June Bus Bitches Wine Puffy Afternoon Delight (Bus 6)

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9 BFPs so far;

@Runnergirl1
@slimshadycousin
@RiverRoo
@onnaturescourse
@picallilly19
@krk05
@little11
@whizzkids0812
@hogrider

And once you get your BFP you can join them on the grads bus - June Bus Graduates www.mumsnet.com/Talk/birth_clubs/3928965-June-Bus-Graduates

Still to test 🤞 ;

@bumdiggydiggybumdiggybum -
June 7th
@sarah1253 - June 7th (Tested 6th)
@catharinettc - June 8th (Tested 3rd/4th/5th)
@thegirlwholived - June 8th (Tested 29th)
@ttcmummy2021 - June 8th
@lucyrp - June 9th (Tested 5th)
@cocoblue22 - June 9th (Tested 31st/6th)
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@firsttimetry - June 9th
@bic501 - June 9th
@SarahTTC2020 - June 9th
@katecolx - (Tested June 2nd/ June 6th)
@blodyn91 - (tested 6th)
@ttcgee - June 10th
@33carr - June 10th
@pandarific - June 10th
@smilyT - June 10th
@db20 - June 11th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@clolo - June 11th
@pixielou16 - June 11th
@bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@selina37 - June 12th
@juno231 - June 12th
@noble89 - June 12th
@clairey844 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@tinks123 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@sjones2588 - June 15th
@ss123456 - June 15th
@newbie9 - June 17th
@LV1987 - June 18th
@peanutbutterbrownies - June 18th
@sweetshop2020 - June 20th
@sydgal22 - June 20th
@Jodi3 - June 20th
@dontgojasonwaterfalls - June 21st
@maybe333 - June 22nd
@skip86 - June 28th
@missgoldilocks - June 28th
@katao - June 30th
@vp91x - June 30th
@sausage1990 - July 1st
@lucie91 - July 2nd
@dkdk123 - July 4th
@amy00 - July 5th

2nd abortion? No offence but she needs better contraception! Thats hard news to deal with when TTC

@SmileyT omg! I'm not against it either as I had one 4 years ago but Jesus! They always suggests contraception after you have one I don't think they let me leave the hospital without deciding which one I would choose!

Oh wow @SmileyT I really hope she doesn't know you are ttc because if she does that's incredibly insensitive. Hope you are ok, I'm sure that's upset you.
Great that you have some promising symptoms. Fingers crossed for you 😁

Easy@home ovulation sticks are out of stock😩😩

good job girls, keep up the good work!

Thanks @watermelonwizard bring on the bubbles lol

@Vil10 thank you. Defo getting on the chocolate-sorry SlimmingWorld but I've had chocolate buttons for lunch 😂😂

@lucyrp thanks and I know but I kind of assume that a first response is that sensitive that a BFN today is pretty clear news there's no HCG to pick up. Although you say you seem to take a while for it to be detected-with my little girl I didn't test (with a FR) until I was a week late so maybe I'm a slow builder upperer too. Think I'm just clutching at straws though lol
Any sign of AF for you? I've got brown spotting which suggests she's on her bastard way 😂😂

@Cocoblue22 thanks for saving me a seat-I wonder if this June bus could just naturally evolve into a July bus 🙏 obviously wishing a few new passengers as possible as would love everyone to get their BFPs but for those of us already out I'd like to stick around with you all.

Thanks @Newbie0818 best of luck to you this cycle

@Minster2012 I agree with you about wishing I could tell more people. The amount of people at work who ask about DD and then say don't you want another one yet? And I smile and just say yes definitely, hopefully soon as I would love another one when really I want to scream I don't fucking know, ask my eggs why they're not sticking and especially after my MMC i wanted to say well it would have been August but I miscarried but I know that would just make people feel awkward and they're just asking to be nice and there's no malice behind it.

Thanks @LV1987 let's hope the rest of the tww goes quickly for you

@TTCmummy2021 sorry to hear she's started bleeding-I was so hopeful for you guys. Sending hugs

@Bic501 sorry AF arrived. Ding ding for the July bus

@SarahTTC2020 sorry to hear AF is here ☹️

@SmileyT wow about your friend-why is it the people who really want it (basically us) seem to struggle yet people who don't want to seem to catch the egg every time they have sex. Assuming her GP or the clinic will gently suggest a more effective form of contraception.

Feeling meh here today, no AF but keep feeling like she's arrived and going to the toilet although there is some brown spotting when I wipe so guess she'll appear in full flow in the morning.

Love to you all x

@lucyrp yea thanks read your message about the CB I was about to reply but got a work call and forgot all about it. Thats good to know its happened to someone else might just be a wee post period hormone spike but I'm jumping on him tonight anyways just incase!

@SmileyT its a cruel world isn't it! Must have felt like a gut punch to hear that when you're so desperate. Sending big hugs and extra baby dust that your time will come soon.

@Clairey844 I'm the same, every time someone says 'so when are you giving him a brother or sister' I want to reply with something so mean back as it makes me feel so frustrated but I know their intentions are good so have to bite my lip and smile saying 'maybe one day'

@Clairey844 yeah I haven't ever tested until 8 weeks so I always presume I don't have a high level of HCG until much later on. No sign of AF for me yet but don't like to speak too soon but she was due yesterday. All I've got is white creamy discharge so I have no idea 😂

@lucyrp we are all routing for you. I know I am. I have everything crossed for you that you get your bfp very soon x

@Runnergirl1 aw thank you! I just walked to the shop and back and thought omg she's got me only to get home and check its just discharge 🤷🏼‍♀️I'm fully expecting af but anything else is a bonus xx

Hi ladies 👋🏼 skipped my usual early morning message because I had a super busy day, but after a full hour of reading I'm all caught up!

