TTC after MC - June 2020

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I'm 31 TTC #1 after a MC in March this year, AF has just finished and I'm on CD6 and all ready to go for my 2nd full cycle.

This month I will be tracking with opks, CB connected, BBT and following SMEP plan.

Thinking of u @2020wish hope ur ok and hope AF stops aoon for u so u can get on with ur cycle.

@renna Glad uv pushed to be checked out we know r bodys well so if u dnt feel right then its best to be checked definitely! Xx

Iv just been for my blood test did a nice 5k walk there and back in the sun, will get my result monday / tuesday, hopefully everything is tip top and my hcg is nice and high x

@gwen7896 welcome :) I’m afraid to test early this cycle also as it also happened to me this cycle

@Hayleylou89 thank you :) hopefully all will be ok

What cycle is everyone on that’s still ttc. And what supplements are we all taking?
I’m CD5. Taking coq10, b6, folic acid, seven seas pre conception, calc fluor and grapefruit juice. Bought Angus castus but not sure whether to take it or not as I have no issues with my LP? I’ve read it’s usually for women with short LP phases? Anyone else
Taking it with normal phase length and can offer any advice. I’m going to start a strict diet this month to lose weight. I have been putting it off from dec but each month I’m losing so can’t see a point putting it off anymore and just going to go for it and if conception happens again I’ll lay off

@2020wish I’m CD9 of my 3rd cycle post MC. Not taking anything or testing with OPKs this month as I’m going to try a relaxed approach this month - just DTD as much as possible.

@gwen7896 welcome! I don't think I will be able to resist testing. That's how I noted something is off with this pregnancy as the lines were not getting as dark as control line and one day just went lighter, followed by bleeding a few days later.

@2020wish I'm not sure from where to count. Is it the first month we ever tried or from last miscarriage ( currently )?

I'm taking folic acid with omega 3 and vitamins D. Also I am also drinking plum juice.

@Niisa in that case, I'm in the first cycle in miscarriage, cycle day 4 if first day of miscarriage is counted in. Ttc #1

@Niisa this will be cycle 6 but I’ve been pregnant 3 times within those 6 months and have mc before 7 weeks with all three. This month I’m Going to try the relaxed approach but still taking supplements. I might pre on an opk stick when I can feel ovulation just to make sure.

@HopeForRainbowbaby cycle day 1 is counted as the first day you start bleeding either from AF or MC. So I’ll be on day 5 from I started MCing on Monday.

We are around the same cycle days so can be good support :) I’m ttc #2

I'm on cd33 of my 6the cycle TTC. I miscarried my twin girls at 16 weeks in September, so I'm 8 months on from that now. I'm 9dpo and got BFN this morning but will be testing again tomorrow.

Fingers crossed for a BFP tomorrow

@HopeForRainbowbaby yeah first day of MC is CD1 - hoping it’s over soon!!

@2020wish I was taking vit D, folic acid and iron up until this cycle. I wasn’t taking anything when I got pregnant so will see what this month brings. So sorry to hear you’ve had 3 MCs this year alone - I’m praying hard for you! Speaking it into existence that your BFP this month will stick xxxxx

My friend who was due the same day as me when I MC in April has just announced her pregnancy on fb :( I would have been 13 weeks. Trying not to be in funk now

@2020wish ah no. That's hard. You've been through the ringer lately. Be kind to yourself.

Im so happy for her and so glad everything is going well for her. I know I will be ok tomorrow

I'm on cycle 3 since MMC in February currently 4dpo taking pregnacare conception vitamin d and Calc fleur also used the cup this time and followed SMEP apart from the one for luck x

@VP91x tbh I think when you start testing might aswell do it everyday 😂 unless you want to save money on the tests, 2 days will give it more time to progress if you want to be patient. I've shaked yesterday off I felt bad that he just couldn't get into it but it was so frustrating I just got mad which obviously made it worse, will try again today x

@Renna it's good you are getting it looked into and the GPs are being supportive. I had surgery in March and haven't noticed anything tbh apart from around ovulation I really notice the pain but wasn't tracking before so maybe I'm just more aware x

@Ejb86 like you said you got a BFN at 9dpo before and went on to get good news so keep positive x

@elliew818 thanks for your kind words, think OH was just knackered and I really didn't help, we've had sex every day apart from 2 since my period ended so maybe I'd burnt him out 🙈 he is feeling so bad for it today and I'm sure we'll make it up this weekend x

Welcome @gwen7896 sorry for your losses and definitely understand not wanting to test early, hope the next bean is super sticky xx

Question to you ladies - when do you start taking your calc flour? Is there any issue if it's the day of ovulation rather than day after as not 100% on date at the moment ❤️

@SmileyT I’ve just continuously taken the calc fluor every day from last month. I read is had benefits when ttc and during pregnancy

@SmileyT ahh yeah I'm going to test tomorrow for sure. The girls on the other thread we have thought they might see a faint line so has given me a bit of hope. Fingers crossed 🤞🤞

I'm glad you are feeling better. Honestly, men can be such shitbags sometimes. Hopefully he is raring to go tonight 🤭

Xx

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@2020wish thanks, that's great I'll start taking it now then 👌🏾

@VP91x well I've said to him that we'll just have a chilled one and whatever happens it'll all be good don't want to put any extra pressure on him, so annoying that we need them to perform to get pregnant - I am quietly confident it was just a one day blip though 😂 ooh just had a look on the thread and I can see a faint line 🤞 what test are you going to use 2m? xx

@SmileyT yeah I am definitely going to test again tomorrow. I posted a pic on the other end of May thread we have and the girls thought they might see a vfl so fingers crossed something progresses 🤞🤞

I'm glad you are feeling much better and I'm sure your OH will make it up to you. It can all get a bit much can't it xx

@SmileyT sorry I replied twice, it didnt show that my reply had sent and it said I wasn't following any threads! Silly thing.

Going to use a CB again tomorrow to compare properly any progression if there is any!

Girls, sorry I think I have spammed the thread. The web version has gone nuts! X

Ugh got excited that my ava bracelet was being delivered by Hermes today.... its arrived ... see attached ... does this look like an ava bracelet to you ... ? 🙄🙄 @Hayleylou89 having same problems as you with ava now not gonna arrive for ovualtion by next week 🙄 so annoying and disappointing.. also weird as it was a bid I won on ebay and is classed as used ... so not sure if it's actually someone who sells stuff on ebay and got mixed up with orders or if someone selling their used stuff got mixed up .. xx

Ahh I think everything is back up and running again!

@Renna oh how annoying!! Did they mention when it should be arriving ijg? Xx

@VP91x ooh I'm excited to check the thread when I do my temp first thing tomorrow 🤞 the line progresses.

@Renna wtf so annoying... I thought you'd ordered that aswell when I saw the pic 😂 somebody getting rid of all their conception stuff maybe and got mixed up x

@SmileyT god, I almost forgot I have to temp first 😂. Hope it doesn't crush the little hope I have. Xx