3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

[Twitchett22]

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

[TTC223]

@Lmac2018 hey, I have had the exact same period!! It’s been soooooo strange. I normally have a cycle of around 28 -30 days. However day 33 ( Thursday ) in the afternoon I bled when I wiped.

Then I bled when I weed and then reallly light bleed when I weed ( Friday )

Saturday and Sunday ( today ) Iv justbhad dark brown dark red spotting!?

I normally have horrendous cramps! My skin goes awful. The week leading up to this period, I cried and wasn’t me. Not a nice person, really snapppy!

What was your outcome? I am TTC and prior to that I was never on protection as I knew my body and knew when and when not to have sex so I know this is really not normal for me to have a cycle like this?

[Fifol]

@AliSxo that's amazing!! Delighted for you, you've given me hope

[AliSxo]

Had my 12 week scan today 🥰 all went well and had my booking appointment with the midwife at the same time xx

[AliSxo]

@Hayleylou89 that's really good you'll get the extra scans, I'm sure they'll keep a good eye on you and that'll be good peace of mind for you 💗 yes I'm going to find out I'm so impatient!! I'll find out in about 4 weeks as I'm 12 weeks on Tuesday, it's so bizarre to think I'm that far along, the first few weeks I was just on edge with every little cramp but the nausea kept me reassured!! Xxxx

[Hayleylou89]

@AliSxo Thank u :) we are delighted! Just praying for everything to go smootly x

We will be scanned at 7 weeks and probably about every 4 weeks so atleast 7.12.16, 20 weeks and then by then they will know if i need any extra sort of support with my cervix or anything else x

So happy everything is going well for u ... i literally dont feel pregnant atall no real symptoms as yet so its making me think im have a boy this time 🤦🏽‍♀️ are u going to find out what ur having? X

[AliSxo]

@Hayleylou89 almost like it's meant to be this cycle for you, I'm so pleased for you, your family must be over the moon too, have you had the symptoms start yet? I'm just about over mine now although still get the odd day of nausea. I had 2 early scans, the one I went to on my own at 6 weeks at WTTW as they told me partners weren't allowed, but in fact they were.... so I booked another one for 8 weeks and my partner came and saw it so that was cute!! A February baby will be so special for you 🌈 are the maternity unit going to give you extra support? Xx

[Hayleylou89]

Thanks @Fifol @AliSxo

Im over the moon, this cycle meant so much to me getting pregnant as its not only our due date next week for our baby girl we lost in feb but also our first wedding anniversary and my mums bday so i was able to suprise her with my test and she was absolutely buzzing, Due Feb 21 which is wierd as its the same week my baby girl was born and infact going from my last AF this baby is due the same day 💖🌈💙 Rainbow Baby for sure! 7/2/21

Glad ur pregnancy is going well @AliSxo I just want to click my fingers and be 9 months ill be honest, ill have an early 7 week scan in 2 weeks or so

Xx

[AliSxo]

@Hayleylou89 that's such amazing news!! Congrats you must be so over the moon, I bet you couldn't believe it when the two lines came up!!! Best news that's really made my day!!
I'm 11+3, got my scan on Wednesday 🥰 can't wait!! How are you feeling? Xx

[AB2018]

Anybody got any experience with clearblue early detection tests and faint lines? I tested this afternoon and got a very faint line within 10 minute window but im worried about it being a possible evaporation line?

[AB2018]

Has anyone had any experience with clearblue early detection tests and faint lines? Tested this afternoon and there is a faint line present (very faint) which came up within the 10 minutes but I'm worried it might be an evaporation line 😬

[Fifol]

Congrats @Hayleylou89 that's amazing news best of luck x

[Hayleylou89]

Hey @AliSxo hope ur well thought i give u the good news that this cycle was my cycle 🙏💖💙🌈... after meeting u in sept and going through losses together to come out the other side is a fab feeling! Hope ur pregnancy's is treating u well xxx

[Hopefulll]

Hello all , this is my first cycle TTC and I’m currently 3 DPO - my nerves are shot and I am super sleepy and tired since 1 DPO. I found this support group and I am excited we all can relate. I tracked my cycle for 4 years and my ovulation for 3months using test strips. My AF is due may 21st we shall see!!!

