🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

@PeanuttyButter ❤️❤️❤️ Big love huni xX if I were to put a bet on it I’d say your period is being messed up by the obvious crappy headspace that you’re likely to be in right now. Due date looming is bad enough on its own but more pregnancy announcements?! 😫😫 that’s utterly crap!! And at Christmas ffs!!
I’m praying no-one around me announces, I know it’ll tip me right over the edge and I haven’t got the added factor of should’ve been date yet.
Take care of yourself, have lots of very well deserved treats and make sure you’ve got support and love around you xxxxxxx
It sucks but we’ve got to just ride the storm and hope for sunny days ahead. Lots of love xxxxxx

Afternoon ladies :) hope you are all well, and getting ready for Christmas 🥰
Yep I am mentally preparing myself that every cousin, aunty and friend is going to tell me that they are pregnant - I know it sounds silly but I just like to prepare myself for any possible announcements so I can fake me excited face haha

@peanuttybuttee that's rubbish:( was ovulation confirmed or might it have been Delayed a few days hence why period is delayed?

I am 7dpo at the moment same as @kelb79 :D how are you?

@babyghirl where are you in your cycle lovely?

@elm7 I know this is around the time of your2nd pregnancy so sending love💗

@sunnysideup2020 wow long cycles! I guess that's because of breastfeeding?

@apwilso are you all better after covid?

@27donfin how are you lovely?

@Annny27 yup! 7DPO!
I’m actually pretty distracted for a change so not symptom spotting….. but that also means no symptoms!! Meh!!! 😐
Anything your end?? 🙏🏼
AF due on Christmas Day is a real double edged sword!! Incredibly magical if it were a BFP but extra crappy for the usual BFN!!
Are you gonna test??? I’m undecided……. 🤔

@kelb79 same here - no symptoms nothing ununusal but as expected for 7dpo haha

Yep I think I might teat on Christmas ever because if it's bfn I can just have a little cry and move on with the cycle and be happy on Christmas day. And then if its positive I can be excited haha. How about you?

Christmas eve*

Did you get your period @PeanuttyButter ?

I am on CD4. Mine arrived a bit early...

@SunnySideUp2020 not yet no. I'm CD28 so 4 days late and 13dpo. All BFN. Spotting has started again this morning so hoping today is the day so we can start thinking about next fertile week lol

@Annny27 yup…. I’m thinking Christmas Eve too….. either kick off Christmas the best way EVER or hit the rum early!! 🤣🤣

I felt sick as a dog all day yesterday…. At 8DPO that obviously had me in symptom spotting hell 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ I can’t remember what it was like pre TTC when everything wasn’t a potential pregnancy symptom!! My OH thinks I’m a total hypochondriac- I’ll mention the symptom without really pointing out it could be a symptom as he’s always telling me to take my head away from it… watched pot and all that!! 🤣

I’m supposed to be going away for my much needed holiday in 10 days…. But it looks like that’s likely to be messed up by another lockdown!!! Meh!! That’ll be gutting 😐

Just trying to get into the festive spirit and hope for the best 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@PeanuttyButter really hoping AF gets the hell on with it and out the way for you 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Then you can try to enjoy Christmas a bit. It’s horrible when our bodies mess us around 😐 How are you doing? xX

@Annny27 I am thank you recovered well and can smell and taste again! Thanks for asking xx

@Annny27 thank you for remembering- it was a year today we found out our little bean wasn’t growing as it should be, Really trying to get into the festive spirit this year as was so miserable last year.

@ELM7 Sending love ❤️ that’s a tough anniversary!! Hope you can enjoy this Christmas a bit better, I can absolutely imagine how much that must’ve wiped out Christmas for you last year!
My MC was nearly 3 months ago now and I still can’t get at all festive 😵‍💫

So I’ve felt sick again all day today…. Totally not symptom spotting at all 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️😵‍💫

Why am I not getting notified on this page anymore lol,

@Annny27
I'm cd13 had thrush gs all clear now thou so started dtd last night and omg thought he was hitting my right Overy so I don't know if it was ovulation or not lol. How r you doing 💚

Still no AF, pink at my cervix though it's been like that for 5 days. Supposed to have a GP appointment tomorrow for an examination after AF had finished and it's not even started!! So frustrated. Also just set call the midwife to record for Xmas day. I remember watching it back in April and when it finished I thought the next time I watch it I might have had my baby.

@PeanuttyButter
Aww how frustrating but it's also a good sign your lp has got longer thou if you look at it that way xx

@Babyghirl think it's a chemical tbh. Had a squinter on Saturday but it's gone now and I think after I've walked about today AF will be here as TMI passed a dark clot when I went to the toilet this morning. See what the GP says today

@PeanuttyButter oh bless you huni ❤️❤️ That’s crap at any time but most especially right now. Take care of yourself. Sending so much love xxxxxxxx

@PeanuttyButter
Awww big hugs from me we will all get r rainbow babies soon xx

Been the docs this afternoon for gynae issues (booked before this) and even though I'm bleeding a bit my cervix is closed which isn't ideal. I just feel like it's never ending, feel like this makes me out next month too if I don't get rid x

Well my due date is tomorrow for my MC. Feeling weird about it. Testing opks again this month to figure out what's going on. If it's still off this month I will be going doctors in the new year.

Feeling positive though trying to be in a different mindset instead of going under with it

Oh no @PeanuttyButter that doesn't sound good.
What did the doc say?

@SunnysideUp2020 she basically said there's a chance I will only have a light bleed this month then next month probably a really big one to expell the tissue. So I went the gym and did a disgustingly hard work out (I cried with emotion at the end), sat with a hot water bottle and persuaded DH to DTD to try and get things going.
It worked!!!
This morning I have the worst period of my life, so heavy, lots of cramping but I feel better mentally for it. Going to have to start OPKs sooner too to see if I ovulate this month, but gonna take today as CD1.

Thinking of you @apwilso remember I'm here (and on DM) if you need to talk

@PeanuttyButter I didn't realise you could dm! Can you do that on the app?!

Thanks as well @PeanuttyButter got a bit ahead of the post x

Hello everyone how are you all??? Everyone ready for xmas?? So I would of been having my little bundle on the 29th I must admit I am a little sad today about everything but feeling so positive for next year currently on cycle day 11 had a longer period this cycle only by a day not sure why usually 3-4 day bleed turned into a 5 day bleed... I have started using conceive plus lube the stuff is amazing don't feel as dry down there.. I have also not done any opks this cycle I am going in blind and you no what I feel more relaxed about everything so according to my app I should ovulate on Xmas day but taking that with a pinch of salt I feel no pain at all I swear all these pee sticks make you so hyper sensitive oh and having lots more baby dancing that isn't too scheduled which is much better I think so let's see what happens this month xx

@apwilso
Thinking of you today big hugs 💚

@PeanuttyButter
How are you feeling. 💚

@sweetbabydust1989
Get to it and hopefully more chilled not knowing when that egg going to pop 💚