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Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!

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Kay00 · 16/01/2021 20:33

As the Post Pill Party fills up, the lights are dimmed and the music drops a beat. The lead singer of this rambunctious band shouts: Mosh Pit!! The ravers all storm for the small space in front of the stage allowing their bodies to dance to the beat however the f* they want!! You go ladies!!

This is the 7th post pill party thread for women whose bodies aren’t quite dancing to the expected rhythm: we have delayed ovulation, crazy long follicular phases, crazy short follicular phases, light AFs, short luteal phases, long luteal phases, confusing temp charts and blindingly white OPKs!

In the crowd I can see:

@juno231
@Kay00
@Moocher90
@MintGreenLife
@Emmgrem
@Nellieee
@TheHotelCalifornia
@ams19
@chinchilly
@MancMama39
@sperr
@crabette
@charwils
@LauraT94
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@cams50
@robyn101
@abi555
@luna57
@tillybabs
@MissC07
@mrsmacmc
@mol234
@KGH5121
@Y1986
@Flowers222
@Katelyn99
@minipilling
@ACNass
@HopeAndDriftWood
@glow92
@FlyingGiraffe
@Rd123
@Taliasometimes
@Elsie2021
@Daisychainsandsunshine
@firsttimemummy321
@Delilah221
@NibbleQueen
@Ttcin2021
@justwanttobemum
@Lovebug06
@ElizabethP141
@Endlessstars
@SalemsPot22

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AMS19 · 29/01/2021 14:43

Hi @Juno231 I'm okay thanks so much for checking in. Still waiting for a BFN across all tests, am there on 2 out the 4 brands I have. Absolutely dragging! Yesterday was 4 weeks post MVA so technically could go back now for a scan and bloods given I still have positives, so may pop back next week. Such a drawn out process and super keen to jump back in! Still watching the thread and everyone's journey, just have nothing exciting or interesting my end! Xx

ChinChilly · 29/01/2021 15:44

@AMS19 sorry it’s all still dragging on for you 😞

Well I’ve felt sick all afternoon, I thought I would treat myself to a huge chocolate muffin from the local coffee shop for my afternoon pick me up..I couldn’t even eat it. Swear my nipples are tingling aswell, probs just imagining it at this stage 😂

Gracie2021 · 29/01/2021 16:02

@AMS19 sorry to hear it's taking so long for you but hopefully a good sign that 2 of 4 are clear now. Definitely book in to get checked out for peace of mind though. Hope you're doing ok. Mind yourself xxxx

@Juno231 think we're definitely trending together. Can survive the TWW together 👍👍👍

@MissC07 himself got a new gaming computer today so I've to compete 😂😂😂

@ChinChilly 👀 👀 👀 🤞

Kay00 · 29/01/2021 16:03

@ChinChilly I have to admit... I can see something too. Lets hope you are just 9DPO!

@emmgrem Sorry about your early CP. Hopefully it means that you can get pregnant without too much issue and you will get your sticky bean soon!

Thanks for all your tips and advice re the FODMAP diet. I have been eating between 6 and 9 pieces of fruit and veg daily, yogurts and at least a pint of milk daily, lots of legumes, peas, mushrooms and beans (because I don't eat a lot of meat) and everything I cook has onions, and garlic!! Plus all the Weetabix, bread and chocolate lol Grin

I can't have any of these so I need to turn my diet upside down!! @Juno231 i'm hoping you're right and the lack of dairy and gluten help me get my BFP.

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MissC07 · 29/01/2021 16:15

@ChinChilly Oooh that's exciting🤞 How are things now with your taste and smell after covid?

@AMS19 Sorry things are taking a while for you. Hoping you can join the journey again soon!

@Gracie2021 Hide the controller down your pants 🤣 I've already 'pre-warned' my OH that 'I quite fancy DTD this eve' 😂

@Kay00 If you're on Instagram there's quite a few Fodmap accounts with recipe and meal suggestions that look quite tasty, hopefully that could help!

ChinChilly · 29/01/2021 17:16

@Kay00 that diet sounds difficult!

@MissC07 the smell and taste varies day to day I seem to be having a good day today but yesterday I wasn’t able to smell or taste anything. I would say even on a good day I haven’t even got 50% of my taste and smell back

Cams50 · 29/01/2021 18:40

@ChinChilly I also think I can see the faintest line 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Kay00 hope the soy isoflavones work for you! Sorry about fodmap diet. Sooo restricting but hopefully it’ll help with the pain plus getting that bfp.

@Juno231 I think it’s understandable to be nervous. Hope it goes well for you!

@Robyn101 thanks. It is super frustrating. It usually lasts 11 or 12 days and everything on the internet says over 10 is bad and the doctor didn’t seem to think it was a problem at all. Hoping you ovulate soon! This cycle must be a bit annoying not knowing when you’re likely to ovulate. Hope it’s not too long a wait for you.

@Gracie2021 that moon cup story is hilarious 😂 hope it proves to be worthwhile for you 😃🤞🏻That’s great that ovulation seems to be on its way for you.

@Emmgrem sorry about the cp 😞 hopefully this means you will get your proper bfp soon 🤞🏻❤️

@AMS19 sorry it’s taking so long. Hope it hurries up for you so you can start trying again xx

minipilling · 29/01/2021 19:29

@Juno231 yeah it's really awful! on the plus side it means I know when it's happening at least (it has coincided with the right kind of CM so I'm pretty sure) yes I would love that two stone! I would like to put on a stone if I can manage it. So far lots of potatoes and bread!

