TTC after MC - July/August 2020 (Thread 8)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,

Sorry if I still don't have your testing/AF date on here xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@2020wish
@Rebecca1992

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@fafi -
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@MrsK21
@Hayley19835

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@MichT4 you'll definitely be covered 👌 haha well, apparently CB digi say not to use them if you have PCOS so that's a crapload of money wasted. Bastard things.

@Tink20058 oh no, did you get checked? I'm doing okay! Hopefully get things sorted soon xx

@chloedancer897 you have inspired me 👌🏻 Going to blend them into smoothies I think xxx

@MichT4 I hope this is ovulation for you 🤞🏼I think you will definitely still be covered!! Even though I've had a peak I'm going to try and still dtd every other day to cover all bases hopefully xx

@Pugprincess you can't even taste them in the smoothie and it keeps you going! I've replaced my morning coffee with the smoothies and handling it quite well 😂😂 enjoy!x

That's crazy @MichT4! But makes me happy to see too, surely this must be it!! You definitely deserve a reward!

@Cici89 hi! I also conceived in the cycle directly after my MC in May. I will say that it doesn't take away the pain of the loss, which I think is what I was expecting. However it does give you something positive to focus on. I know im very fortunate!. Wishing you all the best! And so very sorry for what you are going through ❤❤

@VP91x I've been thinking of you so much. Definitely take your time to come to terms with everything . It's a lot to deal with! And I've had my fair share of days crying into my pillow about it all. But I also try remember that not everything you read online will apply to you.. there is a spectrum with PCOS and it's easy to focus on the bad stuff which is sometimes only seen in extreme cases. The reality is usually better than the majority of what you read. The positive is, you have come into it already knowing you can get pregnant (though it sucks that it's trickier than it should be!!) and so you have something to work with 💓 I have so much faith that things will work out for you! But definitely dont feel bad for grieving a little bit!! Sending hugs!

@1990EM thank you so much for your message and thinking of me. It means so much ❤️

Yes, I really need to keep focusing on the positives! I think it has been more the realisation of why things have happened. Like, putting on weight easily but struggling to get rid. Signs like that, obviously when you don't notice them all at once or aren't thinking about your cycles you'd never think. Luckily I do get a period every month, even if they are irregular at the moment and as you said I've fallen pregnant. How are you getting on? Xx

Hi ladies not been on in a while and there has been so much to catch up on. I can't believe we are onto another new thread!

@VP91x thank you for the new thread and also really sorry to hear you have been diagnosed with PCOS please take good care of yourself and good luck at your doctors appointment tomorrow.

@Renna sorry you were in such limbo with af but I'm glad she has came now and you can make a fresh start this cycle.

@Hayleylou89 I'm glad to hear you getting all the treatment that is required for you and baby.

For those that have recently got their bfps congratulations and for those that are pregnant hope things are going well.

Sorry to those that have joined the group I hope you find it very supportive.

I'm currently up visiting my FIL and Step MIL in the Isle of Lewis with my daughter and niece. It has been so nice just to get away from everything but I'm also chomping at the bit to get home now as I'm feeling rather horny lol.
I'm on cycle day 8 so I'm heading into fertile week soon. My af was a bit weird this cycle I had 6 days of spotting then 1 day of super light af then 1 day of medium flow then that was it. Anyway not going to worry about it.

Hope everyone is having a lovely Sunday xx

@HE88 thank you 🥰 haha, at least you'll be definitely up for it during fertile week 🍆💦💦 and OH will be pleased you are back I'm sure 😏. Are you tracking ovu this month?

Sounds like a lovely break away!! Xx

@VP91x hubby is here too missed him out when I commented on who I was here with lol. Just don't feel right dtd in FIL and MIL's house ha ha.
No I'm not going to track, I didn't last month either. Xx

@HE88 haha, yeah I can understand why you wouldn't want to. Fingers crossed for you this cycle 🤞xx

Hi ladies, hope your all well, I’ve been putting my phone down a lot more often these days. Avoiding social media etc.
@VP91x so sorry to hear of your diagnosis of PSOS. Are you on Instagram? There’s lots of women on there that share their experiences of ttc with psos, that may be helpful? I’ve started following others who have experienced Miscarriages it’s a very supportive community x

Congratulations to those who have had their bfp!