Massive congrats @TTCgee !!! Omg how exciting! And so fun reading about your and OHs' reaction 🥰💕 don't be a stranger now eh?!

Sorry to those who have been struck by that bitch AF @SarahTTC2020 @Clairey844 , and @TTCmummy2021 where have you disappeared to..? I hope you and your wife are ok?
Also for those talking about the July bus, we definitely decided to make this a 'rolling' bus and just keep it going, so don't go anywhere!!!

All your talk about maternity leave has me so jealous! Most Aus jobs have rubbish mat pay, bastards.

You girls are all legends. Peace out for another day xx

@DKDK123 aww no worries just wanted to make sure it had posted as my app has been playing up so wasn't sure! I would cover yourself just incase but I would also just go by what the pack says and carry on as normal and if you get a normal sequence then you can cast that one off as an anomaly!

@ttcmummy2021 so sorry to hear about that ☹️ hugs to you

@catherinettc good luck later with the testing!

And to anyone else where AF has come ☹️ stupid witch she is!

A lot for me to read and catch up on today-thank you girlies for all your support and entertainment - I hope everyone is feeling good and if not hope your mood gets better!🥰

Sorry ladies - only just finished teaching 🙄

Feeling really down as there were so many signs this cycle. Not sure what we need to do to catch a break and get a successful pregnancy really!!

Bad thing is that she had all her usual pregnancy symptoms from before and even had a squinter so we thought it would be good news 🥺

@Clairey844 and @DKDK123 my partner and I have had the "when are you going to have babies" comments since we got together 4 and a half years ago. At the time, he'd not long come out of a messy divorce from my step kids mum and we didn't have access to them. Most people who made those comments knew that too, and it used to really rile me that they would suggest that he just forgot about the two children he already had to make some more! As soon as we got access to the kids, the comments started again, and I just wanted to shout at people again, as at the time it was important to me to get the boys settled into life between mummy and daddy's houses before bringing another kid into the mix. I know people mean we'll, but bloody hell they are nosey, the irony is... Now we are actually trying, I think everyone assumes we're not going to bother 😂

@TTCmummy2021 you probably didn't see my message before as it's so far down the list now but I just wanted to check if your wife was having ankormal period or was it different bleeding to usual ?? Was AF late too ?

@lucyrp - she says it's not like a normal period. TMI.... but she normally she goes really dry down below beforehand but this time she was super wet/creamy/lotiony. She would also cramp badly a day or so before AF which she didn't at all and when AF is arriving, she'd go brown first and then red but this time is was just pink tinging.

So confusing as it's really weird and different but I guess we are out either way!

@TTCmummy2021 oh god that sounds just like me. I normally have cramps the day before and haven't had anything like that at all. And normally I'm dry but I'm really wet and creamy/lotiony!
Are you sure you're completely out if its pink ? Is there a lot of it ? My friend bled for a couple of hours and it was pink but then it dropped and it was fine she's now around 16 weeks

@Cocoblue22 I've used the rimmel pencil for yearrssss and it's honestly the best! I always buy expensive ones and end up coming back to it.

@SmileyT ah that's not easy news to take when TTC, feels cruel 😔 especially two in such a short time?!

Sorry to you girls who AF has shown up for 😩 Still no sign here, one app said due Saturday and second said Sunday 🙄 I haven't tested since Saturday morning because it definitely feels like she's on her way, just wish she would hurry up if she is coming X

@KateColx @Cocoblue22 actually yes I second that! I used to use that years ago

I asked wifey @lucyrp and she thinks it's definitely more of a period even though she didn't get any of her usual symptoms 🥺 how are you doing??

@TTCmummy2021 oh really☹️☹️ yeah I'm okay so far but just getting a bit fed up now, I am fully aware that she is on her way at some point just waiting for her to turn up🤷🏼‍♀️

@KateColx have you just come off the pill? I have a feeling we are similar with cycle no and just off pill.
There is a possibility that you ovulated later (you didnt track did you?), and if you caught it then maybe it was to weak for your Sat test 🤞
So hard to know weather to test again or wait 😬 if BFN was a huge dissapointed maybe wait till Sat

@blodyn91 no I've not been on the pill for years, I think there may have been another Kate on here though who had been ☺️ I tracked with CB for the first time this month, so I think I'm out 😔 but I may test again in the morning if there's still no sign ☺️ are you cycle 3? X

@lucyrp @Katao @notyetamumbuttrying @blodyn91 @Clairey844 @DKDK123 @KateColx Thanks ladies I definitely feel better now and sorry for ranting was just a kick in the guts but not her fault at all. I actually just came out and said I was ttc and that I had a MC this year and she was so kind. She is on the pill and her boyfriend is a twat, who treats her like trash and I had 2 terminations in uni so definitely not judging her choice just a bit sensitive as I'm testing tomorrow 😩 One of my other friends in the chat admitted she was trying aswell, it is so weird how women often feel like we can't share this with people, it can be so lonely sometimes.

Swiftly moving on we have like 20 people testing over the next few days so there has hit to be loads of BFPs to give us hope. My tummy pains disappeared after I had a 💩 so no longer excited by these 😂