@crabette I completely understand, my cardiac health seems OK (I've had a lot of EKGs in the hospital over the past few years for pre-ops and other stuff) but I'm quite weak and unfit even though I'm skinny. I used to have a weak chest when I was little but never developed asthma or anything and nothing's ever been flagged with my lungs as an adult, so hopefully that's a good sign. But chronic fatigue has me feeling frail a lot of the time.

CD7 and I'm having cramps again (I think it's when my uterus is trying to push the last bits out!) - I really hate the brown bleeding because it always feels acidic and burns! Mentioned it to doctors before and there's nothing else wrong, just my vaginal PH or something.

AMS19 · 29/01/2021 19:53

Thanks @Gracie2021 @ChinChilly @MissC07 not patiently waiting... 🙄🥱🤬

AMS19 · 29/01/2021 19:53

And @Cams50 ! Sorry yours didn't load xx

Flowers222 · 29/01/2021 20:46

@ChinChilly I also thought I saw something but didn't want to say anything. 🤞 this is it! Symptoms sound good.

@Emmgrem I'm sorry, it does look like it could be a really early chemical. At this point hopefully af will turn up quickly so you can start trying again. I'm still really hoping the being more fertile after a chemical is true!

Not a lot happening here. Just informed my OH we are in my fertile window now so he is forewarned!

ChinChilly · 29/01/2021 20:49

@Flowers222 I don’t want to get my hopes up, although I’ve just spent half hour messing with the contrast and stuff on the pic 😂😂 good luck with FW 🤞🏼

Gracie2021 · 29/01/2021 23:54

@ChinChilly fingers crossed. When do you think you'll test again?

@Flowers222 enjoy! I've mine stepping up to the plate here too.

Peak came as quick as usual here so glad I tested a few times today. Good timing for the weekend and then back to waiting again. Anyone feel like you spend all your timing waiting during this thing?

Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!
ChinChilly · 30/01/2021 06:53

@Gracie2021 I’m not sure, maybe tomorrow? Not sure if it’s worth testing today. Totally get the waiting, if I’m not waiting for FW I’m waiting for AF.

My temp dropped but my RHR went up so who knows what’s going on over here

Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!
Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!
Gracie2021 · 30/01/2021 07:28

@ChinChilly easier said than done but I'm going to try wait til DPO12 this month to test so completely understand holding off a couple days. Even if it more more waiting. DTD here today then back to recreational boinks and more waiting too 😂

ChinChilly · 30/01/2021 08:08

@Gracie2021 definitely easier said then done, well done on DTD!

I went back to sleep for an hour, checked my temp again when I woke up and it had gone back up to 36.89 🙄

Kay00 · 30/01/2021 09:04

@chinchilly argh, temping is so annoying sometimes!! I would just keep a note of the higher temp for now... at this point you are either pregnant or not, and the temps you record won't change that. 🤞🤞🤞

CD9 here. Finished my Soy on CD7 so im just waiting now... hopefully I don't have to wait a whole month before I ovulate this cycle!

My last ovulation was December 1st 😔 come on body!! We can do this!!

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Juno231 · 30/01/2021 09:31

@Kay00 I really hope you ovulate soon ❤️ what did you have for dinner yesterday now that you're a fodmap victim? 😅

@Gracie2021 everything is just waiting! Wait for FW to start, wait for ovulation, wait for bfp symptom spotting, wait for AF and everything all over again.

@ChinChilly really hope this is it for you.

CD14 today and still nothing on the opks really. I might have a repeat of last cycle where I got a peak opk out of the blue on cd16 and same day ovulation. So far we've DTD on CD11 and CD13 and OH asked why we didn't do it on CD12. Lol over a year of this and he never noticed we did it every other day to spare him the torture of BD 😂. I'm glad he's asking questions /paying attention now at least.

Oh and I had wine last night for a friend's 30th so my temp shot up this morning and FF has given me tentative cross hairs for cd10 but I'm pretty sure that's gonna change with time.

ChinChilly · 30/01/2021 09:36

@Kay00 you’re right, I need to stop obsessing about how my chart looks 😂😂 hopefully the isoflavones have worked and ovulations is sooner for you this time!

@Juno231 I’m not sure it is, my discharge had a browny/pinky tinge this this morning which is fairly normal for me a day or so before AF starts 😕

Moocher90 · 30/01/2021 12:57

I’ve had some peachy/pink spotting today but my cervix is still relatively high and soft and my cm is tacky. Who knows what’s going on with my body.

TheHotelCalifornia · 30/01/2021 13:44

Hey @Juno231 thank you so much for thinking of me that’s so sweet of you.

I’m sorry to have to tell you that I had a miscarriage. It was absolutely awful and I honestly wasn't sure if I'd ever feel happy again but I’m doing much better now and am getting lots of support from all the lovely ladies on the thread @AMS19 started. Currently waiting for my BFN and then I will come back and join you all and hopefully we’ll be lucky soon. Sending love to all you girls trying for your BFPs and hope we have lots of positive news in the coming weeks and months. So thankful for everyone’s support on here xxxxxx

ChinChilly · 30/01/2021 14:16

@TheHotelCalifornia I’m sorry sorry, I hope you aswell as can be ❤️

AMS19 · 30/01/2021 14:23

Proud of you @TheHotelCalifornia

Juno231 · 30/01/2021 16:05

@TheHotelCalifornia oh no I am so sorry it happened to you as well :( I really hope you take good care of yourself and we'll be here for you when you want to join us again ❤️

@AMS19 I'm sorry it's dragging for you! Hopefully in the next few days the tests will show you're in the all clear?

MissC07 · 30/01/2021 16:22

@TheHotelCalifornia I'm so sorry, I hope you are taking the time you need to rest and look after yourself 🤍