TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

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Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

Thank you @MichT4 xxx

@MichT4 how are you today?

@SmileyT congratulations! So pleased for you, knew this would be your month - everything was pointing in the right directions! Good luck with your sticky bean and please stick around! It's lovely having you on the group xxx

@SmileyT how long after your miscarriage has it taken to fall pregnant? X

@Tink20058 that's exciting. How many scans have you had? Did you have an early one?

@Northernsoul90 I am fine thank you. The spotting appears to have stopped 🤞🤞, so now I am just building nerves to test again on Friday. Am fearful at the thought it will be BFN but keeping my hopes high that it's stuck in there 🤞

How are you? xx

@MichT4 SO pleased to hear your spotting has eased. Hopefully you feel better about everything! Here's to a lovely strong test on Friday and you can relax a bit more at the weekend!

Congratulations @SmileyT so happy for your BFP!!!! Wishing you a nice easy pregnancy 😊

@fafi thank you. Yes I feel better, just anxious for Friday now - there's always something. If that shows positive and there are no other signs, I just have to work out a way to relax and enjoy it.

How are you? x

@MichT4 I am fine thank you! Aww I am sure you will! But I imagine it will come with time xx

I had a static smiley on Friday so likely to have ovulated Saturday, the last 3 nights I’ve felt really sick, it’s too early to be pregnant isn’t it? I’m just trying to put 2 and 2 together and probably making 10 😂😂

@MichT4 Glad you feeling okay. 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 For Friday! X

I’ve just got back from EPU they just did a blood test. I asked for a scan but they wouldn’t do one, I was in and out within 5 minutes. Will get a call tonight with the results - I know I still have hcg in my system as I did another test this morning I’m just hoping its gone down significantly. I also asked if I will get results from the testing they did on the pregnancy tissue after my mva, the nurse said it’s highly unlikely to come back with anything other than a confirmation of pregnancy tissue but I can ring in a couple of weeks anyway to check.

@Lollol86 I think implantation normally happens about a week after fertilisation average is 6-8 days if I remember rightly so hcg wouldn’t start building until implantation. Could be other hormones rising though I’m not sure? I hope it’s your month and you get your bfp 🤞🏼🙏🏼 X

@Northernsoul90 sorry they didn't scan you. Did you ask all your questions? Did they indicate if you might ovulate with the PG tests the way they are?

@Lollol86 I agree with what @Northernsoul90 says - it'll be too early to have fertilised yet. I'm no expert on any of this though - feel like a bad female to not understand more. Fingers crossed it's a sign of things to come though xx

Hi all. I'm joining you again... Had a MC in May then caught again in June, should be 7 weeks tomorrow but bleeding started Sunday and isn't showing signs of stopping so MC number 2 it is 🙄 xx

@IWM20 aww I am so sorry to hear that! Is it like AF bleeding?

@SmileyT yay!!!! I'm so happy for you!

@fafi it's like spotting but that's what happened last time I had a MC too. This time I have belly ache.. Not cramps just a funny sort of feeling that's hard to explain that I didn't have last time. I'm just so so fed up. Thought the first time was just bad luck. I know they say 2 can still be fine and you can go on to have a healthy pregnancy but I thought this was going to be that time. I can't believe it's happening again. And I can't believe it's got to happen another time before it's looked into. We were so lucky to conceive straight away and I'm already worrying that I probably won't be so lucky again. I'm more angry than upset this time round. I just want to happen now in full swing and be over 😔

@IWM20 sorry to hear about your spotting. What colour is it? I have had some spotting too, and am holding onto hope that it's just unfortunate. Time will tell I guess, but maybe too early to give up hope?
I totally know what you mean with wanting to know either way, and also for feeling peed off it's happened again - it's so unfair to happen once, but to happen again is shite.
Have you called EPU or your GP?

@Tink20058 ahh so glad you are feeling well and the next scan is so soon 🙏 then you get to the fun less panic stricken part x

Thanks @mrsssk being sick was definitely enough to make me order my first FRERs but still didn't believe it could happen for me x

@Lollol86 I had surgery for the MMC March 19th so this is 4th cycle including the one straight after. Also anything unusual is a great sign after ovulation I think👌🏾

@elliew818 @chloedancer897 thank you and really hope it happens for both of you soon xx

@Northernsoul90 annoying they wouldn't do the scan but at least you get results today and hopefully they show that hcg is below 5 and you can start looking to the future again x

@IWM20 ahh I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through again, have you spoken to the EPU near you for any support? xx

@SmileyT huge congratulations 💕🌈 best wishes for a happy healthy 9 months xx

Ladies I've changed my username as my last one (mrsssk) just didn't look too user friendly to me

@IWM20 so sorry to hear you've got bleeding again. Would you be able to be seen at EPU? I was only 5+3 when my bleeding started and they managed to see me x

@Northernsoul90 that's a shame they didn't scan you but hopefully the blood tests shows you're hcg continuing to drop. Are you feeling any different to previous days / ovulation signs?
I had the tiniest bit of blood in CM when checking my cervix position last night. Unsure if that means AF might be coming though 🤷🏽‍♀️

@MichT4 @SmileyT it's mostly bright red, started off as pink then brown CM which I wasn't too worried about then seems to have progressed to red when wiping (sorry TMI) and comes and goes but it's been like that since Sunday now which is worrying. I called my GP and they tested for a UTI but it was clear and they referred me to the EPU on Monday but they can't see me until next Monday... I think it's the waiting that's making me lose my mind more. I'm so scared to go to the toilet because I don't want to keep seeing it. At least if I know then I can start to accept it and welcome the bleeding as a way of recovering from the MC and can start to pick myself up again. I have managed to book a private scan for this afternoon. It's a 2 hour drive each way from me but I really can't go on like this. It will be heartbreaking hearing it but until I do I'll keep making excuses for what it could be when I think I know deep down what's happening 😔

@IWM20 oh I'm sorry to hear you explain all of that. I do know how you feel. The last few days I have kept wanting to go to check it and hope that it's gone. Then I was so gutted when it kept showing. Waiting is so hard isn't it, and knowing is definitely the first step so I completely understand you booking the private scan. What time is it?
I will remain hopeful that it's something else, but either way we are here for you xx

I thought it was too early and I’m just clutching at straws to be honest. I’m having some sharp lower pains this morning though so hopefully something is happening

@SmileyT OMG!!!! Yayyyy!! Congrats!!! Such strong lines!!! Over the moon for u!!

Think over either got my peak over night or am due to get it today. She did you all start drinking Pom juice?