. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

@Annny27 I don't think that sounds weird at all actually... I have the feeling I only ovulate from the right as I always get pain that side and maybe the left side doesn't work?!

Hi Ladies. Hope you are all ok and having a good weekend.

So it’s taken me 2 months but today I finally emailed my complaint to the gynaecology consultant about the awful consultation I had in March and asking a load more questions. And really surprised that on a Sat evening I have already had a reply from the consultant. It’s only acknowledging my email and that he will look into my case and reply next week but still good to get an immediate reply. Will see what he comes back with next week.

@ELM7
Good for you and I hope you get a better outcome sometimes it cruel to be kind, and if a complaint is wat it takes for someone to listen to u then so be it 💚

Well my wee fertility bracelet my friend bought me broke, it say on the back of the card it came with put this on ur wrist and when it snaps your miracle will be just around the corner we will c lol 💚

Ahhh I hope that's the case!!!! @babyghirl might buy one for myself and snap it 😂😂😂

@ELM7 that's promising that they will review it! Fingers crossed something productive comes out of it

@kiwi17 yep they do say that people have a dominant ovary!

Ooh fingers crossed @Babyghirl! How's everyone doing today? I was feeling happy as af finished two days ago and then went to the loo earlier and had a big amount of red blood come out again .. no idea why?! Frustrating as I thought af was done. Anyone else experienced this?

@Annny27
Will let u knw hw I go after mine snapped 😂😂😂😂
@kiwi17
Only time that happens is if I think I'm done I dtd and go to the toilet and red blood goes down the toilet must be just sitting there and leaves me 💚

@Babyghirl @chali7 @27DONFIN love the photos of your fur babies, they are so gorgeous! @Annny27 I was seriously contemplating getting another kitten too a couple weeks ago just to fill that baby spot in my heart too, but we decided to wait and hope our rainbow is around the corner.

I've been tracking with OPKs to see how long my cycle is now, it's like after my MC, my normal 29 day cycle ran out the door and my cycles are getting longer which is annoying. I haven't hit a peak with the opk yet but the progression line is getting darker each day... some days I can be completely obsessed and other days I'm just like pfffffft and don't want to think about doing anything.

@kiwi17 haha I remember when dh and I were staying with my parents while we saved for a house, we became masters at dtd in silence. TMI but dh said the secrecy behind it made dtd even more sexy/fun hahaha 🤣 But we did that for so long that once we did move out into our own house we were still super quiet (out of habit) and i brought it up in bed one time that it's weird for me to hear myself out loud because I wasn't use to it and while dtd I would feel awkward and think about it too much so I'd go silent. I tell you, we were on the floor in fits laughing at how ridiculous that whole situation sounded hahahaha, but can confirm we have broken the bad habit and make noise now 🤣 We still giggle about it often!

@danisaui31 hahaha! I have no idea how awkward it is going to be but very I suspect 🤣 we're not super noisy anyway but think that we'll be even more aware of any tiny sound. Hopefully I'll ovulate early before they arrive! Haha! @Babyghirl it definitely wasn't dtd as we haven't started yet for this cycle but think you're right something must have got stuck and then released!

@kiwi17 hahaha almost every time we have intended to be top secret quiet, something clumsy always happens to blow our cover 😂 good luck!!!

Hi ladies hope you're all as well as can be... I took some time off needed to be by myself for a bit... I have been told by gynaecologist to give castor oil packs a go has anyone tried this?? My referral for my hycosy has gone thorough just awaiting an app I was going to go private but cannot afford the prices at present one clinic wanted to charge me £735 and kings college hospital wanted to charge me £750 I laughed my head off as they're a nhs hospital but have a private part and charge more than a fertility clinic I even tried Nuffield they wanted £800... my consultant said she isn't against me trying in the mean time but I honestly don't think I can handle another disappointment. So if anyone has any tips on the castor oil pack thing please do share xx

Oh and with kings you don't even get access to earlier appointments you literally have to wait it out the same as nhs patients so not sure how they can really justify that cost especially when one clinic said I get all results on the day and you can get an appointment as early as 1-2 weeks x

@sweetbabydust1989
Glad your bck with us and hopefully not to long to go to ur app comes through, have never tryed them but have heard them mentioned on other threads maybe try to Google threads wild the prices they charge for things like that my app is on Wed I'm excited but nervous at the same time lol how r you feeling xx

@Babyghirl thanks lovely erm it's been very hard going I am still waiting on my period got mega cramps and that's it we did have an oops moment condom split hoping not many swimmers escaped 😩 I did mention it to my consultant who is lovely and she basically replied saying well it wouldn't be the worst thing to happen he is on a sex ban now xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Nxt one could be the one but I get where ur coming from I want answers on Wed before I fall again nt that I'm preventing it but I have nt ovulated yet so if I do this month my app and bloods will be over xx

When did people start there period after their miscarriage? I'm in week 4 since my miscarriage and don't know what to expect

@apwilso
They say anything from 4 to 6 weeks after you should get it mine norm came on time after my first 3 but took me to cd42 to get it after the 4th but my periods where just norm to not any heavier but they can be 💚

@Sweetbabydust1989 hope everything goes well with your referral/appointment. And gosh could you imagine if your rainbow came out of your little oops moment, that would be gold lol. All the best deals!!!

@apwilso mine came back at the exact same time it came every month. So I had my mc and then four weeks later I was back to normal. In saying that though, every month from last December my cycle range has changed (increased) in days, so I don't know if my mc had anything to do with that as I've always been regular

@Sweetbabydust1989 darls not deals lol 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Babyghirl @danisaui31 thanks for the advice. I'm very regular so I just want to know where I stand. Annoying waiting round for it

@danisaui31 I Honestly don't think it will would be amazing though lol I no my period is coming be nice to get this one out the way and then I can start my castor oil packs just very nervous of my tubes being coming blocked xx

@apwilso fingers crossed it stays regular and af arrives at its normal time

@Sweetbabydust1989 good luck with the castor oil, the only pregnancy related thing I've heard about castor oil is taking a teaspoon to bring on labour lol. Hope it all goes well with no blockages!

I just hope that day is not too far away for all of us. x

@ELM7
Oh I love that we will all look back one day with r rainbows and realise it was a tough journey to get there but worth the fight 💚

@danisaui31 apparently it's quiet good for getting rid of toxins etc you it's kinda like a heat pack but you only do it certain times in your cycle so after your bleed ends fo just before ovulation... cramping has gone no bleeding loads of discharge when will my period come 😩 xx