13 lucky for some? No...cos our bodies are f**k boys 🤪

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24 BFPs in June 🥳

7 BFPs so far in July 🥳
@dipsy77 - 3rd July
@cocoblue22 - July 6th
@smileyT - July 8th
@littleRa - July 10th
@noble89 - July 12th
@mococo1 - July 20th
@zippityzip - July 20th

Testing dates 🤞 🤞 🤞

@hannah88j - July 22nd
@lara87 - July 22nd
@busybee143 - July 23rd
@vea1601 - July 24th
@butterfly134 - July 24th
@LV1987 - July 25th
@boc86 - July 27th
@DKDK123 - July 29th
@notyetamumbuttrying - July 29th
@amy00 - July 31st
@vil10 - August 2nd
@ltay2 - August 4th
@blodyn91 - August 4th
@juno231 - August 4th
@clairey844 - August 5th
@2020mission - August 8th
@tofu35 - August 8th
@franklydear - August 8th
@2020mission - August 9th
@2alreadywantinganother - August 11th
@clolo - August 15th

Not added anyone that I don’t have dates for and haven’t added the naughty girls at the back but you know who you are 😉

@lucyrp I'd also argue that if you hadn't DTD'd for a few weeks he could have just been out of that frame of mind! I find the more regularly I have it the more I want it whereas after a couple of weeks of no DTD it starts fading. I know men are different but maybe he just needed to readjust :)

Just checked my femometer and it hasn't confirmed ovulation via BBT! It tells my I've had no biphasic shift and that ovulation can't be detected via temps. Thing is it also says I'd need three temps in higher than the previous 6 and I do have that, so not sure whether to believe it over FF or vice versa. Luckily I'm having my day 21 test next Monday (on day 25 lol) so that will tell me if I did ovulate or not.

@Minster2012 😂🤣 turkey basters and xvideos! Yeah I guess into a little sample pot, gonna get that sample daily from cd12 I care not for his feelings 🍯😏 and we can dtd once maybe twice around that lol.
What's going on with your ivf?

@Juno231 yeah actually I'm the same really I wasn't really wanting sex but I felt like we needed to as hadn't had it for so long and couldn't let the gap get any longer!!

If it was just sex @lucyrp then that's even better, I think no BBT & the clear blues are a good combo & we need a new film to watch then maybe? We still haven't watched normal ppl so I'm gonna watch that even if we have to use condoms now 😂

@Missgoldilocks does he know about the pots/syringes yet?! Daily samples, you go girl, and good time with practice in for you from CD12 cod I can imagine it's not the easiest (there MUST be you tube videos for turkey basting right?!!)
I'm just here plodding now til CD21 then we get dates, especially having just paid our first £1635 bill FFS.

@Juno231 that's weird, pleased you are getting your bloods tho 🤞🏻

@Minster2012 yeah we need a new film for definite for FW!! Any suggestions anyone ?? I love normal people you will definitely cry! I can't wait to be ovulating and be a horny bitch😂

@lucyrp same 😆 can't wait for horny week!! I'm cd19 so it's taking ages this cycle!

@Juno231same, the more I have it the more I want it. We went a couple months without at one point and I didn't even care 🙈

Ladies just any advice if you have some!
I’m yet to have any bleeding since coil removal on 2nd July. Nothing not even withdrawal bleed.
According to bbt and opks I ovulated on 19th July. Would you expect that I would have AF by Sunday (14dpo?) or could it be longer? I’m testing at the weekend but how long can a luteal phase be?

@LaceyMermaid it could be anything from 11-17 days but most women it's 12-14 days x just remember go easy on yourself as it's the first month off the coil so might take your body this month to get back into it! Have u charted temp or done OPKS for ovulation? X

@lucyrp & @SarahTTC2020 bring on FW for you ladies then and turn you into 👿😈bitches!!

