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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Lollipop25 · 02/05/2021 17:09

As requested ladies 🤗 Anyone not tagged , apologies but feel free to join!!
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baabiee · 17/05/2021 09:36

Hi guys, thanks for your well wishes. Unfortunately we lost my Grandad on Saturday morning. And I'm having cramping and blood on wiping could be implantation though I'm hoping for a period this time

Gummybear17 · 17/05/2021 10:15

@dunkedbiscuit biscuit . I am really sorry to hear your news , I was so happy to hear your news of a BFP. I never expected this journey to be so emotionally difficult but gosh it's a rollercoaster isn't it ? Hear to chat if you need.

Confused678866 · 17/05/2021 10:24

@dunkedbiscuit So sorry you're experiencing this, always here to chat if you need to. Sending hugs xxx

AllyCat31 · 17/05/2021 10:38

I’m so sorry @dunkedbiscuit I hope you’re doing okay. Hope AF comes quickly so you can start your next cycle ❤️

justwant2beamum · 17/05/2021 11:14

Sorry @dunkedbiscuit

@sylvie1001 I've already tested with cheapies and bfn. I had already resigned myself as out this month as partner was away so didn't DTD in fertile week, only managed to DTD twice just after my peak cause he was away for work. But then the last few days my resting heart rate shot up to 75bpm which it's only ever been when I got BFP in January and it was the same then the graph was a huge upwards line. So I stupidly allowed myself to hope all weekend. BFN today and my rhr also fell by 3bpm. My rhr also dropped at 9dpo last month so guessing AF on her way and I'm out. Feel so so gutted as I was ok with being out before, I'd accepted it cause partner was away but stupid rhr allowed me to hope, I'm so pissed off with it x

amyannx · 17/05/2021 11:29

@Confused678866 hey! Just got back from my scan, I saw the sac and the yolk sac, couldn't see baby but they think I'm only 5-5 half weeks so said it's still to early only a few women see anything this early, so I'm booked back in for just over 2 weeks time and if they see baby and heartbeat then I will be discharged, just happy I saw something today and it's all in the right place and progressing how it should so far x

amyannx · 17/05/2021 11:30

Oh I'm so sorry @dunkedbiscuit xx

Willow1982 · 17/05/2021 12:10

@dunkedbiscuit thinking of you and sending you every positive thought I have xx❤️

WantStickyBean · 17/05/2021 12:13

Ah shit I'm sorry @dunkedbiscuit it's such a worrying time.

WantStickyBean · 17/05/2021 12:16

@amyannx really pleased to hear you've had a positive scan Smile.

I'm almost certain I'm out this month. I'm another that didn't realise that ovulation could be a little while after your peak so while we DTD the night before I got the positive OPK and then the night after, we then didn't until 3 days later so probably didn't optimize things. Think I'm about 11 dpo now and still BFN, I'd had my positive by this point with DD.

Confused678866 · 17/05/2021 12:20

@amyannx Hey! Oh that's amazing news, I'm so pleased for you. It definitely sounds like you're heading in the right direction. Are you feeling slightly more at ease now? Xx

Emsjourney · 17/05/2021 12:37

@dunkedbiscuit so sorry to hear ❤️

@amyannx that's good 🤞 for next app in couple of weeks.

I've been tracking bbt, it's been a bit all over the place tbh! Does anyone have any input at all? So I had peak readings in both clearblue monitor and cheap test on 14th. So assumed I ovulated on 15th. There's been no rise 🤷🏻‍♀️

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sylvie1001 · 17/05/2021 12:39

@baabiee so sorry for your loss, sending hugs 😞
@justwant2beamum each month I have symptom spotted and got so disappointed. This is the first
time I’ve not noted any symptoms...maybe that’s a good sign, but we’ll see! 10 dpo is still early to rule out so hoping it’s not a definite “out” for you yet xx
Ps noted on my last post about my chemical- I wrote BFN should’ve been BFP at 16dpo for anyone reading back as I couldn’t edit!

sylvie1001 · 17/05/2021 12:42

@Emsjourney it looks like pre-ovulating your temp was up and down but from cd15 it’s a slight but steady raise with no drop? I’m defo not an expert but does look okay ☺️

amyannx · 17/05/2021 12:45

@WantStickyBean @Emsjourney thank you both xx

amyannx · 17/05/2021 12:48

@Confused678866 thanks hun, yeah I feel more relaxed now, still that little bit anxious until I see baby and heartbeat but they said today it's all in the right direction and I would of never had a early scan this early for the reason you don't see much but they wanted to do it after my faint test I had, I know the next few weeks will go slow but I'm hoping it's all worth it in the end xx

Confused678866 · 17/05/2021 12:51

@amyannx Yes it all sounds positive and like you say, you'd never normally have a scan this early anyway so you wouldn't know anything like this. I'm sure all will be good in a couple of weeks at you next one. Will you bother with a private scan now if you see baby on the next one in 2 weeks?
The weeks do feel so long don't they, my scan isn't until 3 weeks tomorrow and I'm kind of anxious about it too xx

amyannx · 17/05/2021 13:11

@Confused678866 we might have a scan still as my partner hasn't been able to come to them due to looking after ds and they can't print off scan pics so I might do as want a early pic like I did with ds and my partner wants to see too but we are going to decide after I've had the scan in a few weeks, I was so nervous before my scan today xx

dunkedbiscuit · 17/05/2021 13:19

Thank you everyone for the support and the kind words ❤️ I'm going to take tomorrow off work for a bit of processing time

@Gummybear17 thank you lovely, how are you doing?

@baabiee I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your Grandad, sending love x

Sam8582 · 17/05/2021 13:30

Oh I'm so sorry to hear that @dunkedbiscuit, a day off to take some time for you sounds like just what you need 💕 x

Sorry about your loss as well @baabiee x

Gummybear17 · 17/05/2021 13:56

@dunkedbiscuit . Thanks for checking in . I'm doing as well as can be expected really. I'm working from home as I can't really face seeing people at the moment. I am still bleeding and cramping which is rubbish . I have a follow up scan Wednesday to make sure all has completed. I wonder if we will be cycle buddies again? I hope you are doing ok , please look after yourself. I am not too good at doing that ! X

Janerobs · 17/05/2021 14:56

Hey. I need your help, would you say this First Response test is positive? I've done a clear blue after this test and it's negative, I'm so confused 😕 x

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Bundaberg84 · 17/05/2021 15:04

This looks clearly positive to me. Did you do a clearblue digital test? Either way, most clear blue tests aren't as sensitive as the frers.

Janerobs · 17/05/2021 15:09

@Bundaberg84 yes it was a Clear Blue digital. I'm going to go to the supermarket after work to get another frers test as I don't feel confident with the conflicting results and I don't want to get my hopes up x

sylvie1001 · 17/05/2021 15:11

@Janerobs are you still quite early dpo? I believe clearblue aren’t as sensitive as frer so that is a bfp! Congrats ☺️