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AF after coming off desogestrel

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dechie · 10/01/2021 00:44

How long did it take for AF to return after coming off of desogestrel?
This will be six weeks now - it's driving me crazy! Is this normal? I know they say it can take up to 3 months but surely my body knows the hormones aren't going in every day?
I've gone through bloating, sore nipples thinking, surely this must be it now... Then.... Nothing!
Please tell me this is normal?!

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Gigi1109 · 14/01/2021 17:23

@glow92 still waiting for AF 😂 waiting for some tests to arrive too, I’m driving myself mad!

Oh fab! Hope it increases soon. But yeah just go with the flow and if that’s what you think then fingers crossed you’re right

glow92 · 14/01/2021 17:36

@Gigi1109 just need to distract DH off the PlayStation... it's like I already have one 27yr old child already 😂

Gigi1109 · 14/01/2021 17:38

@glow92 😂 good luck!! I’m glad mine isn’t bothered by PlayStation/Xbox however I’m definitely with you on the extra child front 😂

dechie · 14/01/2021 17:43

@glow92 Still nothing. Maybe AF is waiting to give me a birthday present? (Birthday tomorrow).
Are you also taking your temp every day? That can be a good indicator too. Good luck!
@gigi1109 so glad I'm not alone! 🤣

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glow92 · 14/01/2021 17:48

Ohhh yes, chaos isn't it years ago AF would have ruined a birthday! Hope you have a nice day regardless.
I haven't been temping, might get a cheapie if things don't look like they're happening for me but I think I'd be pretty useless at being so consistent with it.

Seraphina1993 · 14/01/2021 17:52

My last desogestral was on 8th dec, had my withdrawal bleed for 3 days from the 21st and started my proper (very painful and heavy) AF this Tuesday

dechie · 16/01/2021 12:31

@glow92 I know right! I was thinking the same thing! 🤣 Alas, no birthday present from AF.
I was ok with it every day but then when they said we had to wait after the OH's Covid vaccine I've not temped once. 🤦🏻‍♀️
Yeah getting a cheap one and seeing how you go could be a good idea... Then it would work alongside the strips. X

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Hilly20 · 16/01/2021 12:43

When i came off my it last year, took 4.5 months for my period to come, and then they were hit and miss. I went to the doctor for blood tests etc, everything was ok but said it may take a while for my body to sort its self out.

I went back on it mid last year, due to changing job. I came off again in December, i thought my AF was going to start, bloating, cramps etc but then nothing. Been bloated for nearly two weeks! but this happened last year.

My doctor said it would take at least 3 months before my it sorts it self out and be able to conceive.

dechie · 16/01/2021 15:47

@Hilly20 thank you! Definitely making me feel at ease! Just got to keep waiting ☺️ x

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Gigi1109 · 18/01/2021 15:00

How’s everyone getting on? AF still hasn’t arrived for me yet x

glow92 · 18/01/2021 15:08

Hey @Gigi1109 ...supposed to be ovulation day today but I've been using OPK's for the last 5 days and have had no rises at all 😞. So I'm either not, for the 2nd cycle since coming off pill, or my cycle hasn't settled and this one is longer.
How's things with you?

Delilah221 · 18/01/2021 15:33

Hi Everyone, So glad I've found this as i am in the same boat!

I've was on hormonal contraception for 10 years. First the injection, then desogestrel. I was on Carrelle for years and had no issues at all, and no periods at all. But i would have brown spotting if i missed a couple of pills or took them at the wrong time. So I assumed that would be the same when i came off all together in the future so didn't worry too much.

But i ran out of carelle back in October, and the nurse just gave me a pack of carazette as i couldn't have an appointment of course, so she sent it straight to chemist so didn't know she'd prescribed that instead of carelle. And after a month of being on Carazette my mental health went downhill big time, and it was just so horrible to be on so decided to just come off all together to give my body extra time to settle before TTC.

I took my last pill on the 8th of December, then we used protection until the 17th of December, we DTD unprotected and i think i may have been ovulating as i had EWCM that week. But may not have been.Then i had the following:

  • 3 weeks after taking my last pill, i had really bad cramps and then the next morning (on boxing day) i had a small-ish amount of brown discharge (Sorry TMI) So i used a pad, but had literally nothing else after that. So just had that small amount that morning and that was it. So i assumed this was withdrawral.
  • I had nothing for the next week. Then the following week i had spotting of brown discharge on and off for a few days, but didn't need any pads or anything as it was only when i went to the toilet. Then it went more to a light bleed (still brown) and i needed a pad for 1 day then it went back to spotting and stopped completely now. So my Clue app has classed that as cycle one. But I'm unsure as it's only been brown discharge.

I've had nothing since, but took an ovulation test a week ago and it was positive, and we DTD a few times that week. But since Friday, I've had such sore nipples! Really sore. And I've never had this before. I then woke up saturday feeling quite sick, and then went to have breakfast and the smell of porridge hit me and it made me sick! I eat that most days fine. So this was odd. I was so convinced i was pregnant with all these symptoms, but then did a test and it was negative. But according to my app my AF is due next week so just waiting for that to see what happens.

