0dpo today (Mon 20th) who’s with me for the two week wait?!

[Bloose]

I am ovulating today, just wondering if anyone else is and whether you’d like to join me for the two week wait?

(In my case it is more of a ten day wait as that’s when I start spotting for my period, but oh well!)

As I sit here, I can feel ovulation pains. In theory we could DTD once more late this evening but I’m not sure whether it’d be too late? 🤔

I will echo what @JimmyRoe has already said today. Huge congratulations to those of you who got positive tests this month. Fingers crossed for those still in the running and massive hugs to those who are out.

I had another BFN this morning. I'm 11dpo today and with an average 12dpo luteal phase, I know I'm out. Better luck next time maybe.

I think I can see a second line? I hope this lasts 2 years of trying and 2nd round of clomid its been such a painful journey

I think I see a second line @Clomid1 how many days dpo are you?

@Clomid1 that's a line! Did it come up within the time limit? Xx

@coco90 @Mummybearto3bg It came up well within the time frame and I’m 10 dpo. Cycle 2 of clomid.

I def see a line too! Congrats @Clomid1.

For everyone still waiting and hoping - I feel your pain, although we weren’t trying as long as some of you have for our first it took 9 months, this time is was about 9 again but really only properly tracking the first 1/2 and the last 3 - naively thought it would just magically happen for us, not sure why given the first time around! Still doesn’t feel real at all to be honest.

Af arrived this morning in full swing on to month 13

@Donthaveaclue1 if it’s any consolation with no medical intervention it took me 14 months to conceive and then I miscarried soon after. It is a painful journey all I can say is hold on we will eventually get there.

Have you started the process with your GP to run tests etc?

I have 2 children already @Clomid1 I was part of the promise trial with my son that made progesterone available on the nhs. I had 8 miscarriages before I had my son and then my daughter happened naturally. And also have pcos so I’m plagued with difficulties but I’m grateful for the babies I have I just feel like I don’t have much left in me to keep trying sorry for the long post x

@Donthaveaclue1 someone I know that had 2 children got progesterone through the nhs. Have they said no because of your children? I find it really annoying that different areas have different rules. Can they not just be consistent?

I also have pcos 😞 really hoping that this pregnancy will give me a healthy baby.

It’s a horrible journey

Sending baby dust @Clomid1 really hope it’s a sticky bean for you 🤞I have been back to the doctors as it’s almost impossible to get an appointment but I’m going to phone tomorrow x

Due AF tomorrow. I have had increasingly sore boobs. Even T-shirt brushing them is hurting. Lots of white clear CM. If I test tonight would this be ok? Baby dust to everyone.

As reported previously, I’ve had zero symptoms. I’m 12DPO today and reluctant to do a pregnancy test not to be disappointed. However I just did an OPK with my clear blue digital (makes no sense I know but I was curious what it would say) and it’s gone straight to peak, strong line… I know sometimes this can indicate pregnancy! What do you think?! Maybe I should hold urine and do a test in 3 hours? Just so scared to see a negative.

Spotting today (period due Wednesday) so I am out for yet another month…

Congratulations @Clomid1 - hope this is the happy end to your long journey!!!

Commiserations @Bloose, at least I’ll have some company next month!

@Coco90 I did that the night before I found out because I saw another thread on it on here of someone doing it, it was a very strong positive for me & then my preg test was positive the next day! No idea if that’s scientific or not but it was an indicator for me and that other woman anyway!

My period arrived yesterday; two days before expected.

It is so heavy. I am soaking through pads and there are lots of small, dark, dense clots. This is not usual for me. I’m now wondering if Friday morning’s squinter was in fact a faint positive rather than a grey line.

Hope you're ok @Bloose xx

I am sorry to hear this @Bloose. Going by your squinter last week and your unusual bleed, you may well have experienced a chemical pregnancy. I hope you are surrounded by love and lots of chocolate x

Thanks for your good wishes @Mummybearto3bg and @WutheringMights. Today is day 3 which normally tails off but it is still heavy and some larger clots (sorry for TMI). I have been absolutely exhausted all day today at work. I couldn’t wait to get home. One of my colleagues said she could tell I wasn’t myself.

In the spirit of eternal optimism, my Conceive Plus arrived today! A couple of friends have recommended it recently so we’re going to give it a go.

How is everyone else doing? Do we have any new squinters or are we all done for this cycle?

I thought I would have ovulated around the 20th, but AF is still not here I’ve been cramping for 2/3 days now on and off and I’m wondering whether I may have ovulated late? I’ve tested 4 times now the last time on Tuesday and BFN. I just wish I knew either way now it’s getting frustrating.

@W0W123 I am in the same boat as you. I either just want AF to arrive or a BFP so I know where I am at and can try again next month. Good luck. Let me know how you get on. Sorry no advice. Xx

@111222xx it’s so frustrating isn’t it. I’ve been regular and this is the first month ttc so if I’m not it’s just delaying trying again.

@W0W123 so frustrating. It's got me going crazy not knowing. This is our first month TTC after an early miscarriage Hoping it happens soon for both of us. 🤞🏻

@111222xx I gave in and tested when I got home from work. Sorry to hear about your mc I had one in June when we weren’t trying and I was on the pill.