🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

@ELM7 I'm finding birthdays snd Christmas's so difficult. If I wasn't for my mum with me being an only child I'd go on away on holiday at Christmas. Each year it just gets more difficult. The first Christmas after my miscarriage was to get smashed I was hammered was sick and out to bed without any dinner 🙈

How did yous ladies know I needed to vent, a girl in work just rocked up you know I'm pregnant 17 weeks I have been so sick tired ect ect, I felt like telling her to fuck up she's lucky to have a healthy baby on board, as I would give anything to have my head down a toliet 24 7 and wlk about with match sticks in my eyes 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.

@27DONFIN
Doesn't Christmas get worse I hate to c it coming it kills me.

@ELM7
Mother nature is a bitch, why can't life and things just be easy why does miscarriages have to exist.

I love these thread and I love all you girlies.

@27DONFIN sorry AF came. I'm 34 at the end of the month too and no babies here. We will all get through this.

@Babyghirl if I hear one more person tell me "at least you know you can get pregnant" I am going to scream. Or hit them. Or both.

Also just a reminder for the wave of light tonight 7pm to end baby loss awareness week. I've taken part for the past 6 years due to the loss of my goddaughter. This year it's even more personal having lost 2 this year myself.
Bleeding finally stopped now though and just waiting for the bleeding to start again with AF I suppose.

Also with a due date of 24th December from my first Christmas is going to suck balls this year.

@Babyghirl completely with you - I know some people struggle with their pregnancies but what we would give to have to be hugging the toilet due to morning sickness (that sounds so crazy)

I’m really hoping to make it a lovely Christmas this year. I normally love Christmas but last year was tough as we were in limbo of waiting for confirmation of our 2nd MC so couldn’t even drink my way through it - so really want to make this year a good one. Although really sorry @PeanuttyButter understand it will be tough with what should of been your due date.

@PeanuttyButter
Awwww we will be here to help you through it as much as possible girl. Glad the bleeding has stopped for you to💚

@ELM7
Sounds weired to say that hugging the toilet would be great. I try to but I always say what if on Christmas morning waken up to a baby in the house would be amazing 💚

Have you got ur candles light girls xx

Thinking of you all today 💛

Mine light x

@fizzl
Awk thank, for you to them candles are lite 💚 how's baby doing 💚

Got my candle burning 🕯️🕯️

For my angels and your angels 💗💗

P.s i have been reading all your messages but been trying to take a step back as anxiety is sky high but surgery is next week 💗 will let you know when it's done and the outcome xxx

Won't let me upload a photo but I have mine lit too. Thinking of you all this evening x

@Babyghirl baby is doing well thanks. Appreciating her that little bit more today. Sending you all lots of love and positivity. I remember this day last year well - Hoping you all find yourselves in a very different situation this time next year too 💛💛

@Annny27 hope your surgery goes well. Hopefully one step closer for you and your rainbow 💛

Sending love to you all💜💜

@apwilso
😘😘😘 How r you doing 💚

@Babyghirl I'm okay thank you.

I'm finally off for a week and I want to start DTD as I've had some sticky CM and other half keeps not going through with it. Starting to annoy me because this morning I woke up and I'm like right let's go now!!! It's now becoming a routine which I don't want to happen. I told him in the year off trying on and off this is the first cycle we're at home together all week and now he cba. I'm irritated

@apwilso
Maybe it's fear with him do you think, I don't tell oh when I'm ovulating because it would stress him out to much maybe if you don't tell him it won't feel like to much pressure. But I get where your coming from its annoying my oh would never turn down a session gs could do it 3 times a day if I let him 😂😂😂😂😂

How you ladies all doing I am pretty much at the end of recovery now finally!!! Stitches are still healing but I feel 100% better now no more pain guessing I just needed a good jet wash out... next cycle I am going to start my ttc journey again not sure if this year is omen though but would be lovely to get a confirmed pregnancy after 2 ectopics this year what do you all think my consultant never actually told me when you start again... is it true you can be more fertile after a lap & dye I just don't wanna waste any opportunity xx

@Babyghirl yeah he's said he gets stressed but then I get stressed because I feel as if we're not fitting it in🤣 honestly all this over DTD you wouldn't believe it. It's never a problem any other time😅😅 exactly!!

@sweetbabydust1989
I have heard loads of success stories after it, I would contact your consultant but when u can try 💚

@apwilso
Typical when you need them to preform they could not be bothered 😂😂😂

@Babyghirl hello lovely I tried but been discharged from them so they won't no longer speak to me as I am no longer on their books I am a little worried as I am cramping loads and the pain I use to feel on my right side has shifted to my left side xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Maybe you r ovulating and that's what the pain is, try phoning epu on Monday and ask them how long do you have to wait, you will be fine you got this x

@Babyghirl I think you're right it must be ovulation as I noticed my mucus to be more sticky and stretchy today I am suppose to be on today but I think it's been delayed by the op yeah I might actually call them xx

Well I got a positive OPK today. DH doesn't want to try this month as he doesn't think my body is ready, to be honest it's probably not I've only not been bleeding for 3 days. He gets stage fright too in fertile week, no issue any other time but he ends up putting pressure on himself and can't bring the horse over the finish line so to speak. We'd just gotten into the swing of things pre this last pregnancy and now I'm worried that it's gonna start again. Thing is I have a bigger sex drive than DH anyway so if I don't tell him it's the week he can happily only do it the once. Shouldn't be this difficult should it!!!