DH is on Olive leaf extract as I've read that's good but wondering if I should switch.

I tried aspirin last cycle (75mg) and did fall pregnant but it didn't stick. I started using Cyclogest too when I had a bfp - maybe it was too late, will try from O this time.

I also still BF so wonder if low progesterone is the issue for implantation 🤷‍♀️

This is one I did this evening, so want it to be true but just don't want to get my hopes up x

@MiaGrace31 there’s nothing wrong with that line at all!

ahh do you think it could be my bfp? I just dont know what to think. Ive wanted this so much and thought it wouldnt happen that I dont think I ever thought how id feel if It actually happened. Just preying its not a chemical as know ive tested so early xx

@MiaGrace31 how many dpo did you say you were?

@MiaGrace31 that's positive alright! Mine were really faint compared to that 🙈 🎉 xx

@Bridgey8 u still doing ok? 💕xx

@JuniperAndTonic good luck tomorrow will be thinking of you 💕 xx