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Anyone 9dpo

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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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ShellUK09 · 07/10/2021 10:40

@90mamabear awwww no I'm so sorry, sending huge hugs. Can you get seen at EPU for a scan? I know what you are going through and it is horrible, but if it is bleeding sometimes it doesn't always mean the end. Take care xx

Bridgey8 · 07/10/2021 10:50

Oh @90mamabear I'm so sorry - what has happened?

Mama500 · 07/10/2021 12:58

@90mamabear I’m so so sorry hope you are ok x

MrsMo21 · 07/10/2021 15:05

@90mamabear oh my gosh ive only just seen this! What’s happened? Are you ok? Xx

90mamabear · 07/10/2021 20:47

Ladies this day I swear - took a test because I didn't feel right today and it was decreased digital. Then this evening it's back up. Was told this meant hcg decreasing and meant a miscarriage but now it's back up again I don't know what to think. I've taken two snd they back up to the weeks they should be ?:(

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Fairy45 · 07/10/2021 21:30

Oh no!! Hope it's normal weeks again tomorrow. My SIL was telling me she kept doing the clear blues and took her a long time to get to 3+ and my brother was telling her to stop. Maybe leave it 2 days and see what it is then ... easier to say than do!

Fairy45 · 07/10/2021 21:30

Sending lots and lots of love!!

MrsMo21 · 07/10/2021 21:41

@90mamabear try to get some sleep if you can and perhaps look to do an HCG blood test tomorrow? You can order them from medichecks - digis are notoriously tricky x

ShellUK09 · 07/10/2021 22:14

@90mamabear ah everything is a worry, maybe the time of day you did the digital test had an impact. Try to rest tonight x

90mamabear · 08/10/2021 04:25

@Fairy45 @ShellUK09 @MrsMo21 @Ladylou17 @Bridgey8 thank you all. Will keep you updated. Xxx

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Bridgey8 · 08/10/2021 09:36

@90mamabear how you doing today lovely? Xx

90mamabear · 08/10/2021 12:23

@Bridgey8 hello ❤️ today my symptoms (sore boobs) have returned and feel exhausted (probably from worry). Took a digi I know I need to stop this am and it's saying 2-3. Yesterday's must have been a blip and I'm guessing symptoms
Come and go. I got such a scare. It looked like my hcg was dropping and I had so much pain also. I'm not sure what happened but today seems normal again. Have you many symptoms. Thank you so much all of you for wishing me will. I think all looks ok. That test going down in weeks really Knocked me all I could think was it must be so borderline which means it's barely went up this week that fluids have been enough to put it back but it must be a one off mistake. I hope! These first weeks are terrifying !

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Bridgey8 · 08/10/2021 13:06

@90mamabear so glad you're feeling better.

I have had barely any symptoms. My nipples are sore and my boobs are bigger.... and that's about it. Maybe a hint of nausea every now and then. I don't really feel pregnant in the slightest. But then I'm literally about to hit week 5 so could still be easy days.

Did a test this morn (just a Waitrose own cheapie) and it's similar darkness to earlier in week (still a strong line maybe a touch darker) but spoke to the doctor earlier in week and they told me to step away from the tests as the reality is that they are only designed to tell you if you're pregnant or not and not to show progress - some don't get dark and there are soooo many variables. So to not worry unless I start to bleed or am in pain. So I'm not going to test anymore as it's stressing me out!!!

90mamabear · 08/10/2021 13:09

@Bridgey8 these digitalis are really stressing me because it has me worrying about progression. I'm act due 14th not 15th so I'm 4 and 3 days . I honestly need to give myself a break. Have you any cramping ? I have so much cramping but I had that last time I'm certain I recall too at this stage ! Xxx

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Bridgey8 · 08/10/2021 13:42

@90mamabear I've heard so many stories now with people struggling to get to 3+ on a clear blue and it being fine.... not worth the stress. What will be will be! Minimal cramping at mo x

90mamabear · 08/10/2021 13:46

@Bridgey8 🥰🥰

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Fairy45 · 08/10/2021 18:36

Glad everything looks good for you now @90mamabear!! I've got really sore boobs and Im Exhausted. Like could actually go to bed now!

blueberryy · 08/10/2021 20:07

@90mamabear sneaking into this thread, but tell me more about this cramping.... I just got a faint but obvious line yesterday at 11 DPO but I've had wicked back cramps for nearly 4 days now. I don't remember this at all from my first pregnancy. But they're intense!

90mamabear · 08/10/2021 20:10

@blueberryy hey welcome to our wee gang. I wish I knew, mine are agony. Like really painful. Like I'm being stretched so badly. I'm assuming it's the massive gap between my pregnancies I hope that's all it is:(

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90mamabear · 08/10/2021 20:11

@Fairy45 so glad ur ok! My boobs are aching too ! Lots of love xxx

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blueberryy · 08/10/2021 20:32

@90mamabear yeah it's so wild. There's a 2 and a quarter year gap between mine so yeah, maybe just my body trying to remember what to do haha. At first I thought AF cramps, but usually those last for a day, not multiple. So 🤞🏼🤞🏼.

90mamabear · 08/10/2021 20:41

@blueberryy are yours agony too? I'm so glad of this reassurance

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blueberryy · 08/10/2021 22:27

@90mamabear just feels like back pain I'd get in the centre of my lower back a few days before AF, so that does have me worried. But AF pains are not for as long as this has been, so we shall see! But it's definitely painful.

ShellUK09 · 09/10/2021 11:58

I'm still having positive tests... This is after I had an early MC on 10th September. I'm still hoping this is a new pregnancy as we DTD 16th/17th September but I won't know for sure until they scan me again, got another two weeks to wait before EPU will see me. Surely the tests would have gone negative by now? I was 5 weeks when I had the early MC. I had back cramp last night but it went away quite quickly once I got the hot water bottle out. Also out of curiosity I did an ovulation stick and that was very positive, not sure what to make of this situation! I am going to wait it out though, I'm not in any pain although I do still get light brown spotting only noticeable when I wipe x

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90mamabear · 09/10/2021 12:16

@ShellUK09 I would wonder too do you ovulate after your miscarriage and conceive again. There is also the Possibility of twins in the last pregnancy . The line is very dark I agree. Can you have hcg bloods done with go to see if rising or falling ? Xx

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