The Pact Continued - 2021 WILL be our year!

[SS123456]

Just starting us up a new thread 😁

@Rotagilla
@kirinm
@whambam89
@Sansa87
@MrsB2019x

Who have I missed??

I hope you all have a great Christmas! Good luck to all the ladies in their Christmas fw 😉🎄

Merry Christmas Eve!!!!! Roll on 4 o’clock when I finish work!

Hope everyone has a great Christmas!

Just got a peak OPK so let's hope it's a good Christmas for me 😂

Happy shagging @whambam89

@Sansa87 😂. Good luck @whambam89 😁😂🤞🏻

Merry Christmas everyone ❤️

Merry Christmas! Xxx

Merry Christmas ladies! 😁

I've started having some pink discharge this evening when wiping and I'm really freaking out 😩

Merry Christmas ladies! 🎄

Hope you’ve been working on that BFP over Christmas @whambam89 😜

Oh @SS123456 I bet you’re going out of your mind 😔 I imagine if it’s just pink discharge and on wiping you’ll be fine. Would your clinic be open tomorrow/Sunday to talk it over with them?

Thank you @MrsB2019x. I barely slept at all as I was so on edge with every twinge or feeling of being wet down there. I don't want to jinx it but I think it has stopped this morning as there was none on a pad and (sorry if tmi!) but I didn't have anything after a bowel movement either which if I'm bleeding can something 'force' more out if that makes any sense?! Will just have to see how things pan out today I guess. I did an IC and it was the darkest yet so hopefully that's a good sign. The day I mc'd before even a frer had gone really light. I feel super nervous and on edge!

Ooo yeah, how did you get on @whambam89 ? 🤞🏻😁

I ended up in EPU for pink discharge @SS123456 and it was pretty clear they only saw me purely for anxiety reasons, not out of worry for bubba. I think mine had been caused by a internal scan a week before.

Of course that won’t help the panic with every twinge. We’ve all been there (even now I get nervous after I wipe just incase) big hugs!

Hope you all had a lovely Christmas!

@MrsB2019x @SS123456 I'm pretty sure I ovulated yesterday but I'm out of OPKs now. @SS123456 have tried your trick of finishing after OH this month so we'll see if it makes a difference 🤞 A little bit of spotting is perfectly normal, I had it with DD and massively freaked out though! How is everyone feeling? Any more nausea Mrs B?

@SS123456 Glad it’s stopped now, that sounds reassuring! These things are definitely sent to try us 🙄

@whambam89 Really hope it has worked for you! I think I remember you saying before you wanted a September baby 🤞Yeah woke up feeling awful this morning, belly is not happy with me for yesterday 😫 MIL has come round already to collect presents so I’m hiding upstairs 😂 Luckily the nausea managed to stay away yesterday!

Thank you @Sansa87 that's reassuring to know. How many weeks were you at that point? I had an internal scan on Monday so maybe it was just that 🤷🏻‍♀️🤞🏻. I've had the slightest hint of brown when wiping since (but only if you are crazily analysing the toilet paper!) so hoping it stays that way. I have another scan on the 8th Jan so thankfully not too long to wait assuming all stays ok between now and then

Oh did you @whambam89 , fingers crossed it works!! 😁. Thanks so much for sharing that really helps calm me a bit. I'm crazily on edge after the mc now!

@MrsB2019x that was lucky on the nausea front 🙌🏻😁

@SS123456 I think I must have been 8 weeks, but it was about 5 days after The internal. They said it had most likely irritated the cervix. I got myself in a right state though

@Sansa87 about the same as me then as this is 4-5 days after (although I am only 5 weeks). I am feeling the same, I almost had a full blown panic attack last night and every twinge today I'm on edge. I'm randomly having the odd lightning crotch pain today too which isn't helping with the anxiety!

@SS123456 I had a full on crying breakdown telling oh I was losing another one. I can understand how scary it is.

What they tried to drum into my head was unless there was bright red blood, and heavy cramps that it can be a very normal early pregnancy symptom even without the internal scan.

They rescanned need three days later, but I spent those days in bed crying and with no hope.

@Sansa87 I completely get that, it so scary feeling so helpless and not knowing what is happening 😔. My son is with his dad for 2 days now so I'm going to try and relax and rest up as much as possible. I had a really stressful Christmas day yesterday with my OHs son really spoiling the day as he was really badly behaved so hopefully a calmer day will ease things and give me some perspective

Thanks ladies, your support is really appreciated ❤️

@SS123456 how are you getting on?

Morning @whambam89 . Touchwood things didn't progress any further than some pink/brown when wiping and it seems to have stopped now so fingers crossed it was, as @Sansa87 said, from my internal scan 4 days earlier and nothing more sinister🤞🏻.

Are you in your tww now?!

How is everyone doing?

We face timed my sister in law last night who told us she is 19 weeks pregnant. I'm so glad we had fallen again before they had told us (not that we are not super happy for them obviously!) but there would have been 4 weeks between our mc'd baby and theirs which would have been hard

@SS123456 oh wow they've kept that quiet for a while then! Are you close to each other? How lovely that your littles ones will be 3 months apart.

Yep pretty sure I'm in my TWW, haven't done an opk since Christmas day as I ran out. DTD last night as well just in case. Pretty sure I'm 2dpo though. Feeling relaxed at the moment but ask me again in a week 😂

Glad the spotting stopped, hopefully your next scan comes round nice and quickly!

@whambam89 They said they had been waiting to tell us in person but with us being tier 4 that wasn't going to happen anytime soon! We rang to check they were ok as they both have covid so hopefully all will be ok with the baby! They live an hour and a half drive from us but hopefully when all the coronavirus stuff ends we can see them more. Ah well done getting some extra dtd in 😁. When will you expect af? My fingers are crossed for you! We have just under 2 weeks until our next scan so not too much longer to wait thankfully