TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 9)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,

Fingers crossed for lots of BFPs this month as we are definitely due some!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@calimommy

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@VP91x
@Runnergirl1
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@LKMH
@Cici89
@Blondecomment0703
@CasperFlamingo

I'm CD11, waiting for something (anything) to happen this month 😂. Only taking my Inofolic Alpha this cycle and nothing else.

Hope I've tagged everyone xx

@SmileyT my scan is with Window to the Womb. It's literally around the corner from my house - the convenience might be dangerous for me just booking a casual scan here and there! 🙈

@MichT4 you'll have long forgotten about the breeder as soon as you get your fur baby home! I'm sure they're fine, maybe they forgot to send the pics? So excited for you! Such a cute pup.

@MichT4 omg that puppy is adorable! I’m sure it will all be fine! Enjoy tmr and the dinner tonight though I know you don’t want to drag yourself there haha
I’ve just dragged myself out for a run
@SmileyT I’m not sure how much it will be privately but I can def let you know. Up until now I’ve still been covered by my private health insurance so once pregnant and I see him I will find out how expensive it will be. I think his charge out rate is £250 per appointment but that is without bloods scans etc but will keep you posted
Hoping for many more BFPs this august ladies! And for those who have their BFPs wishing them very healthy pregnancies you lovely strong ladies! Xxx

Evening all,

@2020wish I'm so so glad everything is well with your little bean!! How wonderful❤️

@Northernsoul90 omg my replies to you have changed like three times 😂😂 first, hopeful for a test, then potentially af and a sorry message then hopeful again, haha. Yes I would test tomorrow 👀👀.

Completely agree with you with MC follow up, after I had my confirmation of the retained tissue I actually didnt go back for further treatment because I knew I'd passed it they never contacted me again! Crazy. You'd think they check on you.

@Pugprincess I hope you are feeling better now hun

@Firevie your doc sounds amazing! I'm glad you got all thar reassurance. Hopefully you did fall pg this cycle🤞🥰

@MichT4 well we didn't find anything with the dog that we could have with dates that worked for us but we might have a re-look for October again. I really want to get on a plane though 😭

I'm okay, done another opk just now and it's so f*cking blank that it's giving me rage now. At least in previous months I've had some hint of a line, what a shitter.

I'm "WFH" now for a week so, I can sulk at home 😂

I bet if you'd done an oral temp it would have been super high. I'm going with my cool skin theory. Silly Ava.

Hope you have a great evening for your dad's 60th 😘

@Scrambledeggy I'm the worst for throwing away fresh meat that has expired. I overestimate what we will need, never learn. Have a good cry and get it out of your system.

@SmileyT honestly one social event a month wipes me out and I'm not preggers haha, kudos to you but get some rest time in for sure. First trimester is tough because not alot of people know you're PG but you feel so rough!!
When I get pregnant (PMA😂) I'll be bankrupting myself with private scans too don't worry haha. Do they do a package deal at UD?

@DBTJ good luck with your scan tomorrow 😘

@MrsK21 I'm glad you are feeling okay, yeah we need to try and not worry as much as possible even though it is so much easier said than done.

Wow, I didn't even know that could happen, I'm happy that it wasn't a cyst though and it is something that can be dealt with quickly. This gives you hope for your next cycle and gets you out of limbo 🥰

@Diorissimo1985 I understand how easy it is to get caught up. Glad you are okay and have possibly ovulated. I'm not bad on CD15 and nothing on OPKs 😔. Just getting on with it! Xx

@Rainbowhope11 I hope you are okay lovely? Xx

So update I really don't know what's going on, no full flow blood I'm just getting bits of brown when I wipe and tiny bits on my pad with some really small black/brown stringy type bits (like a clot i suppose but not as big as). I never normally spot before af and usually just come on full flow. I did a test a couple of hours ago as I was confused and that was negative - I have drank a lot today so urine could have been diluted but I'm not holding out much hope for a bfp. I'm going to ring the doctors in the morning - I will retest but I don't think I'm pregnant. I just don't understand I expected my period to be really heavy seen as though I haven't had one for 9 weeks so now I'm quite worried and upset 😔. I was all for trying to have a pma a few hours ago but that was when I thought af was coming in full force - I don't have a clue what this is. It's made me feel worse because I've just seen my sister who is due in couple of weeks and it all got a bit much talking about the new baby - I bawled my eyes out on the way home. This ttc journey is getting a bit much, cd 59 and I just feel fed up with it all. Sorry for the rant ladies but I know you'll understand x

@VP91x Sorry haha it's been very up and down today 😂. That's so annoying about your opks!! Hope you are okay! Xx

@MichT4 so I've just started watching mafsa and on the second episode. When he says is that your nana, ummm that's my mum 😂😂😂😂 omg how awkward xx

@Northernsoul90 so my first period started the same, the first 2 days it was very light and just some slight spotting but on day 3 it became very painful and heavy. Not saying yours will be the same but you may find it does start the same. Fingers crossed you get some kind of answer ASAP xx

@Lollol86 Thank you for that! Me too I just want to know what's happening.

