TTC after MC - July/August 2020 (Thread 8)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,

Sorry if I still don't have your testing/AF date on here xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@2020wish
@Rebecca1992

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@fafi -
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@MrsK21
@Hayley19835

Xx

@Rb486 fingers crossed for tomorrow! Do u know the sensitivity of those ones u used?

@Rb486 fingers crossed for your test tomorrow morning! 🤞

@Mommybear05 ah I'm sorry your spotting and turned red, hopefully that's the end of it and you are still in with a chance. Is it worth you calling the GP tomorrow to see if there are any hormone tests they can do at this point in your cycle? Xx

@Wishingfornumber2 we are debating it at the moment, possibly yes. Not sure how the bonding process would go down though.

@Northernsoul90 I know so weird isn't it.
@MrsK21 I'm glad you are feeling a little less stressed about everything. It won't be long until you get some more clarification from your consultant ❤️

@MichT4 yay that they are getting darker again. Sounds like you had a nice evening? Xx

@MichT4 I know! Snuck in a quickie as soon as I got the static anyway so I'm hoping I'm covered 😂😂 glad yours are going up! Fingers crossed for you xo

@Rb486 I feel like I can see a line but best to try with FMU and a first response. Fingers crossed! I love how we all promise we aren't going to test early and we all cave! That damned TWW is the worst!

@VP91x yeah was really nice. Just a distraction from everything, including the fact I wasn't peeing or drinking 😂. I've known her for years and met her at the gym and we've always got a lot to talk about! Sort of made me feel like me again, if you know what I mean. TTC is such a big and important part of my life at the moment but every now and again it's nice to remember there are other things!
How was your evening?

@SmileyT how are you Hun?

@Rb486 I think I can see something on your picture 🤞🏼 hopefully tomorrow morning will give a clearer answer xx

@chloedancer897 did you do smep this month?

@chloedancer897 well OH not long in from work and I'm sure he's shattered but I've told him it's on tonight, can't miss a possible darkening of the OPK 🤞🏼
Fingers crossed for you too. We are due some more BFPs! I feel like there are a few looming xx

@Rb486 I think I can see a very faint shadow, fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼 definitely retest in the morning xx

@Lollol86 yes and no, I DTD CD 8,10,11,12,13 and today, so technically we did it too much! Lol last month I did SMEP and we ended up having an argument about it because my OH felt so stressed at all the organised sex lol so we really just did it when we felt like it

@MichT4 massive TMI but I watched a video and it said the best position for TTC was doggy style so once OH knew that, he didn't care whether I was ovulating or not, he was happy enough to oblige 😂😂😂

@MichT4 yeah completely get that, tomorrow evening we are going to my best friends house for dinner and that'll be lovely. We need these distractions to have a chat and be normal away from TTC. Enjoy your 🍆💦 😂 xx

@VP91x yeah I agree. Though I actually felt bad writing that first time as I genuinely love talking to you all. Just wish it was about pregnancy for us all now!
How lovely having a dinner date. Is Bella going with you or do you have someone to look after her? It's our staycation this Saturday and I can't wait!!

@chloedancer897 ahh OH will be pleased with that 😂. And while you think it's too much, it's better that it's worked out that way because you both wanted to. I don't think there's such a thing as too much if you actually want to do it. We often find ourselves doing every night for a run, but never because it's forced (yet!). Thought I might have got pissy if he'd said no tonight, just lucky he's up for it. And if I tell him I had a peak I think he'd happily oblige xx

@MichT4 you don't need to feel bad! Yeah, she is coming with us. That'll be so nice and the weather is going to be fab!! Xx

