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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

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Twitchett22 · 10/02/2020 08:37

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

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AliSxo · 14/02/2020 20:32

@calimommy I think it's the best word to have used!! 💗 xx

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gingerglitter4ever · 14/02/2020 22:20

Did any of you who are 7dpo or later experience any noticeable implantation pain/ symptoms? I’m tracking BBT and am curious if anyone has seen a dip and or felt something related to that dip

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calimommy · 14/02/2020 23:28

I normally get implantation spotting so I'm waiting on that! 😬😬😬

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inahaze · 15/02/2020 08:45

@Blackbelt yeh I get that. Especially when my 4yo is a complete nightmare or I have a lie in and I think omg do I really want to go back to square 1?

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HalfPenny28 · 15/02/2020 09:33

Tested this morning and bfn 😟

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gingerglitter4ever · 15/02/2020 09:53

@HalfPenny28 shit sorry to hear that... what dpo are you? Hope you get a BFP soon!

@calimommy is yours the pinkish cm people mention or more like a light flow? I’m a pretty heavy bleeder so I think I’d be more towards the flow side of the spectrum 🤔 not sure though 🤷🏼‍♀️

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AliSxo · 15/02/2020 11:32

Same @HalfPenny28 9DPO today and bfn 😢

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becca321 · 15/02/2020 12:01

@AliSxo @HalfPenny28 me too, dont know why I tested again after yesterday. Going to leave it a few more days now and not test until Tues (hopefully!)

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AliSxo · 15/02/2020 13:05

Worst feeling ever it's really effecting my mood recently, can't seem to snap out of it x

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Fifol · 15/02/2020 13:22

Hi girls, sorry to hear about your bfns, hopefully the bfps will be soon, for me included!

@AliSxo I'm the same, I'm consumed with it. Trying to enjoy other things in the meantime

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calimommy · 15/02/2020 15:04

@gingerglitter4ever I don't think it matters what your normal flow is like because it's not related to that. It should only be a very tiny amount of light pink when you wipe and once off. I appreciate that everyone has different experiences but that's the general average of what to expect. I also have a heavy flow but IB has always been as I described above. X

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calimommy · 15/02/2020 15:15

I'm not feeling very positive about a successful month, nothing related to symptoms but rather that I feel like my period will come. The last two months in particular I know we covered the days needed so if this isn't a positive cycle then I'm a bit at a loss! I know people say "oh it can take time" etc but that's not how it worked for me in the past, I always got pregnant if we DTD when I ovulated. I'm worried there is something wrong. Anyho, waiting waiting, it is so dull!

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HalfPenny28 · 15/02/2020 16:03

@calimommy sorry to hear you're not feeling positive 🙁 I know exactly what you mean though, I can't understand why it's not working.

@AliSxo sorry ☹️ so shit isn't it. The worst thing is, I'm disappointed but I tell myself oh maybe it's too early and then I'm even more disappointed when af turns up.

The next cycle will be out 6 and I just never thought it would take this long.

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AliSxo · 15/02/2020 16:45

@calimommy I feel the same I just know AF will show her face Tuesday and I'll eat my emotions like I do every month!!

@HalfPenny28 it's crap, same I didn't think it would take this long. I'm 9DPO so I'm thinking it's too early to test but I don't want to get my hopes up xx

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Twitchett22 · 15/02/2020 17:09

I've caved and ordered 2 FRER. Not arrived yet and only 6 days til AF is due but not sure I can hold out. Lots of love to all you bfn'ers, hopefully in a few more days we'll all have better news ☺️

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gingerglitter4ever · 15/02/2020 18:34

@calimommy okay that’s great info! I will be 7dpo tomorrow so I’ll keep an eye for it 🤗

@Twitchett22 haha love it! What dpo will you be when they arrive?

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Nora11 · 15/02/2020 19:11

Well after saying I wasn't going to test until AF is due (which is next Saturday) I tested today 🤦‍♀️ negative but not surprising as it was a regular test not even an early response one! I think I might get an early response and test again in a couple days... I just can't wait! 😬

Fingers crossed for good news for everyone thinking of testing soon!

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Twitchett22 · 15/02/2020 19:29

@gingerglitter4ever i forgot to check the delivery time 🤦🏼‍♀️ but im 8dpo today so maybe 10 or 11?

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gingerglitter4ever · 15/02/2020 21:28

@Twitchett22 well in that case you could very well test positive! My fingers are crossed for you! I probably won’t test until AF is late unless I get some crazy symptoms or very clear sign of implantation (I don’t usually spot mid cycle)
Baby dust ✨

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Twitchett22 · 15/02/2020 21:30

@gingerglitter4ever are FRER pretty reliable at that many dpo? I've only ever used CB digital

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gingerglitter4ever · 15/02/2020 21:41

@Twitchett22 I think it depends on when implantation occurs, and with that how long hcg takes to build up to detectable levels, have read mixed things from people but have definitely seen people post images of positive tests on like 10 or 11 dpo (so jealous haha) but anyway it’s worth a shot if you’re feeling it!

I’m a bit on and off crampy this evening (currently 6 dpo) hopefully that’s a good sign!

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Twitchett22 · 15/02/2020 21:47

@gingerglitter4ever i think I'll do one test then save the second for if AF doesn't show 😬
Fingers crossed! Hopefully its all good signs, when is AF due?

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gingerglitter4ever · 15/02/2020 22:27

@Twitchett22 the 24th, so another good week and a bit, trying not to go too crazy hehe

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HalfPenny28 · 16/02/2020 09:53

Once I start testing it's so hard to stop 😭 I'll be 10dpo today and resisting testing as I know it'll be bfn! But there's that 5% of you which is just like maybe I just tested too early!

Looking forward to some BFP's here 🙂 fingers crossed for you all.

And the BFN's - we'll smash it next month!

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Fifol · 16/02/2020 10:12

@HalfPenny28 I'm 11dpo today and I'm holding out! A bfn could send me over the edge right now! I'm just hoping and praying there will be no AF in a few days and I can test then

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