🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

@Babyghirl

Here they r x

Oh my days they are the cutest! I want a dog so bad!

@skaterchick
You want 12 9f them lol x

[quote Babyghirl]@skaterchick
You want 12 9f them lol x[/quote]
If I had the space for 12 I absolutely would 😂 I've finally convinced the dude to get a dog, we just have to convince our landlord now!

I have no idea how you are coping with 12 puppies Babyghirl. Our one is mischief enough 😆!

@skaterchick
Hopefully your landlord is OK with it for yous to go ahead.

@Equimum
Not to bad we started feeding them puppy food last nite lol they loved it.

@Equimum I am so pleased that the doctor you spoke to has made a referral for you!!! Next Wednesday must still seem so far away but glad that you have it booked and don't have to pay. Sorry to hear that the clinics near you are so busy as the main point of private scans is usually paying to be seen quicker than the NHS.

I'm really sorry to hear about your 3 week wait before. I have a friend that had a similar experience to you and in her next pregnancy she ended up having scans every 2 weeks to avoid what she went through before, a mixture of NHS and private. She is now heavily pregnant so I really hope that this time around will be a positive one for you too.

It's such a shame how our bad experiences can taint our current pregnancies. I still worry most days and I'm not sure I'll ever fully relax. I've spent far more money than I ever planned to on private scans and have been so grateful when the NHS have offered me extra scans as well.

I'm sure you'll keep us updated about how Wednesday goes and I'm hoping that it's all good news on Wednesday xxxx

@Babyghirl That's great news in reaching top of the list for ivf!!! Really hope everything else gets sorted out quickly so that you can start ivf ASAPxxxxx

H0peing I'm sorry you're still feeling so anxious. I have everything crossed for you.

Yes, I thought it would be relatively easy to just get a private appointment, but there aren't my many places offering them near us, and they're really all super busy. Our nearest did say that have never been so busy, but then again, most 12 week scans are being done nearer 14 weeks, and they can't fit me in at the local midwife clinics. The doctor yesterday said local maternity is totally overwhelmed!

@HOpeing
I knw think I'm ovulating now as got a bit of pain in my left side so you never know lol wishful thinking 😂😂😂😂😂

Eurgh, when you wanna nip to Poundland for opks and the dude invites his mum to walk up the shops with you 😬
We'd popped in for a cuppa and was gonna go to the shops on the way home. I had to ask him to distract her and take her into another shop while I went to get them.
She then kept asking what I had gotten in there I just said oh cheap toiletries she then kept asking what toiletries, dude stepped in and went oh she goes through so much hand cream. And when we left her he did comment about how nosey she was being 😂
She knows we want to get pregnant but doesn't know about the MC, and I'm not in the right headspace/mood to discuss it with her so I didn't want her knowing what I was buying 😂

@skaterchick
Awkward 😂😂😂😂😂😂 very nosey mil you have 😂😂😂😂😂, I would of told mine dildos but them my mil prop would of asked for a lend of it cause she like Mrs brown boys lol.

@Babyghirl if we hadn't have just had the MC then I probably wouldn't have been so bothered by it!
I don't know the mil well enough to know how she's take a comment like that 😂😂😂 been with the dude for 2.5 yrs but we don't see his mum that often

@skaterchick
My mil is wild but a good wild, my oh sis is gay and she bought her a card for her birthday saying all I want is dick for my birthday with a pic picture on it 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I hope nobody minds me posting here again. My pregnancy symptoms seemed to come back over the weekend, but in the typical way of this cruel journey, I started spotting last night, and today, the bleeding is getting heavier 😞. Typically, it's half term, so the kids at where, and we have workmen in! I just want to huddle up in a private space, but no option for that.

@Equimum I'm really sorry this must be stressful. Not knowing this going on is the worst part isn't it. Can you ring the epu and see if they can see you earlier with the bleeding? They might be able to prescribe progesterone to stop the spotting xx

Thanks PeanuttyButter. I called my GP and despite the receptionist again telling me it was too early for them to support me, he called back almost straight away. He called the EPU but they have said that unless I have symptoms of an ectopic pregnancy, there is nothing they can do before Wednesday (and even if I did, it would be A&E, not them). Annoyingly, the local EPU is literally only open for 9 hours a week! I'm not sure they could really save it anyway.

Hi ladies you all good so I am officially ttc woohoo... the op did my insides a world of good no more pain on the ectopic side and no more pain after sex cannot believe it all I needed was a good clear out.. started ovulation tests today but started DTD Saturday I really want a third time lucky this year so I can end this shitty year on a high xx

@Equimum
So sorry to hear the bleeding is getting worse, hopefully it's nothing to worry about but it's all we can think abot after what we have been through, 💚

@sweetbabydust1989
Wooohooo in to ttc again think ovulation was yesterday for me or sat as had left side pain on on and of on sat but abit worse yesterday even hurt abit last night to dtd like I could feel it when it hit my cervix tmi there really 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but took a day off work today with an emergency Al just need to have a chill day and going to make a beef curry for oh for after work lol. 💚

Glad you are feeling so much better since your op sweetbabydust1989. I have everything crossed that you get your positive really soon.

I hope the day off helps Babyghirl. You've inspired me to think of something yummy to cook. I might use the sorrowful looking butternut squash as the base of a tagine.

@Babyghirl woohoo it's so excited I have had months of not being able to try whole awaiting my op but now we can finally do it!! Was sad to see a circle on my ovulation test but I think Clearblue app has told me to start them too early this cycle I am only on day 7.. oh that's sounds lovely hun not sure what I am having yet maybe steak I am back to work next week so making the most of my last week off binge watching Gilmore girls makes me feel old 😂 xx

@Equimum oh it's lovely to now be able to start been nearly 6 months now feels forever now I am back in the game. I hope I remember what a 2WW is.. how have you been?? Xx

@Equimum
I love cooking his fav dinners for after work most of the time he's no idea on what he's getting to I hand him it 😂😂😂😂😂😂.

@sweetbabydust1989
I love that show have you watched squid games on Netflix lol.

@Babyghirl yes I binge watched it all I have done for the last 3 weeks is binge Netflix 🤣🤣 xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Think I will do the same today myself if I ever finishing cleaning 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Babyghirl it's been lovely pjs and Netflix slumming it 😂😂 I honestly just wanna get into my 2WW hoping my tubes play ball now they have been cleaned xx