The Pact Continued - 2021 WILL be our year!

[SS123456]

Just starting us up a new thread 😁

@Rotagilla
@kirinm
@whambam89
@Sansa87
@MrsB2019x

Who have I missed??

Morning ladies, how are we all?

@MrsB2019x are you feeling any better today?

@kirinm I hope you are ok. I completely understand how you feel. Please remember that regardless of what happens with any of us (bfp, bfn, mc, full term pregnancy etc) this is a safe place for you to vent about anything you wish and we are here to support you. I would never have got this far through these long 15 months without going insane without you ladies 😊

I got a 2-3 week digital test this morning, but I am only 12dpo (so 3 weeks 5 days). Freaking out a bit that I am carrying more than one! 😱

@SS123456 Yeah no nausea today thankfully! That’s crazy about the digi, do twins run in your family? If not could just be a very strong sticky bean!!

Grateful to have got to 5 weeks today, last time I was in A&E dead on 5 weeks so I’m feeling a bit more reassured. Obviously anything can still happen but feeling a bit better about it all than last time!

@MrsB2019x oh good, long may it stay that way! 🤞🏻. Amazing news! I mc'd at exactly 5 weeks last time too so I will feel better if/when I hit that point as well

No, no twins on mine or OHs sides (my cousin has twins but I believe she had IVF) but I have read things in the past saying that older mums are more likely to have twins. My house would be crazy if we had 5 kids between us 😱

@SS123456 omg I would love twins 😂 (yes I'm a psycho hahaha), are you going to have an early scan? You could find out in a couple of weeks if so! How exciting, it's clearly a very sticky bean (or bean!)

@MrsB2019x glad the nausea is ok today!

I had a really vivid dream last night that I was pregnant. I was 33 weeks and still hadn't told work for some reason haha. But could feel the baby kicking me and it's bum sticking up, was really real!

@MrsB2019x have you got an early scan booked in? I think I missed a few posts earlier in the week x

@whambam89 I had ALWAYS wanted twins too but since having my DS and my OH having two kids of his own it would be pretty hard to handle so many kids at this point! We would have to have a bus to drive them around lol 🙈

Funnily enough I have literally just booked a scan for exact 4 weeks today when I will hopefully be about 7-8 weeks on the 13th Jan. I was going to do one a bit sooner but OH got a bit nervous about an internal scan doing some damage to the baby 😂 so there is more chance I may get an abdominal one if it's closer to 8 weeks lol

Oh maybe the dream is a sign?! 🤞🏻😁

What date is your 6 week scan again @MrsB2019x ?

@whambam89 How strange! Could you imagine trying to hide a bump for 33 weeks?

@SS123456 My 6 week scan is next Wednesday at 8:50 😬😬😬 How are you feeling about yours? You should be able to see more from going a bit later!

@SS123456 window to the womb say they will only do internal before 10 weeks, but have heard of them doing it earlier.

I found the picture quality was a lot better internally, & figured that they do those for IVF so must be as safe as can be, just incase they say it has to be internal, hopefully that can give oh some relief.

@MrsB2019x ooo not long to wait now 🤞🏻😊

@Sansa87 I have a feeling this will be internal too but I'm not fussed about that it is just OH being a bit funny 😂. I'm sure if we get there and he hears them tell him an internal one is fine he'll be ok. You know what men are like, they never listen to us, sometimes they need a third party to say it!

@krj2608 YAY! congratulations! 💕 Look at that line 🎉💝

@MrsB2019x Awww, I also recommend ice lollies! I was only sick one morning in week 11 - so you might not have any vomiting 🙏🏻

@SS123456 As @Sansa87 said, WtW usually do internal but did external for my friend at 8 weeks (but internal for me at the same time) so sometimes I think it's pot luck!

When is your scan @Sansa87? 😊

@LeopardLover I’ve only been sick twice the whole 20 weeks thankfully.

My scan is Friday lunchtime 😬 I need to stop reading horror stories

Let us know how you get on @Sansa87 😊

@Sansa87 Oh that's good for you too - sickness really doesn't happen for everyone! Not long now, just one more sleep. 😊 I had an 8am scan which helped because I didn't have much time to think about it. Keep us updated! 💜

@Sansa87 good luck! Not long to go! X

Morning sickness has kicked in this morning ... whilst doing the school run, never walked back so quickly 😂

Oh already @krj2608 🙈. Hopefully it will pass! I've had to force myself to take myself to take my last frer this morning so I can't test anymore! 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

@SS123456 I’m sure there was a lot of forcing 😂 what does your line look like today?

You poor thing @krj2608 how many weeks are you?

Hope everybody else is doing okay today I had some niggles at my ectopic site yesterday which sent my mind into overdrive but seems to have stopped now hopefully 🤞

@MrsB2019x When you had the ectopic did it start as a gradual pain or come on suddenly? Little niggles are perfectly normal I'm sure 😊

These are my lines 😂😂

@SS123456 That’s great progression! 🤩 I only took 2 FRER surprisingly, top is 4+1 and bottom is 4+3

Oh wow you are putting mine to shame! 😁❤️

@MrsB2019x

So I’ve just called EPU about the niggles I’ve been having at my ectopic site, I guess I wanted to hear them say that twinges are normal and as long as it’s not accompanied by bleeding and isn’t proper pain then they’re sure it’s fine...

That didn’t happen, they want me checked out and I’m booked in for an earlier scan tomorrow morning.

I mean I guess I’m glad they are being thorough but now I’m worried I’ve been too complacent and something might actually be wrong. Shitting a brick. 😭

That's great that they are checking things so quickly. How soon did it turn to severe pain last time? What time are you going tomorrow? Let us know how you get on, I'll be thinking of you ❤️

Thank you @SS123456, it was within about 24 hours but I was bleeding before I even found out I was pregnant last time, which I haven’t had any this time so I was taking it as a good sign 🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s at 9:50, going to be a long night tonight I think

@MrsB2019x they took me in two EPU twice this time, & I honestly believe it was more for my mental health than for them being worried something was physically wrong.

I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow! Xx

@Sansa87 Thank you 💙 though I think it’s made mine worse lol! We’ll see what the morning brings. Good luck for your scan too! What time is it?