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1DPO - Anyone want to join for the 2WW?

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IzzT · 20/04/2021 20:20

Hello! First month TTC. Currently 1DPO, no symptoms as of yet, but already feeling stressed at the thought of not knowing if we were successful for two more weeks! Worried we didn't BD enough, we did every other day during the fertile window including day before O. Anyone got any advice or just want to join in the conversation to get us through the wait?

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Daisyrobin123 · 28/04/2021 06:49

So I went against everything I said yesterday and tested at 12 dpo at about 7pm got a BFP! Flowers

I'm still a bit in shock as I really had ruled myself out this month with feeling so under the weather. I was in the bath and had this sudden wave of nausea and decided to do an internet cheapie which came up straight away so decided to do a Frer! I'm super happy but also cautious that it's still early, hope it sticks!
I'm crossing my fingers for some more BFPs on here! Flowers

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IzzT · 28/04/2021 06:54

@Daisyrobin123 CONGRATULATIONS! 😀 Sending all the sticky vibes to you! Will you stay in the thread and let us know how you get on over the next wee while?

Fingers crossed for some more BFPs over the coming days!

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IzzT · 28/04/2021 07:42

So got excited on the back of @Daisyrobin123 post... tested at 9DPO. Obviously a BFN 🙈 I know it's still early, but can't help feel a little dejected - I guess that's why everyone says not to test early 😂

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Tangfastic91 · 28/04/2021 08:19

Hi everyone, can I join? Completely new to this whole thing. Almost 30, first time trying, and had been pretty much in the childfree camp until now. Covid certainly shifted some perspectives that's for sure... Only CD9 so enjoying the fun part for now ha!

Daisyrobin123 · 28/04/2021 08:25

@IzzT Thank you! You're still early, give it a couple more days as you still might only have implanted yet and even then it might take a couple of days to show 🌷🤞

extrababydust123 · 28/04/2021 08:31

@Daisyrobin123 just jumping in to say congrats! I am so happy for you! 🎉

I know you were trying not to symptom spot, but did you noticed anything different this cycle? X

JuniperAndTonic · 28/04/2021 08:32

Congratulations on your BFP @Daisyrobin123!! So exciting! Resisting the urge to test today now haha!

Hope everyone else is doing okay! I’ve been working nights, just home after my last one so feeling really tired now! This week is flying by!

Daisyrobin123 · 28/04/2021 10:34

@extrababydust123 Thank you! Fingers crossed it sticks 🤞. I've felt tugging in my tummy all morning and thinking about it now I've had a heightened sense of smell the last couple of days but that's all.

I'm really glad I used OPKs otherwise I think I would have missed it like I did last month. We DTD lots this fertile window!

extrababydust123 · 28/04/2021 11:06

@Daisyrobin123 I’ll try dtd every day of the fertile window next cycle then and see if that works! 😂🤞🏽

K8Tee · 28/04/2021 11:17

@Daisyrobin123 massive congrats! Such good news for you 🥳 xx

Hi @Tangfastic91, 👋 welcome to the thread. Good luck to you for this month too xx

Tangfastic91 · 28/04/2021 11:51

Thanks @K8Tee!

Good luck to everyone this month :)

Lalala1985 · 28/04/2021 12:07

Heya hope it's OK if I join? On 3rd cycle TTC, but not sure we'll have much success this month as ovulated on CD12 which I read is a little too early for the egg to be healthy. I've been vaguely tracking my cycles for the last few years and have noticed that if I ovulate from my right it's very painful and always earlier, usually I ovulate around CD15-17 on the left.

Anyway weirdest thing happened after DTD on ovulation day: as soon as we'd finished my cat jumped on the bed and started kneading around my uterus - it's like he was trying to help!

K8Tee · 28/04/2021 12:58

@Lalala1985 oh god don't say that. I normally get my peak ov test on day 11-13. 😬

Good luck for this month x

Tangfastic91 · 28/04/2021 13:47

Anyone trying without ovulation tests? I seem to get a stabbing pain each month (alternates sides) around CD15 so I'm going to try without testing for a few months and see how it goes.

