5DPO - anybody want to keep each other company..?

[jessicarolfe]

Hey everyone!

So I'm currently 5DPO - this is my 8th cycle TTC and I've had two chemical pregnancies.

Since these, I've promised myself I won't test early to try and avoid disappointment.. 🥴

Anybody fancy keeping me company?

So I NEVER have line eyes for myself, they all clearly look negative but this mornings one I swear I can see something!! Maybe an indent. Realised how much my phone camera is useless when trying to take a picture. It's definitely not pure white!

@Arghlife I can see it!!!

I've just tested with FMU and got a very clear bfn. Not sure what's going on?

Overnight I've had really stabby / pulling pains in my lower left stomach but not sure if at 10-11DPO that would be too late for implantation? I feel VERY headachey and nauseous today.

I think you can implant as late as 10 dpo, from what I've read. When's af due? @jessicarolfe

@Arghlife I'm so confused! If my previous FRER's are evaps / indents they're nasty ones! 🥴

AF due Wednesday / Thursday.. x

@Arghlife I can see it too. Hoping it's a very sticky bean!

@Arghlife that's for sure there!!! I think that may be your BFP. Congrats. What brand of test is that?

@jessicarolfe I suspect mine are all indents too. The wondfos are shocking, I did several that come up with what look like the start of BFPs but been looking through reviews on Amazon today and so many ladies are getting false positives on them. I also cannot with FRER 🖐🏼 They've given me two indents. Pretty sure I got a BFN this morning with FMU. Feeling pretty down today 😔 but we are still early days... I think 9dpo is the most common day to implant, so 10dpo isn't too late (I think >11dpo might lead to issues though)? So we still might have some luck left over the next few days fingers crossed...

@Arghlife that is 100% a line! Congrats 🥰🎉

@jessicarolfe I read online that the most common day for implantation is 9dpo so it’s definitely possible you could’ve only just implanted! 🤞🏽

@jessicarolfe hope they weren't an indent, I remember seeing a line!
I was in shock this morning, and I think because the app that the strips go with said it was a negative...
The strips are femometer @lavenderlib
I hope it does stick because I've just taken a test with 2nd wee and with a frer...definitely 2 lines . I haven't got many people to talk to about this in rl right now, so many emotions, I really started to think something was wrong with me, just hope it sticks.

@Arghlife not even a squinter! That’s so clear 😁 congrats lovely I feel so happy for you 🥰💗

@extrababydust123 thank you, af due tomorrow

Thank you all. I'm absolutely gutted to the honest, I really thought those FRER's might have been the start of something 😔
I feel like 11DPO is too late for implantation so it's just a waiting game for AF now x

@Arghlife those are defintly positve congratulations what brand is the first test?
@jessicarolfe @lavenderlib sorry about your tests being negative this morning but yous arnt out till af arrives ,

I'm 6 dpo today half way through my 12 day lutal phase this has been the longest 2ww ever I'm going to start testing tomorrow but not feeling hopeful this month because my bbt chart is looking alot like the other months when I got my bfn , when I got my bfp in jan (chemical pregnancy) my temps were alot higher

@Newbie202012 they're femometer, not sure if they're as sensitive as a frer as I took another test with second wee and whilst the frer was really obvious the strip test had barely anything

@Arghlife that's even stronger than the other test. I saw a line before, and it's getting stronger now. Congratulations 🎉 sending you lots of PMA for a very sticky bean!

@charja100 thank you, yes definitely a good line, hopefully it sticks x

Just thought I'd share my BFP from 7pm last night at 12 DPO!

I really wasn't expecting it to happen this month as I've been so run down with a cough and cold. Hopefully we will see some more BFPs on this thread soon!!

@Daisyrobin123 wow congratulations to you, that's absolutely amazing and what a fantastic line!

I'm currently awaiting a doctors call back, as I'm feeling really low this month.
Started spotting o man 11DPO.. I NEVER spot before my period so thought it could be implantation.. AF comes crashing in this morning at full force and I'm just beyond devastated.
It's been 10 months of trying now - not even the hint of a BFP. I just don't understand where I'm going wrong and I am really starting to resent myself and my body for not being able to fall pregnant 😔

@Daisyrobin123 yay! 😍🎉✨ huge congratulations on your big fat BFP!

@jessicarolfe I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling down. Please don't resent yourself you aren't doing anything wrong and you are doing the best you can!

I'm glad you've made a positive action to regain control. Try to keep positive, I've seen so many posts and comments of ladies TTC and I does happen and often when you least expect it!

@charja100 thank you for being so lovely. I've never beat myself up as much as this month.
I just can't for the life of e understand what's wrong. I'm actively trying to loose a bit of weight and get fitter and healthier.. but other than this, I just have absolutely no idea what to do 😔😔

@jessicarolfe I'm so sorry to hear about AF arriving. My post was so badly timed too. I hope you're feeling a bit better. I can't even begin to imagine how hard it must be after ten months. The first couple of cycles for me were horrendous enough, so I honestly can't even imagine. Sending lots of love your way xx

@Daisyrobin123 oh my goodness PLEASE don't worry at all, I'm so so happy for you!!!!

I've spoken to the doctors who have FINALLY agreed to help me, I will be hearing more Friday so 🤞🏼 xx

@jessicarolfe that's wonderful news . You'll have to keep us updated with what they say on Friday. Hoping you get some answers 🤞🏼

@Daisyrobin123 ahh congratulations!!