@LisaSimpsonsbff thank you for sharing your experiences and I’m so sorry for your losses also. It’s true that the very early losses aren’t given as much thought as later ones, when to the person/couple ttc absolutely any loss is utterly heartbreaking.
So after your tests showed no obvious issues, they were still happy to prescribe you the progesterone and aspirin? Suggesting that taking the aspirin if you might not have needed it, wasn’t likely to cause any problems? If that’s the case it sounds like it’s something I could consider starting to take before having any tests done.
Sending you all the luck and sticky baby dust to you again. Congratulations on your pregnancy, I hope soon I can be where you are again 😊
@LosingtheTTCplot I’m so so sorry to hear you’re currently going through a loss and having to await treatment to manage it fully. I’m semi thankful that when I mc at 9 weeks everything passed naturally and I didn’t need any hospital intervention. I just cocooned myself at home and didn’t see anyone or go out for weeks.
I do wonder if because only my mc went through the EPU, and not either of my cp, whether they will refer me. After my first chemical I did try to ask for bloods etc, just so there was some official record of it, but the doctor said she’d spoken with the EPU who had agreed there was no need. So I guess only time will tell now with that.
I’m glad you’ve mentioned the ubiquinol though, I know it will take a while to build up in my system, but if that’s what will work for me then I’d be happy to wait a little longer for better quality eggs.
It sounds like at least they’re offering you the right sort of tests and are looking into things further for you, which can only be a good thing and will hopefully rule out any concerns.
I hope you look after yourself following your d&c, and I hope you go on to get your sticky bfp as soon as possible. Good luck with all your tests etc too.
@Semele5069 I’m hoping you’re right, and that the simple tests won’t be refused based on the fact I already have children. I’m not looking to go down the route of fertility treatment etc, so if it’s discovered that I cannot do this naturally then we will accept that. I would however hope they’d help with prescribing progesterone if it’s shown that that is an issue though. So fingers crossed.
I’ve not read any of the fertility, ttc books. Maybe I should though as I’ve heard lots of ladies on here talk about those books.
I do know which doctor I’m seeing, I specifically requested an appointment with her, hence having to wait until next week as she’s pretty popular. I believe she is the ‘women’s problems’ person to see. I think she specialises in gynaecology and family planning so I’m hoping she will be helpful. If she’s not then I’m not sure who else there would be willing to help so I’m sort of pinning all my hopes on her being understanding. I’ve seen her before for non pregnancy or fertility related issues and she’s always been very good and very thorough so I’m keeping fingers crossed!
@2020wish I’m sorry to hear you’ve also experienced the heartbreak of not one, but several losses.
I think I’m definitely going to ask about the blood clotting issue and thyroid function.
I just really hope the doctor is clued up on all of this. It sounds like your gp has been really helpful in sorting all those tests for you. I hope I can say the same about mine after next week!
Can I ask with the aspirin what is classed as a low dose? And do you take it every day of your cycle? Or just certain times, ie up to ovulation, or following it etc?
Thank you all again so much 😊