TTC after MC - June 2020

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I'm 31 TTC #1 after a MC in March this year, AF has just finished and I'm on CD6 and all ready to go for my 2nd full cycle.

This month I will be tracking with opks, CB connected, BBT and following SMEP plan.

@Re6ecc4 sorry to hear :( hugs xx

@Re6ecc4 so sorry. Sending hugs xx

@2020wish I know of many mamas who got pregnant first time in their late 30s. Don't lose hope❤️Miscarriages are common unfortunately and we found ourselves here for this reason. I have received once an advice that it is better not to plan on how to accommodate baby in your life before it happens. it reduces your stress in advance as well as you can go ahead with your life and plans in the meantime. Saying that I wish you BFP with sticky baby this month😘 and I'm sure when ( as it is just a matter of time;) ) you are pregnant, you will adjust and juggle all activities like a pro 👍

Also how exciting that you are planning your wedding and ladies are preparing your hen party ! Very nice activities to look forward to ☺️

@Renna @MichT4 aw thank you for giving me some hope! I've been wanting to kick myself all morning because I may have missed my most fertile days, but my DH has been trying to get me to see that even if that's the case, at least I'm ovulating again. @Renna hopefully I'll get lucky!

@VP91x I didn't get a static on cb, but I don't know if i will if I started testing so late. My pregnant opk is not as dark today, but still quite dark if that makes sense. I'm going to dtd again today and tomorrow and hopefully I would have caught the tail end of my window! But either way, I feel a bit more relaxed than a few weeks ago. How are you doing?

@Re6ecc4 lot of hugs! I hope that you can find some comfort with us ladies here 😘

@Bellabubble aah that's good to know! I feel hopeful after hearing about everyone who dtd once or twice and got lucky! Haha yes I remember you said you didn't have a door for a while!

@Renna so glad you've joined me in the TWW and I honestly feel like it's been great for me telling people, I didn't think I would but actually I've told most people I've spoken to now and it really helps with not bottling it up.

@VP91x I'm really good thanks, went home to my parents Friday night and we naughtily had my nephews to sleep over and sister came over today aswell so been keeping busy with them back home now to sleep - probably would've stayed another night but left my Fitbit charger at home and wanted to keep track of RHR 😂 bet you can't wait to get into fertile period, when will you start opks? X

Just been catching up with everything and sending lots of love to everyone at their different stages x

How is everyone doing? Are we all due AF around the same time? I’m due on 20th. Just had my static smiley face yesterday so DTD yesterday and today. Fingers crossed for everyone!❤️

Ladies, I was just driving home now and I saw a beautiful rainbow 🌈 we've had no storm or anything, it's been a lovely warm sunny day and just saw this magical rainbow out of the blue!

I'm hoping that this is a good sign for all of us on this thread. Sending everyone lots of love 💕🌈

@Re6ecc4 hey lovely, I'm so sorry that you've had an awful week. It is good to have that space to cry and grieve. Glad to have you back with us. How are you feeling today? Xx

@Rainbowhope11 oh yes, of course it won't pick it up now I don't think. Did you try it again to see if it did? But, if your OPKs went positive then that is morning than enough. If it still dark, you've definitely caught it because after your positive opk you will ovulate between 12-36hrs later so 👍

@SmileyT ah that must have been so so nice to see them. I bet the weekend went quickly for you! Do they live nearby? Haha, priorities. Yeah, for sure. Will start on CD10 so, Tuesday.

Not long until you test 🤞🤞

@VP91x I did try and test again with the cb, but I just got flashing smileys. My pregmate opk strips are still pretty dark so just going to dtd over the next few days and see what happens. I've got a couple more cb sticks left so I may just give it a try and test to see if it ever reaches peak. If I really am ovulating now, then I'm currently in week 3 of a 5 week wait😂

@Re6ecc4 I'm sorry that you're having a hard time😘 Its good that you've taken some time for yourself to deal with your emotions and feel whatever you're feeling...thats a great step towards healing ❤️ We're all here for you hun Xx

@Rainbowhope11 yeah, it probably has taken that first reading super high so might not turn static. Fingers crossed for you this month after such a long wait for OV! Xx

@VP91x thank you!! This has taken forever, but hopefully it will all be worth it soon💕 fingers crossed for you too hun Xx

@chloedancer897 I'm due AF next weekend so think I'm about a week ahead of you and just getting to that crappy part of TWW. How are you feeling?

@VP91x yeah I'm testing on Wednesday or Thursday so not too long to go but last few days are always the longest aren't they. Weekend definitely seems to have flown past at home, they are only a 20min drive away but I don't have a car so just easier for me to stay over, because I was still going out to work I avoided seeing them before restrictions were lifted. When are your apps estimating you will ovulate this month? xx

@SmileyT so excited for you! Have you felt any different?

Yeah of course, plus nice to just have interrupted time with them after everything that has been going on.

Both on CD17 actually! But FF is taking an average of my cycles and saying I will have a 26day cycle which won't be right, but that's okay. I had a 11 day LP last month, so if I do ovulate Cd17 I will have a 28 day cycle. If I stay at 31 days then I expect to OV on CD20. But everything is still settling I think so who knows 😂 xx

@chloedancer897 I'm due AF on the 23rd! I'm CD 12 and had a strong OPK last night. Just waiting to test now to see what it's saying today. My strongest lines were day 12 last cycle so 🤞🏻 how are you doing?

@chloedancer897 hey 😊 I'm due AF on 30th June. Yay for your peak, hopefully your TWW flies by quickly xx

@SmileyT and @Renna I'm also joining you in the tww.
@chloedancer897 af is due around the 18th for me.

Cycle day 14 for me. Opk tests still negative. Femometer has changed my predicted ovulation from tomorrow to yesterday making me 1dpo which isn’t true. All because I noted ewcm on Friday lol which is down to the grapefruit juice lol my temp did go up a bit but I think that’s cause I did have a drink last night and didn’t go to bed til 3am lol talk about all over the place lol

I’m CD15, and have different predicted ovulation dates, spanning the next 7 days, with AF predicted somewhere between 27th and 30th June 🙄
So basically, who knows. Hoping some OPKs and more Ava data will give a better idea 🤷🏻‍♀️

Excited for you @SmileyT, not long to go 🤞🏼

I got a very clear positive OPK this morning! I only started testing last cycle and this is the first time I've seen a proper positive test so I'm glad my body is working after MMC. A bit worried as we're CD12 and only started DTD on day 10, although we've done it the last two days and will do the next three at least. 🤞🏻

@MichT4 did you order the OPKs in the end?

@2020wish ahh that's annoying, femometer can be like that sometimes its so fickle! Keep testing and hopefully you get your peak soon xx

@2020wish my tests are also negative. CD13 today. But more ECWM last two days, I don't know if it is a sign of coming ovulation or it is due to grapefruit/plum juices.

@peonyrose87 good luck ! It sounds like you are covered.