[HalfPenny28]

I keep telling myself the same but it's so hard to remember that all the time - whenever AF turns up I properly wallow for the day. I know in my head it can take up to 12 months realistically but every month we get closer to 12 months I take it harder.

I just have to keep thinking, it will happen, at one point - it will.

Xxx

[Fifol]

Thanks @HalfPenny28. It is so hard. Yeah I'm looking on the bright side at least I can have a glass of wine tonight. Have to keep telling myself it will happen when it's right for us x

[HalfPenny28]

@Fifol oh I'm so sorry 😔 it's the worst thing having AF turn up let alone early - I hope you're okay and take enough time to yourself. Chocolate and Prosecco always helps me!

Another cycle is just around the corner 💕 x

[Fifol]

After awful cramps all night long I've woken up to AF today. Wasnt expecting her til Tuesday. Gutted x

[gingerglitter4ever]

@Fifol hang in there! It isn’t over til it’s over! 🤞🏻

[Fifol]

I've had bad cramps all evening so AF must be on the way 😭😭

[TTCourbaby]

I think I’m due AF mon/ tues if I’m correct and not holding out much hope as we didn’t do the deed when we should have really according to when I ovulated ! I’m rather disappointed as I thought the fertility clinics were back offering services and it seems they are not giving out prescription for OII so now I’m back to have 60-70 day cycles . The tablets ensured a fairly normal cycle.

[gingerglitter4ever]

@Twitchett22 YESSSSS!! Congrats 🥳🥳🥳

I have also taken a break from mumsnet, when AF arrived last cycle I was really sad, but I wanted to venture into using OPK’s and I need your help ladies! Is this positive?

[Fifol]

Hi everyone, how are you all doing? I'm coming to the end of another tww, af due on Monday, I really don't think I'll make it through the weekend without testing!

Hi @Pixielou16 I haven't used those opks only the clear blue smileys sorry I can't help!

[Pixielou16]

Hi everyone! Hope I'm ok to join. TTC #1, cycle #3 (or #5 if you count the two months I was waiting for AF after stopping the pill!) According to Clear Blue digital OPK, I got a static smiley on CD 14, so app thinks I Ovd on CD15. Cheapie OPKs didn't pick that up at all. However, this morning I got a darkening line on cheapie OPK, on CD 19. On previous cycles, I Ovd on CD20, then CD17, so it's hard to judge but the cheapies might be right. Anyone else have experience of Clear Blue saying something different to IC? Premom puts this line at 0.78, which is way higher than the 0.3-4 I got when Clear Blue gave a static. Confused!

[TTCourbaby]

Thanks @becca321 I appreciate that. I haven’t told any of my friends really just my sisters but sure haven’t seen them n weeks so feel like might burst. Hubby is great but I don’t think they will ever fully understand the hurt and pain we go through every month AF arrives. I’m happy taking the letrozole coz at least it keeps cycle more regular. I’m hopeful that we will be pregnant by end of d summer 🤗if not will seriously consider the IVF process

[becca321]

@TTCourbaby feel your pain. I was told I has cysts on my ovaries, we tried for 18 months and had 1 round of clomid that we were told hadn't worked but we found iut we were pregnant 2 weeks after. For my second I found out I was pregnant when I went to use opk's and got a static smile pretty much straight away, did a test the next day and was pregnant. So it can happen. We are now trying again and found out a few months ago my cysts were flaring up. This month everything seems back to normal (touch wood) but havent been able to try this month (which is really disheartening but trying to hold onto the fact everything seems normal and hoping it isn't a one off!) Just wanted to say good luck and dont give up hope, it can happen! Xx