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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Anyone 9dpo

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 18:32

@Ladylou17 if u didn't track ov i recon it's an early pos and ur ov it later . That's potentially implantation bleeding ! Tomorrow morning go get a first response early . And if ablle to go first thing ans before u have any fluids . Doesn't matter of u pee before u go but don't drink before u do test that will give you your answer !!!! Xxx

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90mamabear · 28/09/2021 18:34

@Melabells did you track your ovulation ?:) xx

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Ladylou17 · 28/09/2021 18:40

@90mamabear I will get one in the morning thanks! I'm on a night shift tonight (nurse) annoyingly :)
@Melabells it came up after 3 minutes
I'm not getting too excited as I've had some spotting and cramps but weird for AF to come on day 25 for me. Thanks both xx

90mamabear · 28/09/2021 18:45

@Ladylou17 don't worry - nurse /midwife also here hahaha I understand the pain lmao excited for u xxx

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Melabells · 28/09/2021 19:08

@90mamabear actually this month no I didn't use opk to confirm as I ran out. But I had a day of lots of EWMand my usual ovulation discomfort. We've been so busy with kids and moving house we hardly did the deed so thought I was out for sure . We dtd two days before ovulation and it seems that was enough.

90mamabear · 28/09/2021 19:14

@Melabells amazing !!!🥰🥰🥰🥰

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RT65 · 28/09/2021 20:44

Just found this thread and I just wanted to say how amazing it is!!! Me and my hubby have been ttc for about 14-15 months and found out last week that this month was a winner and so I've just signed up to mumsnet and seen this thread. This thread would have been an absolute rock for me had I known it was here. Keep supporting each other!!

I also wanted to share what worked for us in case it helps anyone else. We tried pregnacare his/hers for 3 months and got nowhere, tried ovulation tracking and got nowhere. What did work for us was that for the last month we were DTD every 2-3 days (we were every 3-4 in previous months), started eating breakfast, cut down on coffee and also started using proceive max his/hers and a ferti-lily conception cup. It was the first month in ages where I had no idea when I ovulated and I was gobsmacked as we were considering going to the docs to ask for help. We'd been taking the proceive max for 3-4 weeks, whereas everything else had been a gradual change for the last 2-3 months. Hope these tips helps someone as it seems to have done the trick for us (just hoping things continue positively now!).

P.s. really do hope this helps someone rather than me coming across as bragging, I really hope it doesn't come cross that way as I know how stressful and hard it can be seeing others get pregnant all around you and wonder why it isn't you yet. But keep going and doing all the things you can. There is always hope, and maybe when you least expect it!!!

90mamabear · 28/09/2021 20:55

@RT65 hi!!!! Oh my goodness thank you sooo much for your help and support ❤️❤️!! And thank you I feel so lucky to be in this thread it's so active !! Thank you !!! ... nextly CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! I'm so happy for you all of your hard work and efforts have paid off and ur gonna be a mummy soooo lovely I'm sure you just can't believe it!! I hope ur pregnancy is going well so far! I will def be taking on some tips !

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Hope18 · 28/09/2021 21:17

Omg I have no idea why I've missed so much chat here?!
So much has happened!
@90mamabear were defo all in this together and all here for each others down days, never feel silly or that your alone because having people to talk to going through this is definitely needed as sometimes it's not possible to talk to people who are closest to us!
Your doing everything you possibly can❤️ big hugs to you.. I briefly read you fell before about 10 years ago? Or did I read that wrong?

@Melabells what fantastic news for you!!! Congratulations!! 😍

@RT65 thanks for sharing to us all! I need all the help I can bloody get right now 😂
Trying to stay positive but its so so hard!

90mamabear · 28/09/2021 21:19

@Hope18 thank you 💕💕💕 !! Yes my dd is 10 :) xx

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RT65 · 28/09/2021 21:34

@90mamabear - thank you!! Absolutely in shock and trying to take it one day at a time just in case!

@Hope18 - no problem, fingers crossed the tips help. It can be so stressful and everything feels so out of control. I guess you just have to trust things will be ok and you'll get there in the end.
There's no point putting lots of pressure on yourself, that's what I still keep telling myself at least!

Good luck all ❤️

Ladylou17 · 29/09/2021 05:24

So AF has arrived 3 days early.
Not feeling too disheartened going to do opk this month and see how we go :) I definitely think I ovulate sooner than I thought.
what time would you recommend doing them theres so much conflicting stuff online xx

90mamabear · 29/09/2021 07:29

Took this I'm 8/9 dpo. Am I seeing things ???

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MrsMo21 · 29/09/2021 07:55

@90mamabear that looks like a line to me!! 🎉

90mamabear · 29/09/2021 08:05

@MrsMo21 it's so so early . It showed up working the 3 mins . Dh says it's too faint and won't believe it ! We will have to see what happens I really hope this is real I can't quite believe my eyes x

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MrsMo21 · 29/09/2021 08:06

@90mamabear I will keep everything crossed for you lovely x

Ladylou17 · 29/09/2021 08:35

@90mamabear that's a definite line :) xx

90mamabear · 29/09/2021 15:43

I Genuinley can't get my head around it . I must be 9po rather than 8. This was this afternoon and I've been drinking fluids this am. Took one to rule out an evap. Do you think I can be excited girls ? I can't believe it :) I Genuinley cannot believe it xx

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Bridgey8 · 29/09/2021 15:45

@90mamabear that is clear as day to me!

MrsMo21 · 29/09/2021 16:03

@90mamabear that’s positive to me!!! 💕💕💕

Ladylou17 · 29/09/2021 16:24

definitely positive @90mamabear congratulations so happy for you xx

ShellUK09 · 29/09/2021 16:25

@90mamabear yes that’s clear, many congratulations! 🥰 xx

90mamabear · 29/09/2021 16:35

Girls thank you so much honestly . I've never been in more disbelief . I've never felt more disheartened than this month. Can't believe it . Thank you so so much ❤️❤️❤️

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Fairy45 · 29/09/2021 16:40

Oh my goodness @90mamabear congratulations!!!

Mama500 · 29/09/2021 17:07

Massive congratulations! How long have you been trying x