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Christmas BFP’s positive thoughts (let’s support each other)

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 13:59

Hi ladies, have started this thread for anyone that has not had their bfp this month but is going into their next cycle positively hoping for their Christmas or New Years bfp. Let’s support each other..laugh/cry. No such thing as TMI. Let’s celebrate together! Xxx

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Claire008 · 16/11/2020 11:04

Congratulations @NamechangeTTC such fantastic news. Wishing you all the best

NamechangeTTC · 16/11/2020 11:27

Whoop whoop @Sohe

Thanms everyone for lovely messages Flowers

PinkRoseFlower · 17/11/2020 20:49

Aww @NamechangeTTC congratulations!!!! I'm so happy for you, amazing news💕🎉

Lille4 · 17/11/2020 21:05

@NamechangeTTC congratulations! That’s amazing news :)

Thanks for all the lovely messages everyone. I’m so gutted my bfp ended at 4+5dbut fingers crossed for next month. Not sure what the likelihood of conceiving immediately after a mc is. Here’s to rainbow babies 🌈🌈🌈🌈

Aozora13 · 17/11/2020 21:20

Congratulations @NamechangeTTC wishing you all the best! Exciting times.

Sorry for your loss @Lille4. I heard you’re actually more fertile after a mc so fingers crossed for your 🌈 hopefully next month will be your month

NamechangeTTC · 18/11/2020 09:59

@Lille4 hugely rooting for you this month ❤️

Thank you everyone. I’ve become obsessed with line progression.

Leonberger · 19/11/2020 08:06

So sorry @Lille4. I’ve decided I won’t test until I’m actually late now as the chemical made me feel rubbish and it might have been better not to know!

I’m CD13 now and got the faintest of lines on Ov stick when they have previously been white. The app tells me I’m not in the fertile window until tomorrow but I might just try and start tonight. Not sure DH will make 8 days in a row though and I can ovulate anything from CD16-CD20 Blush

Lille4 · 19/11/2020 08:35

@Leonberger thank you lovely 😊
I have stopped testing early too.
I was actually 4 days late for af when I got my bfp. So there was no way to avoid it. This is my second early mc in 3 months. Just keeping fingers crossed now for next cycle. I might wait until I’m well over a week late before testing next time just to save myself the heartache 😑

Lille4 · 19/11/2020 08:38

@Leonberger Sorry to hear about your chemical hun and good luck ttc! Rooting for you. Do you usually do everyday or every other day? 8 days in a row is such a challenge for me especially with my 3 year old in the way and being exhausted from work lmao 😂

Leonberger · 19/11/2020 08:39

@Lille4 ah that’s awful Sad I don’t think I could manage a week I usually want to test 2 days after ov Grin

Here’s to better luck for everyone this month!!

Leonberger · 19/11/2020 08:44

@Lille4 sorry we must have cross posted! I have a 4yo so know the feeling plus we both work shifts. I’m on late this week and don’t finish until 10pm but DH starts work at 5am. I really don’t want to miss it this time around as I’ve got no idea which day I’ll ovulate! It’s been anything from CD15 to CD20 Confused

I have been doing every other day with an extra if I get a positive ov but my friend says every day is better if we can!

Claire008 · 19/11/2020 09:31

I think I've got a Christmas BFP! In complete and utter disbelief especially as yesterday I could have sworn I was 100% out just because I wasn't feeling any out of the ordinary symptoms to PMS. Still a pretty faint line, but I know it's early days as 10 dpo. Wouldn't usually test this early at all but caved because it's my birthday today.

Got everything crossed for more Christmas BFPs 🌟⭐🌟

Christmas BFP’s positive thoughts (let’s support each other)
Claire008 · 19/11/2020 09:31

Also I really really hope my post does cause anyone any upset, I'm so so sorry if it does xxx

NamechangeTTC · 19/11/2020 10:07

Congratulations @Claire008!

I started testing 10dpo and got a faint line too. Now 14dpo and a serial tester.

Testing tomorrow then reducing it.

Christmas BFP’s positive thoughts (let’s support each other)
RichmondLady1981 · 19/11/2020 10:22

Congratulations @Claire008 x

Jadem83 · 19/11/2020 11:31

Congratulations @Claire008 🥰

Lille4 · 19/11/2020 11:31

@Claire008 of course we are happy for you! Hope it’s a sticky one :) @NamechangeTTC congrats to you too!
All the best ladies xx

Aozora13 · 19/11/2020 12:28

Aww congratulations @Claire008 that’s lovely. Here’s to more festive bfps.

And good luck @Leonberger for your 8 day bonkfest Grin

whoareyouIwonder · 19/11/2020 12:35

Can I join?! Currently CD17 after first round of clomid.

Which day is the best day to take a test?

TryingToNotTry · 19/11/2020 15:10

Hi ladies, I am new here as well. I am approximately 11dpo, though I did not do any OPK tests or anything like that. Just going off of Flo and cm. Like most of us I think I am feeling things but I also think they are in my head Grin.

AF due on 23/9 so trying to hold out until at least tomorrow. Wanting to know, but also not wanting to know...

Congrats to @NamechangeTTC and @Claire008!!! Flowers

Leonberger · 20/11/2020 08:11

Congrats to you both @NamechangeTTC and @Claire008!! Amazing news!

Good luck @TryingToNotTry got my fingers crossed for you Smile

I was looking back on my app and realised in 7 months of trying I’ve managed to miss ovulation by 2-3 days every single time Confused A couple of months I only managed to hit one of the fertile days as the app shifted everything when I realised I ovulated late, so in previous months I’ve been almost a week too soon.

The only month I managed to hit the dates right was last month and that’s when I had what I thought was a chemical.

Hopefully this is the reason I’m not pregnant yet!

CookieMonster3001 · 20/11/2020 11:08

congrats on the BFPs in this group!! 13DPO and a BFN on a FRER this morning. Temps still high and had a little bit of spotting last night with some cramps so might still be possible I implanted late, but have a gut feeling this month isn't my month!! Fingers crossed for an Xmas BFP, period would be due 21st Dec so that would be an amazing pressie!!!

DOB78 · 20/11/2020 16:19

Congratulations to those in the group with BFP's.
Heart felt hugs for the losses within the group too.

LT103 · 20/11/2020 21:31

Cd8 here so just in limbo waiting for fw. Congratulations to all the bfps!!!!

Idreamof2more · 21/11/2020 08:04

Morning everyone. Well I def won’t see a bfp before Christmas. Long story had a gynae op last Monday. Had a bit of a nightmare time and bad reaction to anaesthetic. Whilst feeling so unwell told Dp I did not want another baby. I was feeling emotional and so sick and it reminded me of my pregnancy condition (hypremesis). Basically convinced him it would be worst decision. Moving forward to yesterday started feeling better and decided to check my ovulation. Got a static smile!!! Told dp and he said I don’t want another baby now. He would not even sit next to me on the sofa. He rejected a hug. Think he thought I might seduce him. Feel so hurt and mixed up now. Xx

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