August might be pact might be madness part 2

[claireb707]

Hopefully can get all you in here

@Sansa87 I think AF will turn up in full flow soon enough, this has just literally never happened to me before... Will update in the morning x

@whambam89 bodies are arseholes aren’t they

[quote Sansa87]@whambam89 bodies are arseholes aren’t they[/quote]
I'd agree with thst too 😢

CD 36, 18dpo still no sign of period and still bfn 🤷‍♀️

Well my body was just playing tricks on me, nothing all night last night but AF is fully here this morning 😴

😢😢 @whambam89

Still nothing for me

@claireb707 how strange!

Wtf is going on @claireb707? Do you think it might be stress or something that’s delaying it? 😕

Sorry for AF @whambam89 😔

@claireb707 how frustrating! Have you ever been this late before?

@whambam89 sorry AF arrived.

I have no idea if I've ovulated or not. The only day I didn't test is CD11 which is normally the day I get a positive so i could have ovulated then but I have no idea. I think if I got pregnant now I'd be panicking massively.

Subject to what I find out about this cmv I may have to put ttc on hold. I may do for October regardless. I'll stay on whatever thread everyone is on as I've been on this thread since June? And if would feel weird not being on it!

Sorry I should've said I have had positives on CD11 but just checked my calendar and it's not always been CD11 so maybe I've not ovulated yet.

Once In pril, had a 44 day cycle but temp line was flat as so don't think I ovulated and I didn't get any pos opks.

This time I did, possibly is stress but don't know 😢

Now a late cycle will possibly cause you more stress @claireb707! Maybe wait another week then see your GP?

I know what you mean @kirinm, like I want to take a step back from all of this to try and de-stress but don’t want to leave this group either!

Just an update: my symptoms are fading, boobs are not as hArd as yesterday, & no nausea today. I woke up from a dream I had a mc, and I have suffered from more intense cramping than usual today, I had to get a manager to drive me home from work this morning. I’ve had slight brown discharge.

Really feeling shit right now. Paracetamol isn’t doing anything for the period like pain.

I haven’t called EPU as I think I’m too scared to go through it alone again. I don’t know, full of anxiety.

My mind frame right now is I’ll be joining you in the October group. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. X

Oh @Sansa87, big hugs lovely 💙 I totally understand why you wouldn’t want to call EPU, but the sooner you do then the sooner you’ll know what’s going on. Then you’ll be on their books and they can monitor you closer. I’m sure you’ll be fine but totally get why you’re worried. I’ve read some people on here say their symptoms disappeared in the middle of the first trimester then they returned with a vengeance.

Look after yourself tonight, have a relaxing bath, snuggle with OH and watch something silly x

@Sansa87 Just popping on to give you a big virtual hug! My nausea and sore boobs disappeared at 6 weeks and my cramping has been consistent. I had an 8 week scan at the weekend and baby was doing well! Try to pluck up the courage to call the EPU. Sending you lots of love x

Glad baby is doing well @LeopardLover! 🥰

@Sansa87 big hugs! I hope everything is ok. If you’re still worrying tomorrow then def worth giving them a call to see what they say. I can see why you’re worried after last time

Thanks girls. Zero symptoms left today, but stomach pain worse.

Going to take day off work, & call the gp to get a referral to hospital again 😔

@Sansa87 I don’t think you need a GP referral I think you can call EPU directly x

@MrsB2019x Thank you, lovely! Sorry it's been another hard month for you (and the others who are out). 😔 Crossing my fingers October is the ONE! x

@Sansa87 Good luck today x

@MrsB2019x I don’t know if the rules have changed, but last time I rang them and was told I had to be referred by my gp before they could see me 😔

I wish Oh wasn’t so swamped at work. I could’ve got a private appointment at half 2 today in the town he works, but I don’t drive, and he can’t leave to come get me, and then drive me home again. At least I’d have him with me.

@Sansa87 Ah okay, I think different rules apply around the country. Maybe give them another call, they might see you based on your history?

@MrsB2019x that’s a good point, I’ll give them a go.

I’m sat here angry crying right now. Just found out one of management is going round speaking to staff members that he thinks I’m pregnant because I called up sick when I apparently when home with a bad back yesterday.

I’m beyond mad. Fucking management. He’s supposed to be a friend too. Sadly a friend told me so I can’t even take it to higher management.

@Sansa87 sorry to hear you're so anxious. I agree with everyone else, a scan may help reduce your anxiety. Symptoms do really come and go and I know that doesn't feel in anyway reassuring when you're the one they've gone for.

Some EPUs are referral only although I have no idea why when others aren't. Hopefully your GP can do the referral over the phone so you can get seen today.

I'm CD15 today. I don't know if I've ovulated. I'm half worried that we DTD at the right time and there is a chance I could get pregnant but also half excited because that is desperately what I want even though I am facing some uncertainty with risks at the moment. It is such a weird place to be in. Want to be pregnant but know it probably isn't a great idea. Urgh.

Although I think I'd like to take a more relaxed approach to TTC, I'm not sure I could go a month without knowing if / when I ovulated.

How are you doing @Sansa87 ?