Lalala1985 · 28/04/2021 15:41

@Tangfastic91 I think that's quite possible. I get ovulation pain too but I usually get a high, then a couple of days of peak then get the pain at the end, so I usually use OPK's so I know when ovulation is about to happen and DTD everyday through those high and peak days. My OPKs usually go back to low within a few hours of ovulation pain.

But I think that's different for everyone.

Lalala1985 · 28/04/2021 15:47

@K8Tee I'm sure you'll be fine, it's if it less that 11 days and you should be ovulating 24-48 hours after your peak so plenty of time.

Apparently shorts follicular phases are a sign of getting old and having less eggs left :( I'm 35 so that makes sense for me.

JuniperAndTonic · 28/04/2021 16:00

@Tangfastic91 I haven’t been using ovulation tests - mainly because I wanted to be relaxed to start with and not getting obsessed with peeing on a stick! I may start in a few months time if it’s not happening but for now just listening to my body - looking for signs like egg white cervical mucous and I also often get ovulation pain same as you! Good luck with everything!

I’m 9FPO - think I’ll test tomorrow using FMU as my period is due in 5 days according to my app (have an average 26 day cycle). I just want to know either way now!

dogmom0930 · 28/04/2021 16:15

@Daisyrobin123 All the congrats to you on your BFP!! What a fun message to see this morning! I was hoping that it might surprise you Smile Sticky wishes for you ❤️ Keep us posted with how you're feeling!

@IzzT Bummer on the BFN ❤️ But, at least you've got lots of time still to see your BFP! Baby dust to you!!

Welcome @Tangfastic91 and @Lalala1985!

I didn't think I needed OPKs to let me know my peak levels because I feel like I know my body. Really, I probably don't. But at 32 and TTC #1, I just wanted the extra peace of mind to know that I'm doing things at the right time so I can take that out as a factor if I don't have success. Besides having that peace of mind, I've also liked that it's helping me see patterns of my body in relation to OPK readings. So, it's helping me understand my body a little better too.

dogmom0930 · 28/04/2021 16:16

@JuniperAndTonic Fingers crossed for you! Baby dust!!

Tangfastic91 · 28/04/2021 16:36

@Lalala1985 that's interesting! So pain might be too late. I think initially I'll go with dtd every couple of days cd8 to cd18 and see what happens!
Good luck for tomorrow @JuniperAndTonic!

Telling myself I'll wait until Xmas to start ovulation testing.... We'll see! P.s forgive me while I get to grips with lingo (had to Google DTD Grin)

dogmom0930 · 28/04/2021 17:01

@Tangfastic91 You're not alone on the lingo haha! Learning new things still Wink

DeafChef1 · 28/04/2021 17:18

I would like to jump in. 30 and TTC #1! Today I am 14DPO, which is the day I typically expect AF. I didn't remember to test this morning as my mind is all over the place. I will wait to test tomorrow morning......or should I just wait since tomorrow afternoon is my well-woman's exam??? I don't know. We have been TTC for 10 months now and I am truly getting tired, but not too tired to stop. I really want this baby!

Baby dust to everyone! Hoping to see tons of BFPs.

charja100 · 28/04/2021 17:22

@Daisyrobin123 huge congratulations 🎉 💕✨

IzzT · 28/04/2021 17:27

Welcome @DeafChef1 👋 hopefully this month is your month! If AF is a day overdue already I'd definitely be testing, saying that I'd have probably tested about 10 days ago 😝

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charja100 · 28/04/2021 17:28

Welcome @Tangfastic91, @Lalala1985 And @DeafChef1!

Ladies in need help. I'm a few days into my TWW, can't really say how many DPO as my apps have changed so much based on LH and BBT that right now I don't know if I'm
Coming or going:

What I do know is that I'm spotting, could this be implantation? I've attached a pic of my chart. All opinions welcome!

1DPO - Anyone want to join for the 2WW?