. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

@slcxxx
@Annny27 asked that question but stuff coming out after dtd and said millions of swimmers would of entered the cervix so not to worry lol, them stripes can pick up pregnancy aswell go do a test and remember every pregnancy is different so what you felt first time might be different this time what r you today 11dpo didn't u say 💚

@justwant2beamum maybe.. but my bloods were within ovulation range so god knows. I have zero pregnancy symptoms, and we only DTD twice as I went from 0-peak with no notice! I’m due on Sunday (Father’s Day) so I will test then @Babyghirl now I feel all anxious sick 🤢 I hate getting my hopes up. Thank you ladies 💕

@Babyghirl I’m sorry about your SIL, she sounds like a baby making machine. Doesn’t feel fair does it. Sending big hugs! You will get beautiful bundle of joy 💕

Morning ladies! Period finishing now so onto dtd soon (can hardly contain my excitment 😜)

@babyghirl sorry about your SIL, it's a kick in the teeth isnt it :( I am very sad whenever ri hear of pregnancy announcements now especially close family ones! Really sucks

@SLCxxx I would 100% test!!! Oooh fingers crossed (if you dont test dtd just incase it is ovulation!)

@soexciting @buttercupclue congratulations:D :D

@justwant2beamum not sure what my FSH and stuff are but she said it slightly indicates pcos but they arent concerned as I ovulate every month! (I am 29 started trc at 27)

@kiwi17 did AF properly arrive or was it just spotting?

@slcxxx
@Annny27
It's the way it was told to me that got me she knows the struggle I have been through but got the 2 girls running out telling me and my sis instead of taking me aside and breaking the news to me @slcxxx oh she is a baby making machine while we here struggling to have one 💚

@slcxxx
Do one on sat and if its positive I'm praying hard it is for u put the test in a card for him I read on another thread a girl was going to put a bun in her oven as away of telling her partner which I thought was a cool idea 💚

@Annny27
Read my post up the page dtd last nite and what my oh said after it made me laugh 😂😂😂😂😂 but I get u I hate seeing my period coming but its great to get a break from dtd lol 💚

So much exciting stuff going on here! Congrats to the positives and I've definitely heard about opks picking up bfps but I thought it was later on as they pick up a much higher level of hcg than pg tests? But def 🤞🤞🤞 for you! I'm sure I read it was possible to ov twice in a cycle but rare I think? @Annny27 it never kicked in properly just tailed off and stopped on Tuesday so weird guess it was just a light af 🤷‍♀️ so we've started dtd again too! Here we go again 😂 @Babyghirl that sucks I'm sorry - I'm currently waiting for my friend to say she's given birth think she's due in 2 weeks and we started trying at the same time (worked first month for her of course) so that's going to be difficult. Chin up and hopefully this is your month!

@kiwi17
It's tough isn't it when people have no problems getting and staying pregnant, even thou she did say to me she would carry one for me in a heartbeat but I want to experience it myself pain an Al lol. But we will get there the lot of us have you avoided your friend cause I avoid people that's pregnant or with babies 💚

Oh yeah @SLCxxx forgot you got your day 21... your progesterone was really quite high it was like double mine, I know it's horrible when you start to get your hopes up so don't wanna big it up too much but lots of things are pointing to you possibly being pg. 🤞🏻 for you! Do you temp or wear a fitbit/hr monitor? Xx

@slcxxx
Do us all a favour and go test girl 😂😂😂😂😂 not to get your hopes up either but I agree with @justwant2beamum 💚

@Babyghirl yeah I haven't seen her since the mc - she knows as my dh told her dh when they met up but hasn't said much as I guess she has nothing to relate to. I know I'll have to see her when it's born but will probably put it off as long as possible. It's just really hard I think she is the only one I'm avoiding really just because of starting at the same time and feeling like she won and I lost if that makes sense?

Omg, now I really do have my blooming hopes up!! @Babyghirl I can’t test because I won’t be able to stop myself spilling the beens 🙈 and I want to do it on Sunday as that will be an amazing gift, I’ll let him tell me the results 😰😰😰 @thanks @Annny27 & @kiwi17 I will do some BDing tonight just incase. @justwant2beamum I temp, this is my chart, blue is temp, orange LH.

I’ve actually just ordered my coffee in decaf 🙈🙈

Oops, forgot the chart

@kiwi17
I totally get you take as long as you need if your mate does not understand that's up to her to deal with it not you, your protecting yourself and that's what you have to do don't feel bad abot it 💚💚
@slcxxx
I'm crossing everything for you gs how can I hold of to Sunday 😂😂😂😂 to find out pmsl. 💚

@Babyghirl thanks I know what you mean but it's good to affirm that. @SLCxxx ooh fingers crossed we'll all be on tenterhooks here 😆 weird question... does anyone else check cervix position? I'm not a pro but I have been checking more and today it's really high and soft even though I'm probably only about cd9... I don't normally ovulate til cd16/17 So wayyy off ov unless the opks have been getting it wrong And I actually ovulate earlier which is why af started 4 days earlier than anticipated last month?!

@Babyghirl I have no idea how I’m making it 3 more days either 🤣🤣

@kiwi17 thank you 💕 I also check cervix position but mine is always at the wrong place/wrong consistency for my particular time of the cycle 🤷🏼‍♀️ So I don’t actually use it, find CM more useful then my actual cervix 🤣 maybe cover all bases.. can’t hurt, lol

@SLCxxx I know what you mean mine never seems to be right either 😂 we're going for the @Babyghirl tried and tested every other day method this month and started last night so if it is fingers crossed it'll catch it!

@kiwi17
Maybe as you say you ovulated abit earlier last month that's why flow was 4 days early that's why I just go with the flow dtd ever 2 days cause testing stresses me out lol at least if you dtd every 2 days you knw all bases r covered it will help you relax to does not make the 2ww as long cause you don't knw when ovulation happened if that makes sense 💚
@slcxxx
I'm working Sunday so will be on my phone waiting on an update 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Babyghirl that's the plan! 🤞🤞

Sorry you had to hear yet another pregnancy announcement, and in that way, Babyghirl. Life is so unfair and some people really don’t get how painful it can be.

Kiwi17, I spoke to my GP again today and she said she sees a lot of women whose periods and ovulation are all over the place for several months after a miscarriage. Hopefully yours will settle down soon, and the every other day approach will help. DH has been doing some research today and has concluded that’s what we should do. Well, of course he has, as it’s massively to his advantage 😆! I’ve just realised that we also have a camping trip next weekend when I’ll be CD12-14. We’ll be sharing a tent with our kids and right next to our friend’s tent. DH still think we should carry on, but somehow I don’t fancy it!!!!!

@miscarriage39
Wee buns lay on ur side with ur bck to him and go for it 😂😂😂😂😂, I thought they could of handled telling me a lot better than what they did even my sister said that 💚

@Miscarriage39 that's interesting the gp said that.. hopefully you're right. Had sore boobs today too which I don't think I normally get before ovulation. Oh well!! Hahahaha ohmygosh imagine dtd in a tent that's even worse than last month for us having to dtd silently whilst my parents were here!!! 😂 good luck!!

@kiwi17 if I get a BFN this month then I’m going for @Babyghirls trusted every other day method too, lol. Good luck ladies xx

My OPK was even darker today ladies 👀 I’m now a bundle of anxious nerves 😬