Supporting ‘small changes’ into spring whilst TTC...🌱🌼🌸🍀- Fun Bus 34

[Minster2012]

Last time we actually got reported straight away, for being too fun for MN...was it a week ago?? Maybe 😋😝but they can’t hold us back as the Harry Potter speed bus flies...

We’ve worked out a fleshlight for horses on a MN bus is NOT WELCOME, but how do I know what you have in your suitcase? I’m just the driver, a passenger’s belongings is their own responsibility, and my bags have LOADS of OPKs, loads of pills, fruit, veg, wine, gin & trainers for my workouts.

We aren’t just challenging ourselves to get pregnant & trying to help each other do so, we are also trying to help each other get fitter and sharing small changes we are making in our lives and trying to inspire & support each other with these too...

Have a look at the small changes beside the names and see if you want to try them yourself or add in your own!

We are in this together 🥰♥️🙌🏻💪🏻
Spring is coming, and so are we 😘🦄🍀🌸🌷🌻🌼

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
7 BFPs for jan

4 BFPs for February so far, still time left ladies

Thank you @Catherinettc I so appreciate everyone here giving me this love and support even when I disappeared for a while.

Obviously I won't be part of the ttc chat anymore but will hopefully be able to follow your journeys when I can.

Not so fussed about anonymity now. Attached is a pic of me and my boys at the beach this morning. Getting out and distracted is good medicine at the moment. The smile is a bit of a fake, but for them I'd do anything.

Lots of love

Laura xx

@Haiyaa really sorry on AF arriving. Yayyy on the bargain lube and your fakeaway KFC looks amazing!

@Crazydoglady123 I ask myself the same question after 🍆 everytime in FW 🙈 I don’t know it varies, I’ll go if I need to or sometimes leave it 20 mins, massively varies!

@Skip86 I’ve only been on the thread about 3 months but read quite a lot of your updates. Absolute arsehole! So sorry for what you are going through. You and your boys are gorgeous btw 😍

@Skip86 you are beautiful and those boys are just stunning. You will come out of this stronger xxxx

Morning ladies!

Shit night here I had horrible stomach ache and DD was up loads. 5.30am is NOT morning time 😩

How are we all today?

@blackcurrantqueen ohhh il join you with '5.30am is NOT morning time! My dd was up about that time today too....oh how I miss having a lie in on a Sunday 😏 lol.

@Skip86 I can't actually believe what has happened! You were on this bus when I joined last June so I defo remember you 😊 He is a pure twat face for what his done! Your boys are so handsome and oh my....you are a stunner! 😉 he is totally deluded if he thinks that 'tik tok' life is better than what he had with you three! You deserve so much better than what he brought to the table! Sending you lots of love and we are always here for you! Xxx

@Skip86 oh my goodness. I am so sorry. I haven't been on here much this weekend and jumped on to have a quick read and just read back to your update. What an absolute dick. You and your boys are worth so much more than that. I don't know what else to say other than of course we'll all be here for you as we are already whenever you need us. Sending hugs from miles away wishing we could all be there for you in person. So much love sending your way 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞 p.s you and your boys are absolutely gorgeous. 🥰

Morning ladies

Sorry I was in the "just got up last" club

@Skip86 & all
Right so, I've packed a plane full of wine, gin, little party cocktail umbrellas, sleeping tablets (for us all 😂) maybe some other fun drugs, some Lego for those gorgeous boys Cos you know some of it ends up on sexy Laura's back so they need a restock & it will be bloody good stuff like the battle star galactica (is that a thing?) when she has a good night apparently...a visa form for @Franklydear to be the au pair, and a bag load of sex toys Cos she's gonna need them now to get over the heart break from fuckwit (yes we understand about the you would take him back you love him & he's the father of your boys) but not for long Cos you ARE GODDAMN HOT YOU WILL NOT BE SINGLE LONG BABE! What else do we need? Oh and @Haiyaa's recipe to nibble on the way.....oooooo this way we get to experience chicken salt right???

My darling Laura you are so strong you have already done so much in talking to your family, the GP trying to get him to recognise it & your therapist. Thank you for talking to us too, hopefully it will help a bit, I know it's helped me. It's so sad he can't see that he's going to lose you all for a fantasy, please don't disappear gorgeous 💞♥️💜✈️🚁💜

Just want to say you girls and the love you have to give for each other is amazing...@Minster2012 put so well what everyone thinks @Skip86 be kind to yourself and keep talking to those around you and the girls on here, and your boys are scrummy just like their mummy x

@Haiyaa Thankyou!!xx

@Clairey844 I do!! And I feel happy about our decision too which just shows it was the right thing to do! Going on holidays and making memories definitely won't be something we regret!

@Skip86 gorgeous picture!! Keep your keep head up, you're strong❤️

So our friends who have been TTC for over 2 years, she has a medical problem and they were aware so she was on medication to try and help, came to our doorstep tonight and showed us their 12 week scan pic!!! I've never been so excited for a couple in my life, I've always said to OH if there's one couple I'd wish would be pregnant instead of us it would be them, I'm going to the shop today to pick up a card and gift bag for them and going to order some little bits online!!

