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4dpo any one want to join??

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Jely123 · 05/05/2021 13:32

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

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Kinickynicky · 12/05/2021 21:38

It’s spotting in my underwear now so popped a pad in, my period is due next Wednesday- I think that makes me 7dpo? God knows x How are you all getting on? @hopingtostartfamily did Amazon man come? @Rugratree do you really think so? Xx

hopingtostartfamily · 12/05/2021 21:57

I think you’re right in that you’re 7DPO. Wishing all the baby luck! How many months have you been TTC?

Unfortunately Amazon man didn’t come so I’m going to have to wait until the morning and test with my fertility monitor. Not sure if that would be sensitive enough to pick anything up yet - but hopefully my delayed first response tests will arrive tomorrow. On the plus side, amazon are issuing me a refund - silver linings and all! Grin

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 06:12

@hopingtostartfamily good luck this morning!!
We’ve been trying in an off since my youngest was born 4 years ago, this is our first month properly making an effort though - I’ve just turned 40 so time is tuning out for me x

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 08:17

8dpo update , boobs feel like rocks 🪨 I’m very gassy (bad have been since about 2dpo) and I am so so so so so thirsty!! Hope everyone is well! Looking forward to hearing about more bfps. I’ve decided to wait until the weekend to test again xx

PairOfPears · 13/05/2021 09:06

Another negative for me today at 8dpo and my boobs just feel normal now so feeling like it might not be my month after all! I felt so pregnant a couple of days ago but not so much now. So not out yet but feeling less confident than I was! Fingers crossed for everyone ☺️

hopingtostartfamily · 13/05/2021 10:12

Unfortunately I got a BFN on my fertility monitor this morning. Is it still worth me testing with a First Response or am I out?

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 11:08

I’m sorry to hear about your bfn’’s @PairOfPears and @hopingtostartfamily :(
I’m bleeding again; just went for a wee and there was a ball of red fluffy stuff at the bottom when I went to flush. Sorry tmi. It’s not like period it’s bright red/orange stuff 😒

ChillyBon95 · 13/05/2021 11:41

11dpo, had this really weird ache in my bum cheeks lol sorry if tmi. When I sat down I could feel it, felt like I've been doing squats for hours but no excercise. BFN on strip test this morning still too early though I think got AF type pains.

PairOfPears · 13/05/2021 12:57

It’s such a rollercoaster for everyone isn’t it!

@Kinickynicky do you think it’s an implantation bleed?

I’m out of tests now 😂 bought two more and gave them to DH to hide until Saturday!

Rugratree · 13/05/2021 14:21

@Kinickynicky it all depends what is usual for you..does this generally happen you? Spotting days before period is due?

@PairOfPears good thinking pulling in hubby to do some hiding. I got mine to get tests on way home from work..positive within seconds..relieved to see it good and strong..my period was due on Tuesday so I’m 4 weeks 2 days..so happy..but cautious still ofcourse. Oh also my sore boobs have kinda disappeared now too..I don’t really feel anything at min..but I do have a dull ache down my right leg..hoping it’s nothing sinister..

@hopingtostartfamily not out until the bitch arrived..fingers crossed that it never does

ChillyBon95 · 13/05/2021 15:23

I caved and did a test again today, so I did a frer yesterday absolutely nothing. Did the second test just now out the same box and saw a vvvvvfl almost unseeable to the naked eye let alone a camera. could that be an indent? How can you tell? So I did another one straight after out a different box and same thing almost unseeable vvvvfl? Help please Grin

PairOfPears · 13/05/2021 16:06

@Rugratree great that your line is getting stronger! Amazing! Are you using any pregnancy tracker app now?

@ChillyBon95 I think it’s all about the colour...if it’s pink, it’s a line! But nothing yesterday followed by two v faint lines today sounds promising...

babyboybluex · 13/05/2021 16:13

Hey @Jely123, jumping on if that's ok!

Hope you are doing well, I am sorry to hear about your losses Flowers

I'm 23 and have an almost 11-month old boy! Currently 8DPO and I've done a test today due to tender and sore boobs (my first pregnancy symptom with my first). Nothing showing at the moment!

Hoping something appears soon.

Sending hugs to all on here x

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 17:33

@ChillyBon95 img mine were the same the exact same and kind of faded away if that makes sense? Pic of mine abovex

ChillyBon95 · 13/05/2021 17:44

@Kinickynicky YES! Mine did the same thing it faded away after about 5 mins so not sure if that's an indent or Evap line I don't even know what those look like. So tempted to try again later on tonight but I can predict the outcome and I only have 1 frer test left which I want to save for missed period day on the 17th! When are you testing again?x

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 18:29

Out of curiosity I took a monitor test stick it’s got two lines on it, I don’t know if that means anything though?

4dpo any one want to join??
ChillyBon95 · 13/05/2021 18:51

Oh I have never used those so I wouldn't know what it means. Hopefully it's a good sign though! FX for you! I am currently having waves of really low back pain and cramps. I was supposed to have a couple glasses of vino tonight after work but after the confusing test I'm not sure what to do? Is it unsafe ? X

Anyone else got updates ?!Smile

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 18:57

@ChillyBon95 thanks hun! God knows going to Asda for a test later; put the first response down to being inconclusive! The night before I found out I was pregnant with my little boy I had several glasses of red wine thinking I was on my
Period! I’m sure one or two will be fine xx

Bundaberg84 · 13/05/2021 18:59

Hey @Kinickynicky I use the fertility monitor as well, and when I was pregnant in February, my stick looked the same. I read somewhere that the pregnancy tests from the fertility monitor work the same as every other cheapie, but of course it's just something someone wrote, I'm not 100% sure if it was a concidence or not.

ChillyBon95 · 13/05/2021 20:36

@Kinickynicky Oh do keep us updated! X

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 21:10

Asda was a bfn 😓 also my ibd is playing up so I I’m feeling pretty rubbish about it all to he honest: I think I’m only 8dpo don’t understand why I’m bleeding

Bundaberg84 · 13/05/2021 21:27

@Kinickynicky Well, as I wrote, implantation happens around dpo 6-12, so that would fit perfectly into that. How strong is the bleeding?

Bundaberg84 · 13/05/2021 21:29

@Kinickynicky sorry I just saw that my last message didn't get through, so ignore the "as I wrote before" part :) But it does sound like it could be implantation bleeding?

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 21:43

It started yesterday quite light a little in my underwear but mostly on tissue then today it’s got lighter then nothing at all now xx that being said I don’t have any cm either xx

Kinickynicky · 13/05/2021 21:45

Did you use your frer @hopingtostartfamily xx

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