The only other possibility is if I ovulated later than I thought when I had some cramping which would mean I'm actually 6dpo and not 13 like I thought. If that's the case it could be implantation related but I think that's clutching at straws. I got a static smiley on cb and ovulation type pains for 2 days on and off so stopped doing opks (I've not been temping so ovulation wasn't confirmed) I then got the same ovulation type pains a week later so thought if I hadn't actually ovulated when I got the static that could have been it. I suppose I'll just have to wait and see what happens xx

@Northernsoul90 I really feel for you. This journey is hard enough but having your cycle so messed up is just so unfair xx

Hello everyone. I really need some encouragement. I am 13 dpo. No sign of a period. I have been trying to conceive for 6 months and using fertility drugs. I know I need to take a test but I am too scared!

Wow I've a lot to catch up on for 1 day! @@2020wish congrats!! So happy all is well! Heres to a healthy pregnancy ❤

@2020wish I'm so bloody over the moon for you. I feel like I've been on this journey with you and I've wished so so much for this for you. What an amazing day. I hope you're enjoying every minute of seeing your little flickering bean.

@Northernsoul90 I'm sorry you're getting teased like this. I hope you get some answers soon

@MichT4 are you going to test soon? I have my fingers and toes crossed for you

@Firevie such positive news! What a great doctor!

@2020wish also I've just realised how rude 'flickering bean' sounds, I just meant with the heartbeat! 😂

@chloedancer897 omg 🤣🤣

@Lollol86 I swear to god I read it back and was like 'wtf have I just written!?' Bloody DTD on the brain 😂😂😂😂

@Lollol86 I know! What a stupid thing to say 😂😂 many cringe moments to come!

@chloedancer897 😂😂😂 flickering bean. Love it. I'm not going to test until just before my holiday, a week today probs. Unless AF comes before then of course.

How are you?

@VP91x I want to get on a plane too! What is with these blinkin OPKs. Maybe your lines have bled onto mine! Plenty of OPK related sulks this month all round!

@Northernsoul90 sorry you're going through it this month. Maybe because it's been a while since you bled, there is some old blood coming out first. It might have build up a fair bit hence the clots. Hopefully if it is AF you'll get full flow soon

xx

@VP91x and yes I'll agree oral temps would be sky high. Bloody Ava and her stupid skin temps. I'll just make my own temps in future 😂

@chloedancer897 are you preparing for DTD tonight? I just said to DH shall we DTD tonight just for fun and he got really confused lol

@MichT4 let’s test together - I will test early next Friday 14th august

@VP91x hope you’re well and had a good day at the office today.

Xx

@Firevie I might have to do Thursday because I'm hoping that if I'm lucky and get a bfp, I can beg for progesterone before I go away. I'm convinced that's part of the problem so I'm hoping they give it if I get a bfp.
I'm trying so hard to be positive but I'm ready for it not to be this month. Can't decide whether to keep my head in the clouds or stay grounded xx

@2020wish what a beautiful photo 😍 little bean is ready for growth ! I'm so happy for you and your family ❤️ enjoy this special moment dear

I'm also loving photos of doggies here 🥰 such cuties

I'm having issues with keeping up to date. I try to capture some messages. So forgive me ladies

@Firevie I think I'm
Going to text next Friday, I will be 12 dpo then, I have a massage Saturday so want to check i am/not pregnant before then as she can only use certain oils with pregnancy xx

@MichT4 I like to know if AF is coming so I like to test on 11-12DPO just to prepare myself. Actually waiting for AF is traumatising for me. I hate being out of control. Good for you not being stressed about it. That's the way to be!

@Firevie DTD outside of FW? Not a chance!😂😂😂

@MichT4 ok cool will keep my fingers crossed for you on Thursday.
@Lollol86 yay let’s do it together on Friday. I will be 13dpo. Ladies potentially many more BFPS over the next few days. Fingers crossed! Let’s all stay positive and celebrate our bodies rather than complaining about it
Xxx

@chloedancer897 I'm torn, I think I like AF to come so I don't have the disappointment. I actually really don't want to test next week but I think it's the sensible option with being away xx