It's a gorgeous day here today, frosty with sunshine, OH is working this morning but when he gets home he's taking my car to be washed then we're going to go for a walk in the park with the dogs then a lovely roast followed by pic n mix! Hope everyone else has a lovely Sunday❤️

@Crazydoglady123 I can't remember the difference either haha, I think one is to do with cysts and one isn't? Or... something.....

@HollieL567 aww how exciting, and it's normal to worry! Try to keep distracted and just enjoy it though

With the weeping after dtd, I always go before and then hold for a bit to let everything "sit" for a bit haha then I have to go. Can't be dealing with the juices constantly dribbling out.

@Skip86 definitely. I used to work on a ward with people who had a range of personality disorders, there's just no "fixing it" unfortunately. Just feel for you and your boys 💔
Beautiful pic!

In other news, I'm going to do a cheapie test as I'm 14dpo and temp is still up. Not anxious as I usually am as I know it will be a bfn and my body is being an arsehole, but thought why not.

Have a good morning everyone!

To am actually shaking.

@Justanothercyster OMG!!!!! What a line!! Congratulations lovely!! 🥳🎉🥳🎉 your temp chart looks perfect 😊 any other signs or symptoms?

@Justanothercyster omg!!! Look at that line!! Congratulations lovely❤️ amazing news!

Thanks girls! I'm in utter shock.

I'm terrified, is that a symptom??? I've got some cramps so I'm really really scared. But no symptoms really, very hungry, creamy cm, cramps and tired. But I get all those before af! The only difference is I usually would've spotted by now but haven't. I'm still on knicker watch 🙈

Maybe I did the test wrong??!! I'm going to do another later and tomorrow morning so we're trying to not get too excited.

@Justanothercyster OH MY GOD. THAT IS ABSOLUTELY DEFINITELY A LINE. YESSSSSS 🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕💕

@Justanothercyster massive congratulations 🥳 amazing news and no I don't think you can POAS wrong 😂 you are pregnant 💕

@Justanothercyster that is a blazing positive, congratulations! Woohoo, a last minute February BFP!

@Justanothercyster you have made my day. Tears over here for you. That's just the absolute best news 💗💗💗💗💗

@Skip86 you are so beautiful and your kids are gorgeous, so so sorry - what an absolute dick!!! Sending love and strength!

@Justanothercyster hurrah!!!! So pleased for you!

@Skip86 gorge piccie of you and your boys! Lovely to "meet you" Laura 😘
@Vil10 aw that's a lovely story. Congratulations To your friends!
@Justanothercyster I knew it was going to be a bfp wheh you posted!! Amazing news, congratulations 🥳

@Justanothercyster you nutter poas until you're bored, it won't change
@Skip86 yeah, summer Aussie tour for the bus, how I wish that could be true, I understand taking him back, but I am with @Minster2012, not only you are beautiful, you are also an incredible person, just don't go on mafs Australia, promise?
I feel better now, took long enough, even DTD this morning, wasn't really up for it at first but on the right insistence...

@Justanothercyster Shut the front door! 🥳🥳 How did that happen?! 🤣 Yeah we've been a bit short on BFPs haven't we. Amazing news!

@Haiyaa I have saved the chicken recipe. How did you fry it though? That's my concern, I'm not sure we have anything to fry it in.

@Skip86 utter arsehole. My friend though- hers set up a whole new fb account without her in it. Made it like she didn't exist. He ran off with someone else. In the mean time there were lots of lies where she caught him out. But somehow he managed to swing it round to being her fault? He was so cruel to her. I was raging. But even after all of it- she'd have taken him back. I know it. Which made me sad. But luckily he never came back and she moved on. Married to someone else now. It's not easy but one day you'll be in a much better place! Today's society is very strange. Preferring a virtual existence to an actual one?

Ha ha ha YASSSSSSSSSSSS @Justanothercyster that's FUCKING IMMENSE!!!!
Yessssssss pretty sure you can't POAS wrong! 🤩🥳🤩🥳🥰😘😍omg I'm so excited someone gets to ditch the ivf/clomid!! Yesssssss

And also @Vil10 that's so good for your friends too!!

Omg omg happy tears @Justanothercyster 😍🥰😍🥰and I'm with @Franklydear @Skip86 if we see you on MAFSA then we will HUNT YOU DOWN. If we see him on there I WILL SHOOT HIM

@Minster2012 I tried to google yoga slurping and it came up with this group top of the google feed 😂 is there a technical name for it?

@Haiyaa thanks for the recipe! Yeah see I always pee first but always have the urge to pee immediately after

@Skip86 you are most definitely, 10000% not an idiot. It took me many years to realise it wasn't changing and I couldn't do it anymore and plus I didn't want my son growing up in that environment. If you do make the same decision I did, please don't feel guilty. I did for ages and it ate away at me because I saw myself as the one who broke my family up but in time I released that wasn't true, he was. I'd done nothing but talk and communicate that how he behaved was wrong and pushing me away. My son has definitely grown up a better, happier and loving child for it and actually his dad is great with him now and does so much more than what he did before. You and your boys are gorgeous by the way!

@bez91 glad it's not just me 🙈

@Justanothercyster Omg! That is a super line! Was you just sneaking one more BFP for the group in Feb 🤣 You're giving me hope lady 🙌

@Haiyaa I pee whenever, if before bed don't always go to the loo, but if I have to check on my boy I might as well, if in the middle of the night, I'll have to go anyway, and in the morning probably before and after,