0dpo today (Mon 20th) who’s with me for the two week wait?!

[Bloose]

I am ovulating today, just wondering if anyone else is and whether you’d like to join me for the two week wait?

(In my case it is more of a ten day wait as that’s when I start spotting for my period, but oh well!)

As I sit here, I can feel ovulation pains. In theory we could DTD once more late this evening but I’m not sure whether it’d be too late? 🤔

10dpo BFN for me, with concentrated urine. Bum!

@Snugglemuffins4me Congratulations, that’s wonderful!

@Snugglemuffins4me congratulations :) so happy for you.

I just spoke to the gynocologist today and due to multiple conditions they’ve found they are referring me for IVF. All a bit of a shock to be honest. I’m 10 dpo and just did a test, obv negative. I’ve been so stressed out at work and now this as well I just don’t think I can keep going. Am going to speak to my gp tomorrow about it. I’m usually so positive but it just feels all so heavy this evening. So much respect for you all for going through this.

@Bloose congratulations

I got my BFP today at only 9dpo!! I used these ultra early CB digital ones

12po BFN again due my period tomorrow 😔

I caved this morning , 11 dpo - positive! It’s faint but easy to see if that makes sense?! Off to buy a million more tests today and a digital to do 🤪

Congrats @PlantLadyMum! Best of luck everyone else!

Sorry should be 12 dpo not 11!

That’s fantastic @Glenpatrick and @PlantLadyMum!

Sending a hug @Donthaveaclue1, I got really heavy/period feeling all evening last night. But, we are not out until AF arrives! 🤞🏻

Hmm. I’ve just done a FRER at 11dpo and got this.

So, I did two internet cheapies (photo next post) and both are stark negative.

All tests are 10mlU sensitivity so am I to presume this FRER is one of those fabled evaporation lines?

The negative cheapies (but same sensitivity as FRER).

The second line on the FRER is easier to see in real life! I just can’t work out if it’s grey or pink!

Hmm I have just held it up to the sun and it is definitely grey. Oh well.

Well, congratulations to @PlantLadyMum and @Glenpatrick. I love reading about positive tests - well done!

@Bloose - maybe, just maybe? Test again later or tomorrow.

@Donthaveaclue1 I am so sorry you haven't had your BFP this morning. Neither have I and am feeling very deflated indeed 😒

Feeling deflated myself @WutheringMights been trying for a year and it just gets harder each month

I know only too well how disappointing it is every month @Donthaveaclue1. TTC is supposed to be exciting but at this stage, it's difficult to stay positive. My TTC days are numbered but I still hope and day dream.

Only had a tiny bit to drink all morning and have just done another FRER and it was blazing negative. I really had my hopes up for a brief few hours!

To think that I was so sure I would fall pregnant immediately because that is what I’ve been told all my life. What a joke!!

I'm now 8po and having constant aching down below, anyone else having this? You know that feeling you get when your on your period and it just aches?! Or is it just me

10dpo today. No symptoms still. I’m reluctant to test not to be disappointed so I’m going to hold out as long as I can.

So sorry @Bloose and @WutheringMights it's so gutting isn't it
You build up that hope over two weeks and allow yourself moments to imagine, just to have it all come crashing down. I wish I was one of those women who just notices she has missed a period!
I tested this morning and BFN, after convincing myself I was definitely pregnant. I never have been pregnant so not sure how I could tell
I'm 11dpo so could be too early, but the more likely explanation is that my cycles are not normal and i'm probably not ovulating. I have had only one 'normal' cycle in over a year now so something is definitely up!

Keep positive everyone!

@theblueflowers that made me smile. Oh to be one of those women who don't realise they've missed a period 😂

I would love to just stop tracking altogether but then I would kick myself if I wasn’t dtd at the time it’s so stressful

Another bfn this morning. Af was due today so no idea what’s going on

Congratulations @PlantLadyMum!!

Commiserations to the BFN club which I am also joining - AF arrived this morning in all her miserable glory so I’m out for this month.

Still… onwards and upwards! This has been a really nice group, hopefully see you all back here in a few days when we start all over again!!

Oh and congratulations @Glenpatrick!! I missed your news when I was speed reading, super exciting!

Apparently I’m not due AF for another week according to my app.. we’ll see. Will definitely hang around this group though to hear how everyone is doing 😁 sending lots of luck and positive vibes ⭐️