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Christmas BFP’s positive thoughts (let’s support each other)

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 13:59

Hi ladies, have started this thread for anyone that has not had their bfp this month but is going into their next cycle positively hoping for their Christmas or New Years bfp. Let’s support each other..laugh/cry. No such thing as TMI. Let’s celebrate together! Xxx

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YouBoggleMyMind · 08/11/2020 20:03

I'm glad it's not just me being a crazy angry non pregnant wife right now 😂

What tricks have people got up their sleeves for this cycle then?

Bubblegum20 · 08/11/2020 20:10

@Mischi3fManag3d I also got told when I came of the pill last year that I have pcos, I take inositol supplements now and my cycles are normally a max of 45 days now sometimes less! Might be worth looking into, it might not help you but it has me just a thought

Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 20:40

@YouBoggleMyMind well this is what I do and I’ll add a new thing at the end (not position tricks) 🤣🤣 even though I am cringed by admitting v that I actually did the old raise your bump for ages after bd and don’t pee straight away!
I am taking :
Trying for a baby boots own vits
Baby aspirin as had 3 loses now
Using cab digital advanced
I am now starting from this month to take coq10
Xxx

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YouBoggleMyMind · 08/11/2020 20:44

Haha 😆 go on @Idreamof2more share your positions!

Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 20:54

@YouBoggleMyMind well you start off doing reverse cowgirl before switching into the mermaid then I do a full 360 🤣🤣🤣🤣! (Mermaid totally made up unless you know otherwise) I’m not going to lie it’s all been bloody boring and timed bd is pretty crap!!! Missionary feels like a mission!
Much prefer spontaneous sex xx

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YouBoggleMyMind · 08/11/2020 21:05

Omg I was going to ask what the mermaid was then @Idreamof2more 😂😂😂😂

Schedule sex is shit and has completely ruined our sex life 😐😐😐😐

dollymoo · 08/11/2020 21:15

I would like to join please. 1st month of Ttc #2. Af just stopped so we are ready to go. I've ordered ovulation sticks as my cycles are longer than average so unsure when I actually ovulate

jessi60 · 08/11/2020 22:00

Hi would love to join!
Going into my second month of trying.
Current on CD 3! Xx

OzInLondon888 · 08/11/2020 22:08

Hiya, would love to join this chat... I ovulated yesterday so only DPO1... 🤞🏼😬

I have to agree with @YouBoggleMyMind .... the pressure to have sex around those keys dates totally kills the buzz doesn’t it!

Lille4 · 08/11/2020 23:23

Can I join? Been ttc for 6 cycles now. One chemical in August. Just a bit frustrating isn’t it? Sorry to hear about all your losses.

AF is due today. I can feel it coming sadly so I’m putting my hopes on next month now.
Baby dust to us all xx

Lille4 · 09/11/2020 05:35

Update: I joined this group yesterday whilst waiting for AF. Well it didn’t show up and I’ve been having the worst cramps so took a test this morning... I’m so shocked and scared at the same time because I had a CP in August...
I’ve had the least ‘pregnancy’ symptoms this months so this line has baffled me...

Christmas BFP’s positive thoughts (let’s support each other)
dippyegg32 · 09/11/2020 06:04

Congratulations @Lille4
Come and join us in the July 21 due date private fb group www.facebook.com/groups/457967405175903/

Idreamof2more · 09/11/2020 07:44

Welcome new ladies lovely to have you on this journey! 🥰
Congratulations @Lille4 that’s fantastic news!!! 🎉🎉 ixxx

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NamechangeTTC · 09/11/2020 09:10

Congratulations @Lille4

MrsF111 · 09/11/2020 09:26

Hi, please can I join, TTC baby number 1 - had a MMC earlier in the year, got pregnant first cycle that time, day 4 of my second cycle since deciding to try again. Would really love a BFP for Christmas. My cycle was 38 days last month! I had started to hope I might be pregnant but then AF finally arrived

Idreamof2more · 09/11/2020 09:36

Of cause you can join @MrsF111 lovely to see our little Christmas group blooming (like we will be soon). So excited for us all. Positive vibes xxx

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Idreamof2more · 09/11/2020 09:37

Also note that many of us have had a loss so nice that we have each other x

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Bubblegum20 · 09/11/2020 10:24

Congratulations 🎉 @Lille4

SweetShopSurprise · 09/11/2020 10:44

I’ll join too if that’s okay. I’m on a few on this board now but ever since my IOS updated a few days ago, my ‘threads I’m on’ page has pretty much disappeared so I’ll join and try and remember/ stay on this one Grin

October was the first month TTC for us, I’m due on today. No sign of AF yet but I think I can feel her coming Sad

This month I’ve only used an app to track ovulation and I get the feeling it’s not entirely accurate so this month my plan is

Buy and use OPK sticks
Perhaps track my temperature too
Use Pre-Seed!

I convinced myself I had pregnancy symptoms last month (genuinely did get a bit of heart burn and felt nauseous for a few days) but after reading a lot of threads on this board I think that’s normal and most women TTC over analyse every symptom. (And I totally get why as it’s so hard not to!) but this month I’m determined to not convince myself I’m pregnant with every slight twinge / slight bout of nausea Grin

Wishing us all the best of luck for a Christmas BFP!!

SweetShopSurprise · 09/11/2020 10:45

And congrats @Lille4 Smile

YouBoggleMyMind · 09/11/2020 15:25

AF has turned up 😓

Idreamof2more · 09/11/2020 15:54

Mine too typically spotting to start!! 😡

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Idreamof2more · 09/11/2020 15:54

Next cycle here we come 🥰

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YouBoggleMyMind · 09/11/2020 16:00

Right, come on everyone, what tricks have we got to get knocked up this cycle?

Bonniecolou · 09/11/2020 18:27

Can I join?

TTC baby number 1. This is my 6th cycle after having a CP last month. Currently on CD10. First time last month that I actually used CB ovulation tests so hoping while using them again this month I will get my BFP and it sticks as I’m so worried I will have another CP. Also so hard to not do early testing as I’m so impatient!!!

Wishing everyone the best of luck though.