Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

Hi ladies, read through this thread and can relate to so many of you. I have had so many loses. I am 42 and really want to ttc one last time but I’m petrified of losing another. Love to you all and fingers crossed. Xx

@Ganesh2022 thank you 💕 I think it may be down to the chemical make up? The control line is thinner on todays test and it was from a different pack? I'll post a pic I just took

@Cruz86 I don't trust them either tbh, I'm stepping away now, I'm away for the weekend so won't test then and it'll do me good not to focus on tests, I'm pregnant now and that's what's important. I will be crazy symptom spotting though 😂🙈

@Maybebaby7 Welcome and good luck whatever you decide. I work with someone who had a baby at 42 recently, and another who was 45 :)

@arianasky definitely...and like @cruz86 said, I wouldn't trust them. Not meaning to cause anxiety to anyone else but my very best lines were the pregnancy that didn't work so I really think they can be quite random sometimes. Sure, if it went from blazing to barely there, that's genuinely concerning...but these tiny variations...nahhhh

@Maybebaby7 hope you haven't been fobbed off by docs? So many people have recurrent losses and doctors want nothing to do with it, esp if we're older; my friend had recurrent losses and turned out it was a thyroid thing and nothing to do with her age at all but she'd been dismissed b/c of it.

@Cruz86 you’re so right… automatically I’m putting myself down to being out. I started spotting 10dpo last time and am 9dpo today. Sigh.. more evidence like you say for the doctors to prescribe. How are you doing?

@MO22 I’m spotting.. sort of blood tinged CM. Feel this is going to head towards AF but that’s ok I didn’t think this cycle would be the one anyway. No other symptoms really. Sometimes a wave of sickness but think that may be anxiety 🥺 how are you doing?

Xxxx

@bunnykins123 feel like I’m clutching at straws a bit but we can only but hope! Xx

@Skl2021

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

Hey! After i miscarried on the 17th of last month and had a scan to say everythings gone and it's empty. I started having positive tests again recently. Last week i had bloods and they came back at 21 and this thursday they're back at 24. Been reffered to early pregnancy unit for monday. Am i pregnant? What's going on because my heads in turmoil at the moment. Any advice or support would be nice❤️

@Ganesh2022 good to know! Can you buy them easily in like Boots or are they an online thing?

@arianasky it's so hard to tell at this stage. I would step away from the tests (believe me, I know how hard this is!) and just see what happens over the next few days. I also hate FRER especially pharmacy vs Amazon ones as the lines are different!

@Maybebaby7 welcome! I'm new here too and already getting lots of great support 💕

@Ganesh2022 @bunnykins123 definitely a weekend away will help so much, thank you for your support all ❤️

@bunnykins123 I got on Amazon x

@Bunchy200 Hi; sorry you're in this shit limbo...did you have negative tests before the positive tests (of same or similar sensitivity)?

2 days overdue (didn't track ovulation but I'm never late), no sign of AF but stark white tests.
I'm fed up. Going to see my ob-gyn and maybe do a Hycopsy to see how my remaining tube is doing.
Also, a bit scared if I have another ectopic, as last time I got a very late BFP as well. Hopefully just ovulated late

Thinking this may turn out to be a chemical :( took a first response this morning with fmu and the line was barely visable. However ive just done another and a bootys own one (must have more money than sense obviously) and the line appears stronger again. I just dont know what to think xxx

[quote Ganesh2022]@bunnykins123 I got on Amazon x

@Bunchy200 Hi; sorry you're in this shit limbo...did you have negative tests before the positive tests (of same or similar sensitivity)?[/quote]
It's crap right! But yes i did. Turns out my hcg level is 25 not 24,So it's rose by 4 in a week🥺

Thank you all for your well wishes - all the finger crossing worked, we saw a tiny baby with a heartbeat on the scan 🥺 I’m so so relieved and just want to thank you all for the support over the last few days ❤️

@JuniperAndTonic yay!!! ❤️

@JuniperAndTonic awwww, I'm so happy. x

@MiaGrace31 Want us to look? Yesterday you said test was light and tbh I was expecting to squint and it was very plainly positive. Keeping fingers crossed for you.

@JuniperAndTonic omg so happy for you I could cry!! 💕💕

Yes please first is first thing this morming and second was a few hours later xxx

@JuniperAndTonic fantastic news xx

Amazing news @JuniperAndTonic so happy for you!!! Xxx

@MiaGrace31 It's blurry but looks completely fine to me...

@MiaGrace31 When you said barely visible I was expecting something very different x

i just wonder why the first on with fmu was so faint I would of thought it would be stronger. I guess only time will tell, this is what i get for early testing i suppose :( xx