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Toot toot May bus 2- rings inc

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babyG123 · 01/05/2020 22:02

Not sure how often OP goes on!!! Eeeek so thought I'd start a new one as running out of space. Hope that's ok....

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Minster2012 · 02/05/2020 08:19

@babyG123 we can have 🤞🏻Anyway so into TWW for you?

Love that you still got “ring inc” in the title, @popcorndiva we DTD last night & this morning after all our talk of vibrators 😂I think we (Our thread!) need to talk dirty for everyone’s FW it clearly works for us! Still only CD10 for me though & no smiles on clear blue & last nights OPK was back to 0

@MrsLBear are you going to buy tests? Or wait til AF late? We’ve just seen a lovely BFP on a MC thread we are on together!

Ltay2 · 02/05/2020 08:25

BFN for test this morning although not lost hope just yet as it's still too early to test. Will test again Tuesday. 🤞🏼

popcorndiva · 02/05/2020 08:36

My RHR has risen this morning so looks like ovulation will be tonight or tomorrow morning. Told DH just one last go tonight then he can have a few weeks off, he is definitely getting tired

babyG123 · 02/05/2020 08:39

@Minster2012 I have long cycles of 36 so usually would be AF Wednesday but then I ovulated 2 days later than it said so it's pushed my AF to friday.

Trying hard not to get excited and symptom spot as I had no symptoms with DS1 but omg I just gagged loads at my own wee, and at the washing machine when loading it even though it smells of washing powder. God I feel rough!

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Juno231 · 02/05/2020 08:43

@popcorndiva can't believe how quickly your new vibrator arrived 😂. Fingers crossed for your ovulation - I still have no signs of mine!

Minster2012 · 02/05/2020 08:56

@Ltay2 how many Dpo are you? Sorry for the BFN, sending hugs & 🤞🏻🤞🏻It’s just too early

@popcorndiva has your vibrator arrived already from yesterday??!! What?!

I don’t think I timed my orgasm to get the up suck right either last night or this morning...I need to work on my technique clearly...or DH does!

@babyG123 are you going to wait til Friday to test? Massive 🤞🏻For you, & hopefully the gagging is a good sign!

Ltay2 · 02/05/2020 09:03

@Minster2012 9DPO today so possibly is just too early!

ApplePie86 · 02/05/2020 09:09

@HiddenBleak that sounds the exact same as me. I've been spotting brown blood for 6 days now. This is day 6 but barely anything there now and FF puts me at 4DPO.

Are you confirming you are actually ovulating? Although I don't think OPKs are meant to be totally accurate with PCOS I use them and they do show positive when I get OV pain.

Hope things go well for you!

Newbie0818 · 02/05/2020 09:15

Hi May bus originals! And welcome May bus 2 newbies. Brace yourselves for the “knob hoop” talk!

Cd46. Terrible period pain all day yesterday, fully expecting af to start today. Boobs killing me, nipples on fire. Is it silly I’m hoping that bfn yesterday was wrong...? 😑

MrsEmilyB · 02/05/2020 09:32

@babyG123 the mugs idea is completely adorable!

@RobinRose good morning lovely!

@Adrianoska @babyG123 @mrslbear keeping my fingers crossed for you lot! I agree with @GingerBaby89 we need some BFPs to kick off may!

Hello to @applepie86 and @hiddenbleak - second cycle for us too!

MrsEmilyB · 02/05/2020 09:37

@Minster2012 - all the cock talk and DH wasn't in the mood last night 😭 bless him, he's really feeling the pressure this cycle! I think it's because next month is a no-go so we are really trying this month! Anyone got any ideas how to take the pressure off the men? He hates it being so prescriptive. Never thought he'd be the one to turn down sexy time!

@newbie0818 do you know when you ovulated?

babyG123 · 02/05/2020 09:38

@Minster2012 yes I'm waiting!! I have first response but going to wait to save any confusion! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

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MrsLBear · 02/05/2020 10:00

@Minster2012 I'm in 2 minds. I want to so I stop obsessing but also I don't know if I can face another bfn. I've got a chance to go today but then if I don't go today I won't get one till Monday at which point I will be 13dpo and will know if it's coming cos normally I get all hot and hormonal and start spotting in the eve.
I know so lovely isn't it!!! I absolutely love seeing BFP it really gives me hope.
When cd do you normally O?

Sorry for your bfn @Ltay2 hopefully it's just too early.

Woo get DTD girl @popcorndiva!! Then the dreaded tww starts 🤪 you didn't hang about with the vibrator. No messing around your end haha.

Ooo that sounds promising @babyG123 when are you planning on poas?

