Chatterbox May Bus - part 4

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Thought I'd best start a new thread. I'm. It great at keeping track of the conversation all but i don't want to loose track of you all 💕
@Franklydear @MrsEmilyB @SmileyT @Juno231 @babyg123

@Ltay2 that’s good 💐 keep positive and when it’s right it’ll happen x

@RobinRose - I'm really trying not to test. AF is due Friday but I've been spotting like last month (SO FRUSTRATING - makes me want to scream. I NEVER spotted until ttc). So I've been spotting yesterday and a tiny bit the day before, and still spotting today, so I'm thinking it's not implantation bleeding as I had hoped. Just feel so dejected. I so needed this to be our month and my heart is already breaking! Not sure I can face a BFN right now without falling apart.

Sorry girls I’ve been awol, waiting on af , miserably so.

I’m 15 dpo and I did an ic with fmu and I’ve just done a frer with 2mu.

Is this even possible this late?!

Wtf.

@Mrsi2020 I can see it! 🥳

@Mrsi2020 That is a line!! Everything crossed for you!!

And thanks everyone, I'm literally heading to Boots now for more tests (can't even wait for Amazon) and it will take everything I have to not POAS as soon as I'm home.

@Fluffkins14 it has hasn’t it? Must be something in the air! We dtd every other day from when af ended until a few days after I thought I may have ovulated, I didn’t want to put that stress on me or DP to keep going? Always next month I suppose! What’s been happening for you? No I don’t think it’s our month either, i am 100% sure af is on her way!

@MoonW. That sounds like a good idea! I said to myself I’d buy new lingerie every month until we are successful but I can’t find any I like... I’m going to have a shopping spree on Zara instead as It’s payday! 😁

@Newbie0818 you too! 🤞

@Mrsi2020 I see it!!! 🎉🎉🎉

@MrsEmilyB try not to let the spotting dishearten you, I’ve spotted between cycles for years.It’s really fucking hard isn’t it? I envy those who don’t need to ‘try’ or it ‘wasn’t planned’, never thought it would be this stressful. I had an absolute melt a couple of months ago, it’s hard not too! This still could be your month, just try to ride it out until af shows (or doesn’t 🤞)! We are all here to support each other 🌻! You’ve got this!

@Mrsi2020 I see it 🥳

Girls I’m 15dpo , thought I was out this month, don’t lose hope until af arrives! Thanks everyone Xx

@Mrsi2020 congratulations!!

@lorylondon I would try and wait a few more days. I know it's hard but I think squinters can be really stressful. If you can wait it should be much clearer.

@MrsEmilyB sorry you are stressed out, this time of the cycle is the worst. I would try and stay as distracted as possible. The days will pass and you'll get your answer.

Good luck to everybody else!!

@Mrsi2020 woohoo congratulations 🥳!! Did you do anything differently? Any symptoms?

Oh congratulations @mrsi2020!!!!

@MrsEmilyB I completely understand the stress, is there anything you can do to keep the days busy until Friday?

@RobinRose I agree with the stress it was a bit tiring trying to carry on dtd on ovulation after waiting so long, burning hot feet, hot flushes, super dry mouth, loads of spots have came up yesterday and today, loads of white cm, extremely tired trying not to look to much into it but it's super hard x

@Mrsi2020 Huge congratulations! 🥳

@Fluffkins14 anything out of the norm is usually a good sign! Hopefully all good songs for you! I keep seeing the white CM is biggest difference people have? Mines just watery which I think it usually is at this point in my cycle 👎x

@robinrose no, I’m not very good at this ttc , my body does the work. I think I have a high sex drive so we did regularly outside the fertile window, judging by my faint tests I reckon I conceived after the fertile window, who knows xx

@Mrsi2020 such good news! Did you do any tests earlier in the 2ww? Any changes to your bbt chart (if you do it)? Symptoms? Anything different this month?

@RobinRose @skyla01 @TheLastStark thank you ladies ❤️ it's so nice to have somewhere to vent. Noone knows we are trying and DH just doesn't understand. I'm at work, but DH is working away tomorrow and I'm soooooo tempted to do a FRER whilst he is out. I'll be 11dpo so I'm not sure if that's too early. If this is implantation spotting, it started extremely lightly at 8dpo and has been slightly darker but very intermittent today and yesterday.

Yay @Mrsi2020! Congrats. 🥳 with all that sex there was no way you weren’t getting up the duff! ✨

@MrsEmilyB I didn’t do bbt but I did track my RHR with Fitbit. I think I possibly ov’d later than I thought and I’m only 9dpo today? I also just checked and I had ewcm on 10/11th aswell!!!

I’ll upload what I have xx

Ooh my fitbit has broken but I may need to get a new one!

@Mrsi2020 - any idea what rhr is supposed to do whilst preggo?

@MrsEmilyB I was literally thinking the same thing

@MrsEmilyB @BabyDust13 There is a thread about heart rate tracking and cycles I will try to tag you both in!

Could you tag me too please? Mine has jumped since yesterday, would love to know if this is a good sign