Sorry i know thats a bit long winded and all over the place, but to be honest my heads all over the place too! No idea what's happening with my body. And don't really recall having a proper cycle or anything when i went on the pill so not much to compare with!

I just wanted to see if anyone else has had similar and to also join and see how everyone else is getting on. It's now 6 weeks since i stopped the pill so still early days. I also had the worse pregnancy symptoms like 2 weeks after stopping the pill but i knew it must've been hormones as we used protection mostly in those 2 weeks. But it's driving me crazy thinking oooo is this is and then getting a BFN/No AF!

Gigi1109 · 18/01/2021 16:03

@glow92 oh I’m so sorry to hear that it’s so disappointing :( at least it’s only early days and hopefully things appear better next month!

Still no AF I really hope I come on soon so I can start getting my cycle back to normal! X

glow92 · 18/01/2021 18:07

@Gigi1109 I hope so, I think if it looks like nothings happening a third time next month I'll have to start asking some questions.
Fingers crossed you can get going soon! 🤞🏼💜.

dechie · 19/01/2021 17:29

@delilah221 I've been the exact same without the discharge or spotting!
REALLY sore nipples, cramps... But nothing. We've been unprotected too I took a test just before new year... Negative
Still no AF @Gigi1109 @glow92 when will she come back?! 😞 Did we piss her off that much?? 👀

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Bubblemonkey · 19/01/2021 17:32

Started bleeding 22nd of December. Took my last pill the 23rd. Bled till the 30th.. then got my first period on the 5th.

Delilah221 · 19/01/2021 17:44

@dechie - It's so frustrating isn't it! I'm trying to be patient as it's only been 6/7 weeks since i came off the pill. But just wanted to see what others have experienced as all other threads seem to be from a few years back! And everyone seems to be different.

I'm waiting for AF, due in 6 days according to my app, but like i say, I'm not 100% sure on that as i've only just started using it.

dechie · 19/01/2021 17:52

@Delilah221 fingers crossed the app is right for you! Did you say you'd been temping too?
You're definitely not on your own with the lack of AF! Don't you worry!

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Delilah221 · 19/01/2021 17:57

@dechie I hope so. I only downloaded it to track everything that happened after i stopped the pill as it was a bit all over the place!
I'm trying to not get too worked up until i've given myself 3 months for my body to settle down a bit.
Nope, I haven't been temping. I only did the ovulation test as my app had predicted it on that day so wanted to check to see if it was right. And was incredibly surprised to see a positive for ovulation on the exact day!

Fingers crossed your AF arrives soon!!

glow92 · 19/01/2021 18:14

I think I was working myself up way to much yesterday, finally got what I was looking for last night and this morn 🙌🏼
Just tested again and I've already dipped back down to 0.51. I still don't fully understand the timings but DTD Friday, Saturday and hopefully tonight!

AF after coming off desogestrel
Gigi1109 · 21/01/2021 09:35

Hey ladies sorry I’ve been a bit absent! Hope you’re all ok?

@Delilah221 glad you’ve found this group and are in the same boat as us! It’s so strange isn’t it! The GP never informed me that this would happen and I really don’t like it! I’m still waiting for AF and it’s driving me insane! Mine was 5 weeks yesterday since coming off and I know it can be way long but it’s never happened before!
@dechie still nothing for you hun?
@glow92 I legit thought they were pregnant tests then!! 😂 however amazing that you got what you’ve been waiting for! My fingers are crossed for you!

Delilah221 · 21/01/2021 10:46

@Gigi1109 I’m glad I found it too! I thought I was going insane with it all. If I’d have been wormed about all this I wouldn’t have taken it for so long! But they’re so quick to just fob you off with the “no you’ll be fine after it” 🙄
I think I’m now almost 7 weeks post pill and apparently according to my app my AF is due in 4 days 🤷🏻‍♀️

Gigi1109 · 21/01/2021 12:22

@Delilah221 they are aren’t they! I was on the mini pill before I tried for my first and I’m sure it didn’t take this long! I read on here today that someone had came off their pill and not had a period and 9 weeks later had BFP! Don’t want to get hopes up but I can happen 😂 they must be super fertile!

So I’ve done tests and I feel like I’ve got line eyes?! I’m pretty sure I see faint lines but I know I’m a crazy woman! What do you all think? X

AF after coming off desogestrel
Gigi1109 · 21/01/2021 20:36

Don’t worry guys OH has confirmed no lines and informed me of how strange I am 😂 I just need to stop haha! I think it’s because with lockdown there’s so much time to think and I genuinely think I sometimes convince myself of every possibility! I remember doing it when TTC #1 and that took a while so I don’t know why I think it could happen so quick this time round 🙄

Blessex · 21/01/2021 20:37

When I came off the pill for our first it took 6 months. I never went back on it again. And thinking that was how long it took me to conceive we started early for the 2nd. Became pregnant immediately. It takes the body a while to readjust.

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