Thank you @MrsEmilyB 🤞🏼🤞🏼 I really try not to highlight when I'm ovulating to DH cos the first cycle we really went for it he really struggled to preform. He has it once in a blue moon but that's just cos it's happened before. I don't tell him anything. I think men aren't as attached to it as we are like I think in general women are more practical and know we got to do this to make a baby whereas I think men can be a bit more sensitive with it. Like for them it's pressure to actual well erm produce the goods. Not sure I'm explaining this right 😂

@Newbie0818 fx she doesn't show!!!

MrsLBear · 02/05/2020 10:00

The whole orgasm suck up is still making me laugh. Like genuinely the things we will do 😂😂

babyG123 · 02/05/2020 10:03

@MrsLBear I'll poas when and if AF is late. Sitting here trying not to vomit and I feel like I don't even need to take one as I know!

If this is a bug though its a cruel cruel 6am-2pm bug!!!

Worst thing is I have a fear of being sick. Was so lucky not to be sick with DS1 at all.

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Minster2012 · 02/05/2020 10:04

Oh no @MrsEmilyB rubbish on the the bottom so prescriptive Maybe don’t tell him when it’s expected? Then grab him & do what he likes when he’s not expecting it? Mine would soon forget...or would you send a few saucy or not so saucy but pics of bits of you (even if he’s in the house with you) like “let’s play what body part is this?” Or “where is this mole on me?” Let’s find it or “tit or not tit” or send him a message of a date night

Minster2012 · 02/05/2020 10:08

@MrsLBear maybe not get the test then, wait til Monday in blissful ignorance 🥰I don’t know when I O, I’ve not had a proper cycle since MMC yet I’ve had 28 days since MMC, so I thought I was ok, then 11days later another AF. It’s now CD10 since then. Before that only one other AF in 18years in Nov after being on Depo so no idea 🤷‍♀️😂we are just tracking & cracking on & DTD & trying time up suck & enjoy!

MrsEmilyB · 02/05/2020 10:14

@mrslbear I'm definitely not going to tell him in July if we aren't lucky this cycle! But it may mean I get turned down more often than I'd like for TTC. You're right - men are so much more sensitive to producing the goods. I also think they don't have the same overwhelming desire to concieve! We are trying SMEP this month. Wait until Monday for an accurate result! 💖

@Minster2012 I shall try! I think because he knows it's FW every time I try to start he's starting to feel the pressure!

MoonW · 02/05/2020 10:18

Blimey, I have one day away from MN and clearly I’ve missed out and have some catching up to do! 😂

Hope everyone’s ok this morning x

Skyla01 · 02/05/2020 10:27

@MrsLBear well done for holding out! Fc for you, and @babyG123 too!

@Ltay2 9dpo is very early, good luck for Tuesday!

@Adrianoska glad you have some hope back- it's better than feeling down.

@Newbie0818 sorry about AF symptoms. It's a bit of a cliche but you aren't out until AF arrives. Each month when I start af I Google "had period even though pregnant" so you are not alone in hanging on to the hope!

@MrsEmilyB I think the performance pressure is all on the guy big time. If it becomes a bit of an issue maybe DTD a bit less? A plan like smep is great, but every other day is also fine.

Skyla01 · 02/05/2020 10:29

As for telling friends and family, I sometimes have day dreams about how I'll do it. First grandchild for my parents so will be really special. And DP will be an amazing dad. However we've been trying for quite a long time so I try not to get my hopes up too much.

Newbie0818 · 02/05/2020 10:51

@MrsEmilyB I have no idea when I ovulated, but I had ewcm on the 2-7 April, then again 9-15 April, and watery cm on the 16. Flo seems to think I ovulated on the 14th April. It’s really anyone’s guess this month... apart from logging symptoms I wasn’t tracking anything. Who knows 🤷🏼‍♀️

@babyG123 that sounds pretty promising to me! But I understand why you won’t test yet. 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

@skyla01 your google history sounds identical to mine! I’ve really tried not to this month though.

CoronaBaby · 02/05/2020 11:51

Hey girls! How are you all?
So my TWW officially begins today, although Ovia tells me I can test in 11 days? I made sure to get an up suck in there last night too 😉
Any thoughts on how to maintain sanity?
@Ltay2 Fingers crossed it was just too early to test!
@babyG123 that sounds so promising!

Franklydear · 02/05/2020 11:53

Hello ladies
Just checking in the new thread, I am taking a bit of a break after getting properly obsessed but don't want to loose you
Not much hope for this month, only DTD once and that should be ovulation date, I am not even counting which cd it is...

paintfairy · 02/05/2020 12:03

@Newbie0818 I think they say you aren't out until AF appears! I'm the same. CD40 for me. Bit of pink spotting last night bit nothing again now. I wish it would put me out of my misery.

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