I’ve finally got a bfn- a month after my first scam 😩 We’ve decided we’re not going to start ttc For a few months and wait for the results to come back first. I’ve also emailed my GP to enquire about counselling as I’m really struggling this time. I feel like I’m putting my life on hold while waiting to get pregnant. I wanted to book to go away next year in July but am too scared to, just incase I get pregnant and I don’t really want to wait much longer than we have to either. Not going to track for the next two months either trying to take my mind off it all. Anyway....
How is everyone? Anyone going away for the summer? Xxx

@VP91x yeah but think of how much joy they've bought you........😳

@Northernsoul90 @1990EM thank you ladies, I really hope this is it now. Need to DTD today but wanted to shout at OH earlier when he broke my goddam washing line! I thought better of it, not sure I could seduce him after screeching at him 😂😂

Hey @Sallyjo27
I'm sure a little break will be just what you need. I know what you mean about not booking anything in case. Life really does get put on hold - really trying not to do that now.
We are off to the lakes for a week in August. A nice chance to switch off, given there's barely any signal either! Lovely.
Are you going anywhere? xx

@Sallyjo27 hey lovely, so nice to hear from you. Im sorry it has taken so long to get a negative test 😔. It's good that you have both taken the right decision for you with TTC. It is so consuming, you don't want to put everything on hold.

Yes, I am on IG didn't think of seeking out accounts on there. I will have a look! Not planning to go away in August as our dog should be arriving but have little days out booked to chessington/legoland etc! Are you doing anything? Xx

@MichT4 literally should have spent the £100s on lottery tickets 😂 probably better odds of winning than getting a static smiley.
Haha, I always have to bite my tongue on FW if my OH has done something annoying because I cba to apologise and try to make up 😂😂 xx

@HE88 Sounds like you had a nice break! Fingers crossed for you this time 🤞🏼 xx

@Sallyjo27 Hello! Glad you finally got your negative! I know what you mean about putting your life on hold, I was going for months of not drinking, not booking anything etc and it was just depressing. I think sometimes we just need to take some time away from focusing on it so much and live in the moment. Xx

@MichT4 @VP91x Yes got to try and keep the lead in FW, I do the same and bit my tongue 😂I've just had to seduce DH who was really tired and half falling asleep 🤣. I know technically my fertile window has gone now but I want to keep up with regular dtd just in case I didn't actually ovulate when I got my static

@MichT4 @VP91x Stupid autocorrect that was supposed to say keep the peace not lead and bite my tongue not bit 🤦🏽‍♀️

Evening all, hope you have all had a good day? Just updating as did my evening opk and got my static smiley now 😁 defo one in tonight and TMZ morn I think before hubby goes work. I’m actually going to school tomorrow to help clear some stuff out a classroom. Be nice to see people again and get that first seeing them since the mc out the way so it’s less scary in August when school opens xx

@Pugprincess so glad you got your smiley, get DTD 😁

@Pugprincess Yes! Get dtd! so glad you didn't have to wait for too long xx

@Pugprincess ahh fab that you got your static!! Fingers crossed for this month🤞xx

@Northernsoul90 😂😂 honestly, if they knew what we were up to half the time. X

Thanks everyone!!! Yes we got it in hehe. Early alarms set for TMZ morn too lol so will try then too. I’m suspecting tomorrow night might be too late but worth a shot. I’m assuming if I test tomorrow night the peak will be gone? X

Thanks @VP91x and @Northernsoul90 I'm just not going to think too much about this month.

@Pugprincess yay to your static. It will stay like that for 48hours so you won't be able to test tomorrow night.

@HE88 ah thanks saves me wasting a test 😅