In our 30's and TTC- baby dust

[babyG123]

Anyone fancy joining this bus?

1dpo and due on 8th

@Rma13 others were told 7 days so 10 seems excessive, especially with the Covid test 3 days before it anyway. Ooh best of luck for retesting!! 🤞🏾

Thank you

@Rma13 did you retest? I'm bk from our ivf appointment and it's another 2-3 months to start 🙄 was hoping it'd be like 1 month, ah well! Just a few more months and finally we'll be underway! I have a lap next week for suspected endo so at least that'll be done before we start!

Hi all,

Can I join here?
Me and my hubby of 8 years have decided to have a baby, we've been married for 4 years this year.
We both have children from previous marriages, I am 33 and he is 61
GP has said that we need to ttc for 6-9 months before they will do tests..
I came off the coil at end of January and this will be our 3rd cycle just about to start..
I am 13DPO and BFN :( My LP is quite long at the moment so just waiitng for period to start again....

Private is so expensive..

@notyetamumbuttrying my AF showed up yesterday 😢 I have a few more attempts with Clomid then that will be it! 2/3 months will fly by for you! I see the light at the end, of what's been a very long tunnel, for you and your DH! You must keep me updated!

@mum2girls19 welcome! And good luck on your journey! Hopefully if AF hasn't started yet baby dust could be on its way to you

@Mum2Girls19 good luck! You've only just started ttc really so hopefully you'll catch in the next few months 🤞🏾
@Rma13 ah sorry my love! Hope the clomid starts playing ball soon 🤞🏾 yeah hope it does, time really is ticking on now 😂 aw thank you and I will do 😘

@notyetamumbuttrying
@Rma13
Thanks ladies....
No AF yet but BFN lol
Just ready for my period to start now...

Just hopped on the thread and newly joined Mumsnet too. I m gonna be 30 by this Nov. I miscarried last January 2021 and it was my first one after a year plus of trying. I m so unsure of my feelings like it feels so desperate conceiving again. I feel so left out with my circle, many of em ahead of having successful pregnancy to its full terms. Why me? 😞

My period came today after a day late (second cycle after miscarriage in January). I feel so broken and disheartened but I cant cry my tears out of me. Sorry to rant out here but I just need to let this out today. Best wishes to all of us whom are still trying. I hope God will hear us someday. 😢

Just found this thread has anyone had any BFP ? ♥️

@ohhisammi nope not yet! I'm heading to ivf next month though so hoping to get one in June!!

@ohhisammi not yet, im in my second cycle of clomid, waiting for ovulation!! Im really hoping this month is our month, so fingers crossed everyone as only have one cycle of clomid left if this month doesn't take!

@notyetamumbuttrying my fingers are so crossed for you ❤❤

@beautifulinitstime I am so sorry you had to go through a miscarriage in January ❤ my thoughts are with you!

@notyetamumbuttrying @Rma13
Sending you both all the luck in the world 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Let's hope to start getting some good luck and baby dust in here.

I'm only in Cycle 2 of trying - but feeling positive 🤞🏼

Thank you @Rma13! Got the call on Tuesday 😊
Good luck on the clomid this month! Good vibes heading your way ✨
@ohhisammi thank you!! Cycle 2, wow! I'm on month 19 now cycle god knows what 😂 hopefully you won't be like me and have complications. All the best! 🤞🏾

So I'm 3 dpo and honestly I'm gonna drive myself mad! I hate this waiting! My mind goes into overdrive! I know in my head it's impossible to even tell right now if it's worked but I just want it to have! I only have two cycles left of clomid if it doesn't work this time! Why can't concieveing be simple? I'm in such a bad mood today just needed to vent to others who know how I feel!

@Rma13 I know how you feel and all I can say is feeling that way won't make any difference to the outcome so try your best to think differently. Make plans for the weekend and see ppl now that we can! It's a great distraction.
I'm waiting on a call from the drug company today as due to start injections next week. 😬

@notyetamumbuttrying I know you are so right! I definitely need distracting! And ooooo how do you feel? Nervous? excited? Good luck with it!

@Rma13 both of those things 😂 very eager to start now. Just hope they come in time and I don't make a hash of the injections 😆 thanks for the luck and I hope you make nice plans for the weekend ♥️

@notyetamumbuttrying the gynecologist secutary has just called me and advised that my progesterone has increased this month but not to the point where the gynecologist wants it. I have no idea what that means, does it mean there's no chance I could be pregnant? It also means I've only got one shot left as she wants me to double my dose next month and won't be providing any more clomid. I think my heart is breaking a little bit xx

@Rma13 ahhhh are you getting to speak to the gynaecologist soon? They'll be able to tell you more. So much luck hun xx

@notyetamumbuttrying not until June, she won't see me until I've completed all my courses of clomid its ridiculous really!

Okay everyone I need advice, sorry this is gross. I've started bleeding but it's not normal, it's brown and only there when I wipe. I've spoken to my gynecologist and she's said to take a test tomorrow and if it's negative treat it as my cycle and start my next course of clomid. My fear is that my DS didn't show up until 7 weeks (I did a test at 4 and 5 weeks and they were negative) I'm scared what will happen if this is implantation bleeding and I take clomid, there's nothing online about taking it whilst pregnant. What would you all do!

@Rma13 ooh this is so tricky and I kinda feel your predicament as I've started my down regs injections now and there's still a chance I could be pregnant. I'm testing early on Sunday at 10dpo to see if I can stop or not. Forums have told me that it doesn't effect the pregnancy and the nurses said it was fine too but the instructions say don't take if suspected pregnant so 🤷🏾‍♀️
It's really your call...are there any MN threads on it? If you're specific with your google search I'm sure one will come up! X

@notyetamumbuttrying arrrgh it's mad we are both in the same predicament after all these months trying!!! I really hope we both are! My bleeding has practically stopped, so I'm thinking it's not a period but who knows 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Google isn't being very helpful most I've found is "do not take clomid if you suspect you're pregnant " but then I've found a forum where a women took it without knowing her bleed was a pregnancy sign and her baby was fine 🙈 I dont know what I'm gonna do!! Ill take the test in the morning, just feel like it's way too early!!

@Rma13 I'm so used to ttc now as it's been 20 months 😩
How many days past ov will you be tomorrow?

@notyetamumbuttrying I'll be 12 dpo, is that too late for implantation bleeding? I'm so confused!!! Let me know how your test goes my fingers and toes are crossed for you!