@Rb486 @Wishingfornumber2 so rb486 we are in exactly the same boat! Keep testing with those cheapies to see if you have any progression. I was very tempted to test today but I discussed with my hubby and we decided to wait as we feel if I test and it’s negative I may not believe it and just say oh it’s cos I tested too early. If it’s positive I feel it will just make me a nervous wreck at this stage with it being before af due and all this spotting I’ve had so, tough as it is, I’m going to try to wait. This has been the hardest 2ww so far (it gets harder every month??) Ovia tells me to test in two days. Apparently period due on Tuesday so I could wait until I’m actually late. But I doubt I’ll be able to wait that long. I’ll probably end up testing sooner than later anyway 🙈 I have just the one frer in my cupboard. It was a pack of two and I used the other when I was symptom spotting and obviously it was all in my head and over nothing ☹️ That was a couple of months ago and I vowed to use this other if my period is actually late. We will see!

@VP91x you know I’m not even sure what they would do if I called them now regards testing. I think I’ll just wait and see what happens within the next week and then I’ll have my answer- either positive test or af and real concerns with what the heck is going on with this bleeding! You google the bleeding between periods stuff and it just gives you a list: implantation bleeding (not that as I never get late or my bfp), birth control (not on that), menopause (not yet I hope I’m 30), stds (none here!), ovulation (no I tested and it was cd15) and all the rest is just various illnesses. So I just don’t know! If this cd22 bleeding isn’t implantation then yes I want to see what’s going on for sure!! How are you? Xxx

@MichT4 that's what we are doing every other, we are following SMEP this month but not sure if he will manage the 3 days in a row. Last month we had sex too many days in a row and he was empty 😂😂

@Rb486 I’m sure I can see a faint line too, good luck with the fmu 🤞🏻

@Lollol86 that's the problem too! Apparently you are meant to have little breaks to get the swimmers regrouped so I don't understand why it tells you to DTD so often!

@VP91x yeah it should be lovely. And I really hope this group continues to evolve and we keep talking. I feel like I've made a wonderful group of friends here 🥰

@Lollol86 😂 exactly that! And when you don't know when ovulation is coming, you end up wearing them out early doors 🙄. I hope the next peak is real otherwise he'll be wiped out! This month it's been 2 in a row max but no more than a day between, if that's makes sense. I want his best sperm waiting, but also don't want to miss the best days. A ridiculous amount of thinking going into this! 😂 xx

@chloedancer897 definitely need to tome to build back up.

@MichT4 I literally have no idea when I'm going to ovulate so just going every other just incase, don't want to miss it. Dh certainly isn't complaining 😂 I'm not sure I could last as long as you have though 😂 xx

@chloedancer897 that should say time to build back up 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Rb486 I saw a faint line! I have everything crossed for you! Hoping that it turns into a positive for you tomorrow Xx

@Rb486 good luck with your test this morning 🥰

@Mommybear05 I know what you mean, I feel like any bleeding post ovu google is like implantation!😂 Which is not reassuring when you're googling at 3am trying not to symptom spot. I hope it is a BFP for you. I'm okay, just plodding along, CD9 now. Nothing interesting happening here. X

@MichT4 I completely agree! 🥰 Any temp changes? How are you this morning? Xx

@Rb486 I can see the line ! Looks very promising 😊

@VP91x yeah my temp is going up again. Here's my chart 🤔 if I was reading OPKs without the app I'd have said yesterday was peak, but again I've been here before and temp crashes down, so 🤷🏻‍♀️
How are you this morning? Going to be a scorcher!

@Rb486 good luck today 🤞🏼

xx

@VP91x the temp still isn't as high as last month though. Ava changed ovulation to today, so will be interesting to see what happens over the coming days xx

Morning ladies! I need some advice. The apps are confusing. I accidentally deleted my premom app this morning - so annoying. Downloaded again and input all the data other than one ovulation test I had done last week which I didn’t have a photo of. That ovulation test showed low and 0.63 TC ratio. I then did an OPS this morning - high 1.85. But the premom app still shows that my fertile window and peak ovulation is 10 days away?? I’m confused - should I be doing OPS every morning for next ten days to see if a pattern develops? It’s my first time using these and first time tracking since my MC two weeks ago. X