@LaceyMermaid im unsure tbh but it's likely the coil removal that's making the f*ck boy element! But everything crossed for the weekend 🤞🏻

@Minster2012 it certainly is the bastard! That and me being old 🤣

@Mococo1 yep been doing bbt and opks and Femometer confirmed ovulation on 19th so hoping it’s right and at least I’m ovulating again (had no periods on coil at all). I know I need to chill out and let my body go back tomorrow coil but I’m old and time is not my friend!

Those that have been using fertility friend and recording their resting heart rate. Are you paying for the extras? Or is this included in the free bit?

@JustMouse I think I had it's a VIP thing.

@lucyrp I knew he'd come round and then come begging! They're so predictable 😂
@JustMouse ooh I bet you can't wait for the weekend now! Do keep us posted 🤞🏾
@LaceyMermaid I'd say Sunday as 14 days is the norm for LP usually. Be amazing if you fell first month!!

@notyetamumbuttrying at this point I think I’d be happy to get a period just to know I’m in working order! 🤣

@notyetamumbuttrying

I will do. Its about a two and half hour drive home, i'm wondering if AF doesn't show up, if I can do the clear blue test when I get in or if I should wait for first morning wee on Saturday - its the only test in the house!

@Minster2012 can't wait 😈😈😈

@notyetamumbuttrying so funny isn't it ! Luna was being a right cock block after our tea last night 😭 we were lay on the sofa watching tv and cuddling and then OH was playing with his dick and like flopping it out the side of his shorts but Luna was cuddled up in between us so I couldn't reach over as didn't want to squash her and she was sleeping 😭so we went up to bed 🙈😂

@Minster2012 I'm absolutely winging it and just gonna stick it up there and leave the syringe in for 20 minutes legs in the air (I hear this is the best way) Iean I tried putting the cup up there before to hold it up but we all know what happened with that getting stuck up me so I'm not so keen for a second round of that.
He knows, I told him I don't want any moaning best get to it soldier. Stand by your bed!!

When do you hit cd21? I bet you can't wait! My sister is in a similar boat of waiting and quite frustrated by it

Just booked in for my CD21 bloods on the actual correct day so hopefully il see that I have ovulated 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

@JustMouse if you only have one test I'd def do FMU or you might then be left wondering "but what if"

@lucyrp cock blocking Luna! Next time move her & tell him he can stroke your pussy instead 🤭

@Missgoldilocks yeah this is so frustrating now, CD7 so another 2 weeks and start taking northisterone again...I haven't even tried to work out the dates of when things could then happen as last time my body didn't play ball so just gonna wait! Love that you told him what for...sell if you aren't gonna stick it up me 🤪don't forget some cycling legs too, might as well exercise with benefits right??

@lucyrp welcome to the world of cock blocking furry friends! We haven't dtd downstairs since our dog arrived 3 years ago 🙈

Also Shreddies can't be anything but the original Shreddies right @Ltay2, sorry @Minster2012 its the only thing I'm a snob about 🤭

also I find this forum so educational! I had no idea what IVF actually entailed before. Its great that its actually available to help so many couples, but definitely a shame that only one try is free.

sorry tripple comment @Juno231 took till 4dpo for femometer to give me an Ovulation day, which is 2 days before FF. So even these apps can't make their minds up with opk and bbt to help

@blodyn91 omg 🙈 at least with a cat I can kind of put her where I want or shut the door to a certain room more or less 😂

Hi girlies! I'm not properly caught up so hope everyone is doing ok but just want to ask for some recommendations on a non ttc purchase 😂 following on from the exercise chat yesterday, I want to treat myself to some nice sportswear. Any suggestions for good, supportive leggings? Need petite fit or cropped stylel

@blodyn91 oh yes I forgot your FF/Femo charts didn't line up! Please show us an updated one for interest's sake?

@lucyrp bear in mind CD21 is meant to be 6-8DPO so if you're tracking with OPKs maybe adjust it accordingly? My GP wanted me to do that, which is lucky as she'd originally scheduled me in on a date that ended up being 1DPO cause I ovulated late. That would have shown up as anovulatory regardless of if I'd ovulated I think as it takes several days for progesterone to increase.