Wasted my FRER at 9dpo

[tulips87]

I promised myself I wouldn't! But I woke up this morning feel awful, so off I went and POAS and at 9dpo it was a BFN. AF is due in 7 days.
Why do I do this to myself!!
I'm annoyed now and just really disappointed. But the last few days I have felt so tired, off food and sick so I sort of had convinced myself I was. I've set myself up for a bad day. Sorry for the rant!

@DoodleLovin I'd say positive congratulations!!!

Congratulations @DoodleLovin! Yay!!

Tested with a FRER today at 12dpo and bnf :(
Initially I thought it might be a faint positive as at some angles it looks like a very faint line but I think it’s just me convincing myself! And doesn’t show up on camera
I think I will just wait know for AF and try again next month x

Here’s the picture :(

@HenB I am sure I can see a shadow of a line on there. I inverted the colours too and it shows then too.

@treesall I thought could see a faint shadow when turned to the side, but thought I was going crazy!
Looked at it obsessively for half an hour, then made myself throw it away. How did you invert colours?

There is a line on that test!

I'm not actually sure how you set it up - but my iPhone gives me the option to "classic invert" if I triple click the side button.

If I edit the photo and fiddle with all the settings there is 100% a line there on your photo - give it a go!

I’ll try and wait a few days and test again! I just want to know now! It’s all I think about now! I feel like I’ve got mad x

@HenB lol I thought I saw a line on yours too but didn’t want to give you false hope if I was wrong but glad others see it too!! Fingers crossed for a definite positive soon!

My frer looks lighter today and I'm still on 1-2 weeks so it looks like this one isn't going to work out either 😭. Hope everyone else is ok this morning.

Hi Ladies. Congrats to all of you with BFPs. To those of you with BFNs I can empathise - I've never had a natural BFP (IVFer) and yet I still hope every month and feel the pain of constant testing.

@treesall I'm so sorry for your losses. It's not totally without hope this month. I got a 1-2 on 14dpo and a 2-3 at 15dpo with my last pregnancy. Hcg levels were fine and healthy at this stage too as I had blood tests although it did later become a loss. Really hope this is just a slightly late bean and you get your 2-3 weeks tomorrow.

@tulips87
Sorry to barge in I know I'm a stranger and you all know each other by now but I was just reading through and wanted to pick up on the chat you were having about aspirin. My IVF clinic put pretty much everyone on aspirin but only 75mg per day. I have also heard from other forums that I'm on that in some circumstances it is not the right thing to do so it is worth talking to a Dr or researching what the health issues are that make it risky. The Miscarriage Association have a FB group you can join with lots of women who have experience of interventions so that is a good group to ask any questions.

As I said, sorry to butt in uninvited but I'd hate for anyone to have a bad time because of taking aspirin

Best of luck to all of you still testing and fx for lots of positives and sticky beans soon xxx

@Janefx40 please don't apologise! The more advice the better!!
After having read up more I'm taking 75mg.
I've had 3 mc so I'm at the point of trying anything because I've already gone through the worst 3 times so if it ends in mc again, I can say I tried at least.
Thank you for your advice and sending lots of baby dust your way xx

Got a negative this morning. I'm gutted. (Due on tomorrow). X

@tulips87 Thanks for the welcome and sorry for your losses. Are you being referred to a recurrent miscarriages clinic? 3 is usually the point of referral.

@Emerald4512 sorry about your negative test. Always gutting although I never quite believe it until AF arrives in full force x