Wasted my FRER at 9dpo

[tulips87]

I promised myself I wouldn't! But I woke up this morning feel awful, so off I went and POAS and at 9dpo it was a BFN. AF is due in 7 days.
Why do I do this to myself!!
I'm annoyed now and just really disappointed. But the last few days I have felt so tired, off food and sick so I sort of had convinced myself I was. I've set myself up for a bad day. Sorry for the rant!

@heybabes Yes me too! I have 2 people in my team who have announced they're both pregnant and both caught in the 2nd month of trying. They both know I'm trying too and it makes me feel a bit embarrassed that I'm not pregnant yet, which is bloody ridiculous I know!

I looked up the percentage of reliability for testing 6 days early and it's only 23%! So that means on one in five will actually be given a positive if they were all pregnant. Xxx

@incywincyspiders it really is a stressful journey! I have never had a problem getting pregnant, it's staying pregnant that I've had the problem with but this time it just feels like it's not going to happen so quickly or maybe I'm thinking about it too much!
I'm going to start taking aspirin from tomorrow as I've read up a lot about it for those with recurring miscarriages.
I want to relax but I'm also with you on the TRY EVERYTHING and anything to make it happen this cycle 🤞🏼🤞🏼

I haven't rtft but I hope this gives any pp with bfn early on some hope! With my DD I didn't test positive until 6 days past AF being due! And that was with every test going. Don't lose all hope lovelies

Tested yesterday and got a vvvvvvf line. Tested this morning again and BFN. So confused (and not going to lie a little upset).

@tulips87 what dose are you getting? I was thinking of going to the pharmacy for some as well today

@doodlelovin
Same has happened to me,
The two tests I used yesterday and the day before are tesco own and I got 2 vv faint lines, my husband can see them too
I've used a different brand this morning so I feel that might be something to do with it
My daughter is all her dad but she is all over me the past few days, I wonder if toddlers/children can sense it?
Good luck! Xx

@DoodleLovin I think I'm going to go with 150mg as I've seen this on another thread on here. What about you?

AF came for me today :( Feeling bittersweet as I knew it was coming so it's good I can start all over again but at the same time I kind of hoped I was one of those people who didn't get a BFP until after AF was due!

Wait are you supposed to use baby aspirin all month? I thought it was just after ovulation 😂😂😂

@incywincyspiders I read somewhere to start taking it from CD1.

@heybabes I'm so sorry AF arrived. Sending lots of hugs. Make sure to be kind to yourself.
Next cycle here we come! xx

Oh maybe that was my issue then! i will start taking it from now...

AF stayed away this weekend
Cycle day 31, 11dpo
Going to test tomorrow at 12dpo
feeling very nauseated so hopefully that’s a good sign. Never been pregnant before though so can’t tell.

@tulips87 I was thinking of starting at 75 and then upping it to 150 once pregnant. Not too sure. I was on folic and progesterone last pregnancy and miscarried at 12 weeks so really wanting to give aspiring a go this time around. Also heard you should start taking it after ovulation before BFP.

@HenB good luck!!! Let us know how you get on! Sending baby dust your way 🙏🏼

@HenB fingers crossed for you!

@tulips87 Thanks very much, feel better now it's happened. Has it come for you yet?

I'm hoping I'll be more relaxed in the next couple of tries now it seems as things are planning to go back to normal! I think that's my problem - during lockdown I've had nothing else to focus on so I've just been stressing and obsessing about TTC, whereas usually I'd be going into work, spending time with friends and family, having holidays to plan and look forward to.

@heybabes glad you're feeling okay about it. It's just the huge disappointment when it arrives isn't it! Yes it's arrived for me today too only just getting heavier now so I guess I'm on CD1 now.

Let’s play a game: evap or not? Frer yesterday was stark white 😭

@doodlelovin this is what my tesco ones looked like, I did two but any other I've done since (different brand) are negative
I'm not sure about evap lines so I can't help but can defo see the line xx

@DoodleLovin 🤞🏻 I can see it! Mine are similar to this but frer are still only a shadow :(

@DoodleLovin how many dpo are you? I have no idea what an evape line looks like...there is the hint of blue on this though!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

@firsttimemummy321 how many dpo are you?
@tulips87 I should be 10 today. Wondering if I should just pee on a frer as well and see what happens. I feel so crazy 😂

@DoodleLovin I have no idea, had an early loss in December and no bleed or anything since. I'm having a blood test tomorrow as it's been a rollercoaster with faint tests for me nearly every 3 weeks 🙈

@DoodleLovin they do look positive to me

Yep I think they’re positive 🙏🏼 Sooooo excited!